INDEX
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acceptance
achievements, of men
acknowledgment
actions
“act as if” principle
importance of behavior
admiration
advice
affirmations
aggression, responding to
Algren, Nelson
anger, responding to
animation, of voice
appreciation
approval
Arden, Ron
Aristotle
attention
attitude
“act as if” principle and
impact of
Bacon, Francis
Bernhardt, Sarah
Berold, Ivan
Blanchard, Ken
body language
comfort zones and
controlling
head nods in
head tilts in
leaning away
leaning forward
in listening
negative
sitting
standing
whole body
Budgell, Eustace
Bush, George W.
business space
Caine, Michael
Carnegie, Dale
charm
advancement and
applications of
art of
commitment to
impact of
from inside out (American approach)
men and
nature of
from outside in (European approach)
secret of
women and
see also conversation; listening; speaking; telephone conversations
Churchill, Jennie
Clinton, Bill
Coghan, Stanley
comfort zones
compliments
conflict
control
of body language
in conversation
conversation
conflict in
getting in step in
impressing others in
“killing the ball” in
mirroring and matching in
practicing
preparation for
questions in
reading each other in
steering
subject of
see also listening; speaking; telephone conversations
crossing legs/arms
dogs, head tilts of
Emerson, Ralph Waldo
Emotional Intelligence (Goleman)
empathy
endorphins
energy, of voice
examples, using
eye contact
flicking and
in listening to others
look-aside and
in speaking to others
familiarity level
fast talkers
feelings
actions in triggering
details versus
expressing
fillers, excessive
flicking eyes
Franklin, Benjamin
friends, practicing with
Frost, Robert
Gardner, Howard
Goleman, Daniel
Gorbachev, Mikhail
Gorky, Maxim
Greville, Fulke
habits, changing
head nods
head tilts
heuristic cues
Holtz, Lou
Hubbard, Elbert
humor
Huxley, Aldous
impressing others
infection rule
interruptions
avoiding
gentle
intimate space
James, William
Johnson, Samuel
laughing
Lincoln, Abraham
listening
attention in
body language in
in conversation
eye contact in
genuine versus phony
head nods in
head tilts in
impact of
keys to effective
men and
patience and
practicing
in telephone conversations
women and
look-aside
Marden, Orison Swett
matching, in conversation
Mehrabian, Albert
men
charming a man
listening and
Menander
mirroring, in conversation
Montaigne
Morrow, Lance
neurolinguistic programming (NLP)
nodding
noncommital words and phrases
openness
overselling information
paraphrasing
patient listening
pauses
Perot, Ross
personal space
Plato
pleasure, for others
power
of charm
of patient listening
praise
promotions
protected space
Publius Syrus
questions
for clarification
in conversation
for women
reassurances
verbal
vocal
receptivity
reputation, importance of
Roone, Andrew S.
St. John, Seymour
Sanborn, Mark
Seinfeld (TV program)
self-esteem
building others’
at core of personality
of women
self-improvement arena
silence
Simon, Neil
slumping
smiling
social intelligence
social space
speaking
excessive fillers in
eye contact in
pauses in
tempo of
voice quality and
see also conversation; telephone conversations
stories, telling
systematic cues
telephone conversations
clues in
first impressions
giving others what they want
“thank you,” saying
Thokoza
tone of voice
Twain, Mark
unconditional positive regard
verbal reassurances
visualization
voice
quality of
tone of
vocal reassurances
Washington, George
Williams, Cecil
women
body language and
charming a woman
listening and
Zeno of Athens