Notes

Introduction

1 Joseph Campbell, The Power of Myth (New York: Anchor, 1991), p. xiv.

2 Leo Tolstoy, “What Men Live By,” Walk in the Light & Twenty-Three Tales (Maryknoll, NY: Orbis, 2003), p. 121–44.

3 Sheryl Fred, “Can’t Hurry Love,” Science & Spirit 14(1): 38.

4 His Holiness The Dalai Lama and Howard Cutler, The Art of Happiness (New York: Riverhead, 1998), p. 58–59.

5 Ibid., p. 59.

6 Ibid.

7 Fred, “Can’t Hurry Love,” 38.

8 Richard A. Kauffman, “Beyond Bake Sales,” Christianity Today (June 16, 1997): 12.

9 Ibid., 13.

10 Campbell, The Power of Myth, p. 4–5.

11 Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov (New York: Bantam, 1970), p. 935–36.

12 Huston Smith, Why Religion Matters (San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco, 2001), p. 206.

13 Mitch Albom, Tuesdays with Morrie (New York: Doubleday, 1997), p. 43–44.

14 Kauffman, “Beyond Bake Sales,” 13.

Chapter 1 Get in the Boat

1 Mitch Albom, Tuesdays with Morrie (New York: Doubleday, 1997), p. 163.

Chapter 2 Get Over Yourself

1 William Sloane Coffin, The Heart is a Little to the Left (Hanover: University Press of New England, 1999), p. 12.

2 Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov, p. 277.

3 John 13:5

4 Jim Wallis, God’s Politics (San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco, 2005), p. 16.

5 Henri Nouwen, Adam (Maryknoll, New York: Orbis Books, 1997), p. 76.

6 Ibid., p. 90

Chapter 3 Look in Your Hand

1Babette’s Feast, Orion Classics, 1987.

2 Frederick Buechner, The Sacred Journey (New York: HarperCollins, 1982), p. 107.

3 Anne Lamott, Traveling Mercies (New York: Pantheon Books, 1999) p. 68.

4 Henri Nouwen, Reaching Out (New York: Doubleday, 1975), p. 9.

5 Ibid., p. 48.

Chapter 4 Give What You Can

1 Tony Hendra, Father Joe (New York: Random House, 2004), p. 99.

2 Wendell Berry, Jayber Crow (New York: Counterpoint, 2000), pp. 149–150.

Chapter 5 Think Small

1 Anne Lamott, Plan B (New York: Riverhead, 2005), p. 132.

2 Luke 10: 30–37.

3 Thomas Keating, The Kingdom of God Is Like. . . (New York: Crossroad, 1994), p. 19–21.

4 Harold Kushner, How Good Do We Have to Be? (Boston: Little, Brown, 1996), p. 140–41.

5Ibid., p. 63.

6 Huston Smith, Why Religion Matters (San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco, 2001), p. 151–53.

Chapter 6 Be There

1 Harold Kushner, Living a Life That Matters (New York: Knopf, 2001), p. 145.

2 Tony Campolo, Let Me Tell You a Story (Nashville: Word, 2000), p. 216–20.

3 Anne Lamott, Traveling Mercies (New York: Pantheon, 1999), p. 163.

4 Tony Hendra, Father Joe (New York: Random House, 2004), p. 95–96.

5Ibid., p. 269.

6 Henri Nouwen, Reaching Out (New York: Doubleday, 1975), p. 46.

7 Lauren Winner, Mudhouse Sabbath (Brewster, MA: Paraclete, 2003), p. 40–53.

8 Henri Nouwen, Reaching Out, p. 51.

9Hotel Rwanda, film, United Artists, 2004.

10 James Fowler, Stages of Faith (San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco, 1981), p. 203.

11 Harold Kushner, Living a Life That Matters, p. 86–97.

Chapter 7 Lose to Win

1 Viktor Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning (New York: Washington Square, 1963), p. 24.

2 Robert Pirsig, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance (New York: Bantam, 1974), p. 273.

3 Quoted by Scott LaFee in “Fail Safe,” The San Diego Union-Tribune, July 20, 2005, F-1.

4Ibid., F-4.

5Ibid.

6 His Holiness The Dalai Lama and Howard Cutler, The Art of Happiness (New York: Riverhead, 1998), p. 127–28.

7 Dwight Johnson, The Transparent Leader (Mechanicsburg, PA: Executive Books, 2001), p. 15–23.

8 His Holiness The Dalai Lama and Howard Cutler, The Art of Happiness, p. 230–31.

Chapter 8 Love Anyway

1 Matthew 5:44.

2 Philippians 4:6–7, 11–13.

3 Wendell Berry, Jayber Crow (New York: Counterpoint, 2000), p. 142–143.

4 Eugene Peterson, The Message (Colorado Springs: Navpress, 1993), p. 21–22.

5 Anne Lamott, Plan B (New York: Riverhead, 2005), p. 225.

6 Dwight Johnson, The Transparent Leader (Mechanicsburg, PA: Executive Books, 2001), p. 76–86.

7 Gary Morsch and Dean Nelson, Heart and Soul (Kansas City: Beacon Hill, 1997), p. 11.

8 Wendell Berry, Jayber Crow, p. 142.

9 His Holiness The Dalai Lama and Howard Cutler, The Art of Happiness (New York: Riverhead, 1998), p. 302.

10 Leo Tolstoy, Great Short Works of Leo Tolstoy (New York: HarperCollins, 1967), p. 451–500.

11 Philip Gulley and James Mulholland, If God Is Love (San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco, 2004), p. 265–66.

12 Tony Hendra, Father Joe (New York: Random House, 2004), p. 118.

13 Kent Keith, Anyway: The Paradoxical Commandments (New York: Putnam, 2001), p. 105–107.

14 Ibid.

15 Tony Campolo, Let Me Tell You a Story (Nashville: Word, 2000), p. 91.

Chapter 9 Pull Out the Arrow

1 His Holiness The Dalai Lama and Howard Cutler, The Art of Happiness (New York: Riverhead, 1998), p. 246.

2 Malcolm Gladwell, The Tipping Point (Boston: Little, Brown, 2000), p. 259.

3 Madeleine L’Engle, The Irrational Season (New York; Crosswicks, 1977), p. 139.

4 Mitch Albom, Tuesdays with Morrie (New York: Doubleday, 1997), p. 55.

5 Ibid., p. 163.

6 Harold Kushner, Living a Life That Matters (New York: Knopf, 2001), p. 143.

7 Anne Lamott, Plan B (New York: Riverhead, 2005), pp. 307– 308.