A
admiration, 158
Albright, Madeleine, 22
“All About That Bass” (Trainor), 34
ambition, 57
assumptions
Athena, Greek goddess, 5
Athena Values, 119
attraction and attractiveness
B
C
Capitol Hill staffers, 101
career satisfaction, 43
caregivers, 8
Carli, Linda, 20
Center for Public Leadership, 115
Clinton, Hillary, 104
cognitive abilities, 33
collaboration
command and control management, 43
communal style, 20
communication, 80
companionate love, 157
compensation and raises
competence, 16
competition
confidence
courage, 49
creativity, 43
credit
Crystal, Billy, 36
D
“Daughters” (Mayer), 69
de-catastrophizing, 133
development dilemma, 26
dignity, 30
dismissiveness, 6
E
emotions
equal opportunity, 29
equity, promoting, 63
ethical behavior, 46
Etzkowitz, Henry, 86
everyday Athenas
exclusivity, 91
expectations
experiences, differences between men’s and women’s, 24, 53, 64–67
F
G
gender biases. See biases
gender minefield, 68
gender roles
Gergen, David, 115
global cognitive processing, 35
Goldman Sachs, 93
golem effect, 136
graduate school, biases in, 25
H
I
ideas and contributions, women’s ignored by men, 6
identity
individualism, 87
influence, 53
intelligence, being attractive vs., 37
interpersonal skills, 47
J
K
L
M
Macedonia, Dick, 43
man codes, 46
maternal wall, 133
Mayer, John, 69
Mayer, Marissa, 133
meetings, 93
memory, working, 33
mentors and mentoring
abandoning mentees by, 56
calling yourself “mentor” and, 73
ending the relationship of, 90
excuses for avoiding, 68
frequency of interactions with, 16
long-term relationships with, 98
meetings in, 28
mutual learning in, 80
obligation of, 5
quality of, 13
strengths-based approach to, 48
women as, for other women, 22
mothering, 39
motivation, 11
N
National Center for Faculty Development & Diversity, 123–124
Navy Flight Demonstration Squadron, 3
networks, 10
Nichols, Camille, 147
Nobel laureates, 114
O
P
parental leave, 12
Parsons, Bill, 82
perception
importance of, 5
performance evaluations, 17
persistence, 11
Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 140
pheromones, 34
policies, 133
power
power-down relationships, 146
problem solving, 76
prolactin, 34
promotions, 10
purpose, sense of, 47
R
recognition, 11–12. See also promotions
resentment, 155
resources, unequal access to, 10
Rosenthal, Robert, 135
rule-following, 46
S
Sandberg, Sheryl, 5
scheduling, 101
self-fulfilling prophecies, 58
self-promotion, 17
sex partition, 29
sexploitation, 26
sexual harassment, 29
shame, 13
Shapiro, Pat, 157
silent betrayal, 22
skills. See also competence
social intelligence, 43
Sophocles, 102
spatial visualization, 33
sponsors, access to, 10
Steel, Bob, 93
stereotypes
Sternberg, Robert, 157
sticky relationships, 97
Stroebel, Tabitha, 106
success
support, 108
symphony orchestra auditions, 25
T
teams
tempered radicals, 20
thriving strategies, 103
Trainor, Meghan, 34
transparency
triangular theory of love, 157
trust
U
Ueberroth, Peter, 118
University of Colorado, 73
Utah Women & Leadership Project, 84
Uzzi, Brian, 86
V
W
Y
Yahoo, 133
Z
Zuckerman, Harriet, 114
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