PART 3. BRINGING THE TWO WORLDS TOGETHER – PUTTING NLP INTO PRACTICE FOR BUSINESS ANALYSIS

3.1 INTRODUCTION TO PART 3

In this final Part, we get to apply the essence of NLP, established in Part 2, to the behavioural competencies required for effective delivery, established in our review of the role of BAs in Part 1. In my experience, NLP is the most effective toolset for effecting personal change and developing soft skills. Study and practice of these tools and techniques, ideally with coaching and practical training support, will help you to become even more agile in your behaviours, approach and mindset.

The soft skills described in the following sections are not only very important to BAs, but are transferable to other domains including most aspects of your personal life. Of the top 14 most searched topics in People Alchemy for Managers,1 13 are included in this set.

Change management is on that list, and one of the top three headline management issues for leaders in a 2014 BCS survey on IT trends2 was business transformation and organisational change. As I was coaching on transformational change while drafting this book, and it was apparent that a lack of awareness of breadth and depth in change management contributes to high failure rates, I have included a large section on transformational change to give an overview of successful behaviours and tools (see Section 3.18).

It may have come as a surprise to many while reading Section 2.6, that our conscious mind is not actually in charge of what we do. I think of it as the user interface to the complex biological computer that sits behind. I wasted many years trying to intellectualise myself into changing. What we will be changing with the tools and techniques in this Part are behaviours/meta-programs long embedded in the subconscious mind. Many of us working as coaches and counsellors spend a large proportion of our time and effort distracting and disengaging the conscious mind in order to get direct access to the subconscious where we can facilitate change. Hence, when practising exercises like these, disengage your brain – do not think, just do!

Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do.

Bruce Lee

3.2 ADOPTING AN ATTITUDE OF CONTINUOUS PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT

Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren’t used to an environment where excellence is expected.

Steve Jobs, Apple founder and Zen Buddhist

Continuous professional development was specifically mentioned in several competency frameworks for BAs reviewed in Section 1.4.2. In this section we will explore what that means, over and above attending talks and seminars.

In Part 1 I mapped the behavioural competencies for effective BAs onto the EI framework. In subsequent sections, I will demonstrate that NLP can be used to develop all aspects of EI, including those supporting effective business analysis.

3.2.1 Increase your emotional intelligence

EQ, far more than IQ, ordains success, and it can be trained.

Victor Serebriakoff, honorary international president of MENSA, in the Foreword to Self-scoring Emotional Intelligence Tests3

Around 1995, while completing an executive MBA, I came across a newly published book on EI.4 I read the book with great interest and, like Victor Serebriakoff and probably most of the millions of others who read this bestseller, I became convinced that EI was the best indicator of future levels of success in the real world. This has been borne out by many studies, including the lifetime tracking of America’s most intelligent kids through school and their careers. That study concluded that, above the modest intelligence equivalent to a good college degree, your career progression is strongly dependent on your EQ rather than your IQ. This is probably true of your life satisfaction too.

In Malcolm Gladwell’s bestselling book, Outliers: The Story of Success,5 he illustrated quite convincingly that success in any sphere is mostly down to EQ and structured practice. Indeed, it was this book which established the ‘10,000 hours rule’ of experience and structured practice required to achieve mastery in any discipline (see Figure 3.1). Do you think this is true for business analysis?

Gladwell illustrates this theory with a story about Christopher Langan, assessed as the world’s most intelligent person with an estimated IQ of 200, the maximum on standard scales. (For comparison, Einstein had an IQ of ‘only’ 150.) Yet he could not complete his college studies, hold down a job or a relationship. Gladwell parallels this with the story of Oppenheimer, the scientist put in charge of perhaps the biggest and most complex of mega-projects, the Manhattan project to develop the atomic bomb. Oppenheimer was no saint, and was caught poisoning his professor and thus putting him in hospital. Yet he was able to talk his way out of any situation and influence those around him with great success (see Figure 3.2).


Figure 3.1 Many hours of experience and structured practice are necessary to develop behavioural competencies

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Figure 3.2 EQ and IQ are orthogonal

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Gladwell concluded that practical intelligence includes ‘knowing what to say, to whom, knowing when to say it, and knowing how to say it for maximum effect. It is procedural.’ Do you think that ability would be useful to you and those around you?

The last clause, ‘It is procedural’, is particularly significant. When I finished reading that first book on EI I was convinced of my need for development in this area. Unfortunately, as I turned the last page, I realised that the author was merely noting its impact, and had no practical method of improving it. In fact, the general consensus at the time was, like IQ, EQ was more or less fixed. Fortunately, they were wrong, at least about EQ.

In this book I outline a very effective approach of developing all the areas of the EI framework. The following sections illustrate techniques for developing your self-awareness, managing your emotional state, helping you to be more aware of what is going on around you including other people’s drivers and levers, and how to influence others through your use of language, all of which will help you to be a more effective BA. These aspects are mapped out in Figure 3.3.


Figure 3.3 Skills for knowing and managing self and others

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Of course, as we set out, we need to do this in an agile way, cycling through capability levels and embedding new behaviours. As described in Section 1.4, we can even base-line EQ using established methods and demonstrate quantifiable improvements (see Figure 3.4).

There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.

Bruce Lee


Figure 3.4 Emotional intelligence can be improved through a structured approach

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3.2.2 ‘Sharpen your tools’

Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence.

Vince Lombardi, American football player and coach

In Covey’s book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,6 his last habit was what he refers to as ‘sharpening the saw’. I put it as my first behaviour because if we cannot motivate ourselves towards personal improvement then the rest of the book is wasted reading. I relate it by paraphrasing his story:

A man walks to work and notices another man sawing a tree. On the way home he sees that the man is still sawing the same tree. He suggests, ‘Have you thought of sharpening your saw?’ The man replies, ‘I don’t have time to sharpen my saw, I am too busy sawing this tree!’

In my professional life, I often see people who are too busy with the day job to invest in making the day job easier, that is, by developing themselves in parallel through new skills and tools. What proportion of your time do you spend ‘sharpening your tools’?

In my work with the professional bodies, we spent a lot of voluntary effort bringing in a wide range of quality presenters to pass on their substantial experience, but statistics across professional bodies show that engagement with members is consistently below 10 per cent. So, some 90 per cent are always too busy sawing the tree. Bearing in mind that membership of professional bodies is low in the first place where it is not a de facto standard, this means that only a small percentage are actively seeking ongoing development. But do not worry, you picked up the book and so are in the few who want to sharpen the saw. NLP is sometimes called the search for ‘the difference that makes the difference’, so here is the opportunity to really sharpen your saw!

3.2.3 You are the project

We should not judge people by their peak of excellence; but by the distance they have travelled from the point where they started.

Henry Ward Beecher, former US congressman and social reformer

Having spent so much time in change management, I often think of myself as a change management project. As with many change management projects, it is a journey rather than a destination, with many ‘meta-states’ along the way where we pause to consolidate improvements, having achieved our outcomes for the current phase.


Figure 3.5 The DIY change project

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What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.

Zig Ziglar

The more naive recruitment agencies ask for BAs who have worked on exactly the same type of project in exactly the same sector, using the same solution vendor, and so on. In NLP we refer to the sameness / difference preference meta-program. People preferring sameness make good operational managers but are not so good at facilitating change. People sometimes say they have 10 years’ experience, but in reality they may have been doing more or less the same thing for 10 years and learned little since their first year.

To develop your potential, seek out challenges and stretch your zone of comfort. It is not necessary to change sector or even employer to get variety, just seek out novelty and set yourself personal development objectives at the start of every assignment.

Active engagement with professional bodies and communities of practice help enormously to structure your development and provide resources and mentoring.

3.2.4 Believing in yourself and removing limiting beliefs

There is a difference between wishing for a thing and being ready to accept it. No one is ready for a thing until they believe they can acquire it. The state of mind must be belief, not mere hope or wish. Open-mindedness is essential for belief.

Napoleon Hill, author of The Law of Success

Dale Carnegie said: ‘In order to get the most out of this book, you need to develop a deep, driving desire to master the principles of human relations.’7 That is good advice, but how do we develop a deep desire? Reading that statement on the page will not change our identity, beliefs, motivating values, behaviours or meta-programs. So how do we develop that motivation and take away our limiting beliefs?

Beliefs are not fixed, but are plastic and fluid. If we choose to, we can change them at will.

If your mind can conceive it, and your heart can believe it, you can achieve it.

Reverend Jesse Jackson

In Section 2.7 we discussed beliefs. These are usually buried deep in our psyche and we are not aware of them ourselves. They are often evident to others via our language and behaviours. Expressions like ‘I am bad at exams’, ‘I am not good with stakeholders’, or ‘I will never be a good business analyst’, do not just fall out of our mouths, but actually represent deeply held beliefs. We all have these types of thoughts in our psyche to a greater or lesser extent at some time or other.

Exercise 3.1 Changing limiting beliefs

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Sub-modalities were introduced in Section 2.12. The activities in this exercise, that is, changing sub-modalities, are analogous to the very successful fast phobia cure that many of you may have seen on TV carried out by the likes of Paul McKenna. This very visible demonstration of belief change was also the professional starting point for NLP guru Anthony Robbins.8 The exercise is based on the NLP presupposition that we can change the meaning of memories by changing the way we store them and the way that they are represented.9

  1. Think of a recent scenario where the outcome has not been satisfactory. What were you believing about yourself that created the outcome that you got?
  2. Think of the limiting belief that you would like to change.
    1. Close your eyes. Create a picture as you think about it.
    2. Explore all the sub-modalities (pictures, sounds, feelings).
  3. Open your eyes and note down the sub-modalities of the limiting belief (a check-list is shown in Figure 2.14).
  4. Think of a belief that you once held, but that is no longer true for you.
    1. Close your eyes and bring up a picture of this belief. Concentrate until it is vivid.
    2. Explore all the sub-modalities (pictures, sounds, feelings).
  5. Open your eyes and note down the sub-modalities within this belief.
  6. Work out which sub-modalities are different, and make a note of what needs to be changed.
  7. Close your eyes and bring back the picture of the limiting belief.
    1. Change the sub-modalities (from 3 and 4) in turn by making the changes to the picture.
  8. Open your eyes.
  9. Now think about the old belief that you used to have and notice how it is no longer limiting your behaviour.

If you believe you can, or believe you cannot, you are probably right. Henry Ford

3.3 KNOW THYSELF – DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS

He who knows others is wise; he who knows himself is enlightened.

Lao Tzu

Self-awareness was specifically mentioned in the review of competencies for effective BAs in Section 1.4 under the description ‘understanding how others see us’.

Self-awareness means understanding ourselves and our emotions and is the fundamental step to gaining emotional intelligence. Unless we have deliberately studied them, we are mostly unaware of most of our own core behaviours/meta-programs, or the fact that people have markedly different ones from ourselves, as we usually develop them subconsciously at an early age.

‘Know thyself’, said Socrates. But how many of us do? ‘Know thyself? If I knew myself I would run away’, said Von Goethe.

Here are a few descriptions from various texts which relate to self-awareness:

  • reflective, that is, learning from experience;
  • open to candid feedback;
  • open to new ideas and perspectives;
  • aware of our strengths and weaknesses;
  • knowing our limitations, and knowing when and how to ask for help;
  • able to admit mistakes;
  • able to laugh at ourselves (before others do it for us).

In my straw poll of stakeholders, self-awareness was rated the number one characteristic for effective delivery. Hence it sits here, before any other aspect of personal development. If you do not appreciate it yourself, know that people who pay for your services do appreciate it. So do not run away.

I visited the head of capability at one of the big global consultancies several years ago and, rather than attempt to sell myself, I used a tried-and-tested consultancy technique. Since something had already got me through the door, they had obviously seen something they liked, so I asked, ‘What is it about me that you see of value to you?’ (Incidentally, this is a very good technique for convincing a potential client, as they will not resist their own assertions, whereas there will always be resistance to you making your own claims – a sort of one-up on the principle of using third-party advocates and references.) They replied, ‘You are very self-aware, and I want to develop that into my people.’

3.3.1 To see ourselves as others do

The technique of JoHari Windows10 is used to help organisations form a fuller picture of themselves. We can also apply it to ourselves.


Figure 3.6 JoHari Windows

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In one of the four boxes in Figure 3.6, we have what we and others agree about ourselves, that is, largely factual. Then we have the stuff that only we know about ourselves, some of which we may want to keep private. Then we have the more interesting area of what people know or think about us, but we do not know or realise ourselves. This would be what our stakeholders know or think, but want to keep to themselves, or just that we have not got around to asking them. Companies spend a fortune on market research to find out what people think about them and their products. You may think that a company should know everything about its own products, but most realise that ‘the only reality is perception’. Companies also spend a fortune on consultancy, many to confirm what their own employees could have told them. Why?

Oh wad some power the giftie gie us
To see oursels as others see us!
It wad fra monie and blunder free us
An foolish notion.

Robert Burns

Aren’t we supposed to get feedback from our managers? How many managers loathe the annual ritual of giving feedback for fear of causing a scene, and often resort to selecting the middle performance marking and writing something mundane. Why? Because they assume that we do not know how we come across. Is it not much better to get into the routine of seeking feedback at the end of each piece of work rather than waiting for the dreaded annual review?

I was fortunate enough to be in a large multinational that adopted 360 degree appraisals for senior staff. This is where you ask peers, subordinates, managers and customers to give feedback via a standard process/tool and the results are fed back in a structured form. The results can be most illuminating, especially if you treat the exercise as a development opportunity and choose people to respond that you have had misunderstandings with, rather than only people you get on with in order to engineer a flattering score. (Hence it is a bad idea to link 360 appraisals with performance pay, as it ceases to be a development tool, which was its original purpose.)

There are many other tools that can help us to understand ourselves which all have value, including: Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI),11 occupational personality questionnaire (OPQ), de Bono’s Thinking Hats,12 and so on. There are also a number that are useful to understand our natural role in teams, including Belbin.13

When I was interviewed as a program manager for a Swiss airline company, part of the interview was with an occupational psychologist, which I was told was routine in Switzerland for senior posts. They ran a number of tests, and I agreed with the results of all of them. Most surprisingly, the handwriting expert was able to give a very detailed analysis of my inner workings that I agreed entirely with. Interestingly, I never went through any of these types of personality or behavioural tests when I went to high level clearance in the nuclear sector.

3.3.2 Behaviours as meta-programs

What does NLP have to contribute to all of these different types of assessment? Fundamentally, tests such as Myers–Briggs are assessing some groupings of behaviours/meta-programs. More than 60 meta-programs have been identified from composite behaviours.14 The basis of meta-programs was introduced in Section 2.8, but to recap a few points:

  • Meta-programs are one of the sets of filters that we use to create our worldview and deeply affect how we interpret things, for example, whether the glass is half empty or half full.
  • They are systematic and habitual, not random.
  • They can be context specific; that is, different in work or in the home environment.

Exercise 3.2 Meta-programs for business analysis

In Figure 3.7 is a selection of the most relevant meta-programs to BAs. Although shown in pairs, they are analogue rather than binary. Think about your work context and score yourself – which end are you closer to? Remember, like MBTI, there is no right or wrong, just an understanding of your natural inclination; and, unlike the earlier story, it is possible to develop flexibility in your meta-programs if you choose to, as demonstrated later.

Having considered what our preferred meta-programs are, and what the alternatives are, we can use this information to develop more flexible behaviour.


Figure 3.7 Scoring your meta-programs

1 → 10

Proactive

Reactive

Initiates action.

Analyses first then follows the lead from others.

Towards

Away from

Focused on goals.

Focuses on problems to be avoided.

Motivated by achievement.

Internal

External

Has internal standards.

Gets reference externally.

Takes criticism as information only.

Likes direction.

Match

Mismatch

Notices points of similarity.

Notices differences.

General

Specific

Likes to take a ‘helicopter view’ and gets bored with detail.

Likes to work with detailed information and examples.

Options

Procedures

Likes to generate choices.

Good at generating logical flows.

Good at developing alternatives.

Likes to have processes documented.

Associated

Dissociated

Feelings and relationships are important.

Detached from feelings.

Works with information.

Task oriented.

In time

Through time

Lives in the moment.

Good at keeping track of time and managing deadlines.

Creative but poor with deadlines.

Self/Introvert

Other/Extrovert

Need to be alone to recharge batteries. Few relationships with deep connections.

Relaxes in the company of others.

Interested in a few topics but to great detail.

Has a lot of surface relationships. Knows about a lot of things, not in detail.

Sameness

Difference

Likes things to be the same.

Doesn’t like surprises.

Likes challenge.

Looks for opportunities to try new things.

Independent

Cooperative

Wants to work alone.

Wants to work as part of a team.

Wants sole accountability.

Likes shared responsibility.

Person

Thing

Oriented towards people and focuses on feelings and thoughts.

Focused on tasks, systems, ideas, tools.

People are the task.

Getting the job done.

3.4 DEVELOPING AGILITY IN APPROACH AND STYLE

It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.

Charles Darwin

Speaking to colleagues about the trend towards agile development, we concur that, although some people, perhaps more detail, process and logic/AD oriented, are promoting defined methods for agile, it is more about having an agile mindset, as per the Agile Manifesto.15

In discussions with other coaches while developing the contents of this book, we reflected on what the most useful behaviours would be for effective BAs. We concluded that it was not particularly any part of the role, but, rather, the attitude and approach to the role itself.

If we could wave our magic wand, we would help BAs to recognise context and flex to the big picture at will from a natural bias towards detail. The main advantage of this would be when presenting to executive audiences. We cover techniques for ‘chunking up’ to big picture in Section 3.5.

Building on this would be practising adoption of the other person’s perspective. This is a true life skill and occupies much of the territory of the third quadrant of the EI framework on social intelligence. Not only are there benefits in understanding the other person, but also in being able to relate to them more effectively. We will practice tools for adopting the other person’s perspective in Section 3.24.3.

These two aspects together also help us to shift the focus from asset or process to business benefit, which is now included in the scope of BA competency frameworks. As in the current IIBA definition of the role of an effective BA, you need to act as a translator between the business and the delivery capability. To do this you must become fluent in both positions and adept at flexing between the different world-views, behaviours and language patterns. IIBA’s definition of the role of business analysis in v3 goes even further:

Business analysis is the practice of enabling change in an enterprise by defining needs and recommending solutions that deliver value to stakeholders. Business analysis ultimately helps organisations to understand the needs of the enterprise and why they want to create change, design possible solutions, and describe how those solutions can deliver value.16

When you ‘help the organisation to understand’, and ‘describe how solutions can deliver value’, you should provide the translation to their map of the world.

3.4.1 How to assure an agile approach by looking at behaviours

When I was a board member of the professional body, my remit was to sponsor and develop best practice groups, and we launched one on Assurance in 2006. Some excellent work has come out of the group since then, but the growing popularity of agile methods poses some problems for traditional thinkers. For a waterfall approach, assurance is quite straightforward in that you develop a specification and then deliver to it against an agreed plan and budget. For agile, however, the timescale is fixed, our resource pool is assumed fixed, but our scope is variable, and we do not have a forward plan showing all of the activities and when they are supposed to happen. So, how can you and your client have confidence in an agile approach?

Exercise 3.3 Assuring agile behaviours which underpin success

Given that luminaries in the agile world concur that agile is more about mindset than toolset, it follows that, for assurance to be forward looking and provide a measure of confidence in delivery, we should focus on behaviours. So, which behaviours do you think are important to the success of an agile approach? I have started the table in Figure 3.8 from statements in the Agile Manifesto; what behaviours would you add for your team?


Figure 3.8 Agile behaviours underpinning success


Focus on individuals and interactions (over processes and tools)

Customer collaboration (over contract negotiation)

Responding to change (over following a plan)


In the exercise in Section 3.6.4 on developing your team charter, it is not enough to write down only what behaviours we would expect; how would you be able to tell whether people were exhibiting those behaviours? What evidence would you like to see in your team for agile working?

3.4.2 Becoming agile – adapting style to context and environment

Insanity is continuing to do the same thing but expecting to get a different result.

Albert Einstein

One of the presuppositions of NLP, based on the field of cybernetics, is: ‘The person with the most flexibility in a system controls the system.’ This is not about stopping what we were doing. As another presupposition states, All behaviours are useful in some context’, otherwise we would not have embedded them in the first place. When we have problems with behaviour, it is usually that we are transferring a strategy that was successful in the past to a context where it is no longer useful. ‘Choice is better than no choice’; wouldn’t you agree?

Having worked out where your natural preferences are in Section 3.3 on self-awareness, you now have a picture of where you are naturally strong and where you might want to develop flexibility. Alternatively, you could just focus on your strengths and natural preferences.

When we are no longer able to change a situation we are challenged to change ourselves.

Viktor E. Frankl, published psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor

Figure 3.9 illustrates the cycle in which we can start to develop flexibility in behaviours.

Once I have identified a situation in which I am having difficulty, then I identify someone who has achieved success in a similar situation. Ideally, I will look for several people that have solved similar problems in different contexts and in different ways and try to identify common elements to form a new strategy. We can then feed this new strategy into the TOTE model described below, test if it works in a non-threatening environment, and go around the loop until we have sufficient improvement. As we shall see in Section 3.10 on modelling, it is something innate in our nature – NLP just helps to make it more explicit.

3.4.3 The TOTE model – a strategy for personal change

Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.

Leo Tolstoy


Figure 3.9 Adapting style to context

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As human beings, we have strategies for doing everything in life, whether it is motivation, learning, relaxation and even finding love. When things do not work, it means that our strategy is not working in that context. For example, most of us would not talk to our boss in the same way we that talk to our kids, as the context and purpose is different. The TOTE model can help you to understand the current strategy you have, and if it is not working in this context, how you can develop a new strategy. The strategy may be one that is successful for you in another context, for example dealing with your spouse, or from someone that you observe as having success in this area. You may recognise that the TOTE model is widely used in testing, for example whether the code in a computer program actually achieves the desired outcome in real life situations. Here we are applying TOTE to your own strategies/programs to see if they are effective in the context you are applying them.

Exercise 3.4 The TOTE model for internal strategies

  1. Think of an outcome that you want to achieve and are having problems with. Maybe you do not seem to be able to get on with your sponsor, or maybe you have had a series of miscommunications with one user in particular.
  2. Test:
    1. Notice what is happening in the situation. What do you think about the other person? What do they think about you? Are there any peculiarities? Does it remind you of similar situations from your past?
    2. What would be the desired outcome?
    3. What are key differences between what happens and what you want to happen?
    4. What will you notice to be different when things happen the way that you want them to?
  3. Operate: The idea here is to generate different ways of doing things.
    1. Think of another area of your life where you deal with similar situations or where you have achieved similar outcomes.
    2. What were the key features of the successful behaviour?
    3. What are the main differences in behaviour? Maybe what you thought about the person, maybe tone of voice, maybe use of language such as motivation style, or even choice of words.
    4. Identify some aspects of your behaviour and actions in the problem situation that might be changed.
  4. Test:
    1. Ideally in a non-threatening environment or situation, test whether the revised approach has got you nearer to achieving your desired outcome.
    2. If the approach works to some extent, continue to cycle through the TOTE model until you are happy with the results.
    3. If the approach does not work then consider looking for external resources, for example modelling people who do achieve success in this area (see next example).
    4. Future pace. Think about a time in the future that you will have to deal with the same person in the negative situation. Imagine that you have all the new resources from (c); notice how you act differently and, therefore, how the situation will turn out much better.
  5. Exit:
    1. When you are happy with the results then the TOTE model is complete. Were your success criteria met?

I used to clash with the finance department on a regular basis. ‘Why did they need all this information from me, and why don’t they give me reports in the format that I want them?’ The finance department can be a strong ally, but they can also make a bad adversary. Things had to improve.

I realised that I did not appreciate the role of ‘bean counters’, and was going along to meetings expecting a fight in order to put them right. It had not even occurred to me to explore their map of the world, or understand why they were asking me to fill in forms. Outside this minor conflict, relations with others were good.

I decided that the desired outcome was that both parties had to be listened to (rather than me ending up shouting at them). Both parties smiling would be a good indicator of this, followed by common courtesies and show of appreciation for help. When I thought about the ‘test’ part of TOTE, I realised that the present state was vastly different compared to the desired state, that is, neither side was smiling.

I considered how I could reduce the difference between the two states and used the strategy that seemed to be successful for other requests for information, such as with railway enquiries or customer services. On comparison, the two similar situations could not have been approached more differently. My body language, use of words, tone, expectations, and so on were all at opposite ends of the spectrum.

To put this idea into action (operate), I translated the strategy across situations and made a non-urgent enquiry with accounts. (Fortunately, I was able to see a new member of the department, so the relationship was not tainted by previous experiences.) I merely asked for help on how I would go about getting financial approvals, how they could help me, pitfalls to watch out for, and so on. I hope you will not be surprised that the meeting took a completely different tone (test). Having given them personal and professional respect, we had a constructive conversation. Asking for help, instead of telling them what I wanted, removed barriers and built bridges instead.

I could exit as there was no difference between the present state and the desired state.

It was easy to visualise future meetings, where I would go to ask for help, and at worst be redirected (future pacing).

When I was later managing implementations for finance systems, I got to know the world of accounts, processes and financial governance. This gave me an understanding of why they were forced to act as they had. Even later, I ended up as program director with one of the major firms of ‘bean counters’, so we in fact became friends. (Mind you, I seem to have kept the old strategy for dealing with my own bank.)

3.5 SEEING THE BIGGER PICTURE WHILE MANAGING THE DETAIL

In order to properly understand the big picture, everyone should fear becoming mentally clouded and obsessed with one small section of truth.

Xun Zi

We often hear people talking about ‘needing to see the big picture’, but what are they actually talking about? Well, some people at work would naturally see a ‘helicopter view’ of a project, such as purpose, global budget, key stakeholders, rough duration and likelihood of success. Often, they will see this all together in a holistic picture with half a dozen key features. Others would ask to look into the detail of requirements and functional specifications. We need both types of behaviour to deliver a project, though these could be in different team members.

Before you read on, look out of the window for 30 seconds. Now quickly write down the first five things that you remember. Did your words show a clear preference?


Figure 3.10 Finding your preference

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3.5.1 Chunking things up and breaking things down

Details create the big picture.

Sandy Weill, former chairman of CITI Group and author of The Real Deal

It does not matter where we start from in terms of preference for chunk size, as we can arrive at the same place. In NLP, the process of chunking is used extensively to get to the right level of information; for example, chunking up to arrive at a motive in order to establish alternative strategies, or chunking down to arrive at sufficient detail for an action plan. Both have a time and a place.

Nothing is particularly hard if you divide it into small jobs.

Henry Ford


Figure 3.11 Chunking up and down

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In general, project management tools and techniques cater for the two perspectives, especially phasing of a project and use of work break-down structure. Indeed, on reviewing the UK nuclear industry’s £100 billion life-cycle base-line decommissioning program, the whole could be viewed as one entity, important to establish overall budgets and resources for approval, or drilled down through seven layers of work break-down to reveal individual discipline-based work packages in any one of dozens of programs.

3.5.2 Changing meta-programs

We have spoken about the need to develop flexibility, and nowhere is this more apparent than in relation to the meta-program for ‘big picture/detail’. Not only are some tasks more suited to one option than the other, but you will need to reflect the bias of your senior stakeholders when reporting to them and also balance this with the preference of your team.

Do not worry, though you probably have a strong preference, it can be changed at will. (Nearly all of us have a strong preference for using our right or left hand, but you can learn to brush your teeth with the other hand with practice, even though you would never be inclined to do so and it does not feel natural until you have made it routine.)

3.5.3 Communicating with big picture and detail

Do your key stakeholders have a preference for ‘big picture’ or ‘detail’? You are likely to have a mixture of both. You would normally expect to get more ‘big picture’ people higher up the organisation, but this is not always the case, especially where people are promoted within a discipline, for example IT, engineering or finance. Similarly, you would expect to get more ‘detail’ oriented people doing delivery, but I have been caught out by this when working in creative sectors such as digital media. If you do not communicate with them according to their preferences, then it is going to take a while to develop rapport. Have you ever tried to give a 20-page progress report to your sponsor, or five bullet points to an accountant?

Find out what your client’s preference is and communicate with them in their preference, both with written and verbal communication. If you cannot work out your client’s preference, then ask them: ‘How would you like me to present x?’ ‘How much detail would you like me to go into?’ Remember, if you are communicating with a detail oriented person, make sure that you do a thorough spellcheck or your credibility will be severely questioned. (When getting this book reviewed I picked a mix of types. Some advised that I was missing a section while others would pick up on grammar and spelling – we need both.)

Exercise 3.5 Listening and using appropriate vocabulary


Big picture

Detailed

Summary

Precisely

Overview

Schedule

In a nutshell

First, second, next…

Generally

Plan

3.6 GETTING RESULTS WITH DIFFERENT CULTURES

You would expect different cultures to develop different sorts of ethics and obviously they have; that doesn’t mean that you can’t think of overarching ethical principles you would want people to follow in all kinds of places.

Professor Peter Singer, philosopher at Princeton University

Cultural and political awareness were specifically listed in the review of behavioural competencies for BAs in Section 1.4. The wider topic of social awareness is one of the quadrants of the EI framework.

3.6.1 Better together

Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success.

Henry Ford

One risk affecting more projects is increased off-shoring, near-shoring and on-shoring, leading to miscommunications from different language and behavioural styles.

Professor Rodney Turner reviewed data on the abilities of different cultures to perform projects,17 and noted that the Western philosophy of project management did not fit with some cultures. Using some standard parameters for measuring cultural differences, he established that different cultural outlooks were more suited to different phases of the life-cycle. I like this perspective as it reinforces the fact that a diverse group, as long as they have mutual respect and work as a team, creates a stronger entity. He noted that Eastern cultural attitudes were much more suited to initiation and roll-out phases, while Western cultural attitudes were more suited to delivery phases. So, from the table in Figure 3.12, an ideal scenario might be to think like a Latin woman for the initiation stage, turn Anglo Saxon for planning and execution, then Arabic for termination. In other words, you are going to be more successful the more flexible you are.


Figure 3.12 Preferred cultural approach at different stages of the project life-cycle

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In her book on the power of the introvert, after pointing out that a cult of the extrovert has ingrained its way into Western societies in recent decades, Susan Cain points out that the role of the quiet, introverted expert is still well respected in Eastern cultures.18

We should not pre-judge individuals by their cultural stereotype, but if we treat cultural differences as if they were not there, we will end up disappointed at best. With the growing reliance on multi-country and multi-cultural delivery, I am being asked to facilitate workshops helping teams to work better together, a kind of ‘project kick-off +’ workshop, though they have usually already attempted to kick off and re-started when difficulties have emerged.

I was called in to one global company, which was Indian owned but with headquarters in London and operations in the Americas. The newly appointed global head of projects had been asked by the new CEO, both from England, to consolidate all project groups and activities across all project types across all countries to create a portfolio management capability. The problem was, people just did not seem to want to do what they were asked and started to become entrenched in whose fault it was. People did not turn up on time for meetings, reports were not submitted, processes were not followed, and so on. This was taken as evidence of unprofessional conduct.

The opportunity was created to get representation from each of the regions in the same room. To me, it seemed evident that the problems arose from a lack of appreciation of the different maps of the world, or even lack of appreciation that there were different maps of the world. Since we were in effect initiating a change program, I took the opportunity to get them to co-create a team charter. The organisation actually had a very good set of corporate values which everyone could buy into. Differences soon surfaced, however, on the behaviours behind those values. The action of one, with good intent, might be taken as a slight by another. Showing respect by remaining with the person you were talking to was disrespect to the person you were late for. Sending report templates to help standardise could be interpreted as undermining trust in ability. Centralisation of process might hamper the way you got things done in another country. Any of this sound familiar yet? As time to get results was short, I facilitated a process of finding accommodations. Having emphasised the source of conflict and the desire to be better together, the result was inevitable. Once everyone started to appreciate that they saw the world differently, the team started to gel.

The effort required to integrate teams can be overlooked when we are asked to migrate diverse organisations onto common platforms and systems. How can you start to resolve differences in your team and find accommodations?

Think about where your preference lies, then think about where that of other parties might be. Better, why not do it together. The simple act of exploring it, working together and appreciating difference will work magic. Better still, put a motivating frame around it such as: ‘In order to work even better together, would you like to explore our different behavioural preferences and how we might make a stronger team?’ How would that make you feel?

3.6.2 When yes might mean no

The art of leadership is saying no, not saying yes. It is very easy to say yes.

Tony Blair

I was speaking to the head of delivery of an international telecoms company recently who was saying that he was having trouble trusting the on-shoring team because, although they always agreed, sometimes they did not deliver.

It reminded me of when I was working in the nuclear industry, back in the days when most people did not travel much, and our biggest clients were Japanese utilities. I was being considered as the new head of the Japanese office and was speaking to some of the people who had progressed through that office. One of them, who went on to be head of site, advised me, when in Japan, never to ask a question for which the answer might be ‘no’. He related the story of when he was in a restaurant there and ordered a specific fish. After a long time waiting, their guide advised him to order something else. Of course, staff had already made subtle hints, but too subtle for his Western ear. As explained to him after the event, they probably felt that they would have lost face by telling him that they did not have what he wanted. I think the world has moved on since, but loss of face remains a big factor in many cultures. He explained how it became a subtle art, like solving a riddle, as to how to infer a ‘no’ without getting them to say it (for example, ‘would you recommend this fish today or a different one?’).

Compare ‘Will this be ready by tomorrow?’, with ‘Given your expertise and experience, when could we guarantee this will be ready?’ Which question type is likely to give the most reliable answer?

Do you think there are different shades of ‘yes’? Usually, I am sure that when you say ‘yes’ you fully intend to deliver on your promise. Sometimes, perhaps out of a work context, have you ever said ‘yes’ while perhaps not being fully committed? How about imagining shades of ‘yes’ from:

Yes, absolutely – I will do my best – I will try – if I can make time – I will add it to my list – yes, I hear you – yes, please go away and bother someone else – NO!

Knowing this, how might you tell which yes you are getting?

We run this as an exercise in workshops where you think of how you might say ‘yes (definitely), yes (maybe) or yes (not likely)’ and your partner has to guess which one you are saying. How successful do you think you can be when you really focus on listening to the other person instead of assuming the answer you want?

3.6.3 Cultures within organisations

Preservation of one’s own culture does not require contempt or disrespect for other cultures.

Cesar Chavez, civil rights activist

Of course, we do not have to cross national boundaries to find different cultures. Cultures vary across sectors, organisations and functional groups. How different do you think the cultures of departments for finance, HR, marketing and IT might be? Do we ever implement projects across these boundaries? Of course we do, but how do we go about encompassing these different cultures in our communications?

The first stage is to recognise that, without crossing international borders, we are entering a different cultural group and should modify our language and behaviour to get quicker and easier engagement.19 The approach remains constant in becoming inquisitive as to their map of the world and how it differs from ours and then tailoring our message to it. Using the techniques described for developing rapport quickly in Section 3.20, especially looking for common ground, is an essential preface to get off on the right foot.

What makes up our maps of the world? Aside from differences in our meta-programs and our preferred representational systems, our values and beliefs really shape how we react to things. If you trespass on someone’s belief system, then they are likely to get emotionally involved. How do you find out about people’s maps of the world quickly?

Prior to the days of Wikipedia, a colleague from my executive MBA worked as a salesman for Encyclopaedia Britannica. I asked him his top tips for sales and he confided in me that he used a lot of NLP, not to influence but to understand. He said he gave himself 30 seconds to understand the potential buyer’s map of the world before deciding whether to walk away or commit to make the sale. Specifically, if education and their children did not seem important to the prospective buyer, and they had no aspiration for their children to progress to university, then he would decide to quickly move on to his next prospect. Lesser skilled colleagues would waste potentially productive time hanging in to try to close a sale. (He is now a director at a head-hunting firm placing CIOs.)

You do not have months or years to work out your stakeholders’ maps of the world as you might in operations, but you do have a lot longer than 30 seconds. How might you go about it? What kind of questions are you going to ask? How about some questions like these:

  • What is it you value about the work of your department?
  • How do you believe this process/system/project might help you?
  • What is it specifically that you are interested in?
  • Is there anything we could do to help you to create more value?
  • How would you like us to involve you?
  • How would you like us to keep you informed?
  • Will you help us to spread the word to your colleagues?
  • Is there anything else we should know?

If you were asked these questions by someone who had already established some measure of rapport with you, how would it make you feel? That you were involved? That they were trying to be helpful? Would you be tempted to contribute in some way?

3.6.4 Co-creating a team charter to help bridge the cultural abyss

The best way to predict the future is to create it.

Peter Drucker, management guru

Co-construction of a team charter is an excellent way to get any initiative off to a great start.20 I have seen very wordy documented team charters, but I much prefer something created in real time using mind-mapping software or even whiteboard/flip charts.

I focus on getting participation and buy-in. Ask questions which help to reveal differences in world-views to make this apparent to all parties so that they realise we are looking for understanding and accommodation, not a set of house rules. I ask questions such as:

  • How do you feel if someone doesn’t remember your name?
  • How do you feel if someone is late for a meeting with you, or forgets?
  • How do you feel when someone doesn’t supply you with information when they promised?
  • How do you feel when you can’t seem to get sign-off?
  • How do you feel when your team members turn in shoddy work?
  • What do you like most about working on projects and in teams?
  • What things annoy you most when working in teams and projects?

Notice, I ask a lot of questions based on ‘how do you feel...’ as no one can argue with the way you feel.

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

Maya Angelou, international human rights activist and author

I am looking to construct, in some form or another, information similar to that captured in the table at Figure 3.13. But the content is not important once it is written down; the most important thing is to co-create it in order to get buy-in. Better, if you get a physical copy in draft during the meeting, even if on a flip chart or whiteboard, and each person commits to physically signing up to it. It is your contract and understanding as to how you want to work better together. This approach has been very successful in co-creating a joint team from different partnering organisations to help resolve different organisational drivers from parent organisations.


Figure 3.13 A simple team charter

Our brand and identity statement:

‘We are…’

Common values

Behaviours we expect to observe supporting those values

Value 1

Behaviour x

Behaviour y

Value 2

Plan

Value 3

Do you see the value in co-creating a team charter? Do you have a team charter? Do you want one?

3.7 FLEXIBLE APPROACH TO TIME – HOW TO BALANCE BEING ON TIME AND ‘IN THE MOMENT’

How does a project get to be a year behind schedule? One day at a time.

Anne Wilson Schaef, The New York Times bestselling author

Have you ever noticed how some people always seem to be behind the clock, constantly rushing, often late, while others seem to cruise through life? Have you noticed that some people get reports in on time while others have to be chased? Some people produce a schedule, while others are reluctant to even rough a plan, let alone work to one? On the other hand, which are the people that you would pick to engage a difficult stakeholder, or speak to the unions about a change program? Maybe some of the same people who do not plan?

The essential skill for time management is to be able to assume a ‘through time’ position. The irony of many time management courses is that they are written by ‘through time’ people for ‘through time’ people. They make little sense to people who are predominantly ‘in time’, yet they are the ones who really need time management tools. (If operating ‘through time’, you are mismatching people who are ‘in time’, out of rapport and so the communication is likely to fail anyway.)

In this section we will look at our natural orientation to time and practise techniques for changing orientation to context.

3.7.1 NLP timelines

Timelines were briefly introduced in Section 2.16. The NLP meta-program for time helps us to determine which groups people naturally fall into (see Figure 3.14). Like all meta-programs, however, note that they are context-based, so you may behave differently in work situations than in leisure situations. If so, all the better, as you have a good basis for flexibility.

Exercise 3.6 Determining your timeline

  1. Close your eyes and imagine a line containing your past and your future.
  2. Does the line pass through you or not?
  3. Is your past behind you or not?

For through time:

  • Timeline lies outside your body.
  • Often the past is to your left and the future to the right.

In time:

  • Timeline passes through your body
  • Often the future is in front of you and past behind.

Which type are you?


Figure 3.14 Different timelines

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3.7.2 How to be in time, on time

So, now you know what your normal timeline is. Rather than just give you an excuse for not planning, or not being good at one-on-one situations, the main purpose of NLP is to develop flexibility. Wouldn’t it be good to choose which timeline you are operating on depending on the task? Well, you can change your timeline because you created it in the first place and can recreate it if you choose.

You can change the orientation of your timeline so that you can experience a different mindset without changing any of the individual memories and events that your timeline is made up of (see Figure 3.15).

I personally found these exercises very useful, but was taken aback by the widespread sharing of techniques to be ‘in time’, that is, ‘in the moment’, more of the time. Maybe it is something about the world we choose to live in, or its impact on our lives outside work.


Figure 3.15 Choosing timelines

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Exercise 3.7 Changing your timeline

If you are a goal-oriented person who generally operates through time, but you want to operate in time for a delicate meeting, you can, with practice.

  1. Close your eyes and imagine your timeline. For through time, this will generally be in front of you running left to right (or vice versa).
  2. Now step on to the timeline.
  3. Give yourself a minute to adjust as it can be disorientating, especially as you become more practiced at the switch.
  4. How does that feel? You may feel more grounded, more in the moment.
  5. Turn your head so that it faces your future. Imagine your future.
  6. Now rotate your head so that your timeline is running from your future, through your body, to your past.
  7. Take a moment to reorient.
  8. Immerse yourself in your planned task and let time slip away. (I like to imagine a clock melting away like a Dali painting while I am doing this.)
  9. Now open your eyes.

Conversely, if you are generally an ‘in time’ person but you have a deadline to meet, you may wish to choose to operate ‘through time’ for a period.

  1. Close your eyes and imagine your timeline. For in time this will generally be running through your body.
  2. Now step to the side, off your timeline.
  3. Give yourself a minute to adjust as it can be disorientating, especially as you become more practiced at the switch.
  4. You may feel a little more objective, a little more able to take an overview.
  5. Turn your head to look up and down your timeline, which will now be in front of you. You are now observing time and have control over it.
  6. Imagine your task superimposed along this timeline, with key activities laid out in the correct order.
  7. Feel your internal clock running like your own metronome.
  8. Now open your eyes and let your internal clock guide you through the day. As you go through your day, think about the most appropriate way to be operating with regards to time according to what you are trying to achieve. Practise the technique and the changes will move from subtle to dramatic. Being in time or through time is a choice, not who you are.

3.7.3 Gaining rapport through matching timelines

Have you realised yet how much easier it would be to gain rapport and understanding with other people if you could match their timeline? It is difficult to explain to someone who is ‘in time’ while being ‘through time’, and vice versa. Some of the give-aways for which timeline people generally operate in are shown in Figure 3.14. You can find out a lot about how people think about time, together with their critical sub-modalities, by listening to their language, for example:

  • It was in the dim and distant past.
  • He has a bright future.
  • I am looking forward to a holiday.
  • Put the affair behind you.
  • Time is running out.
  • Time is on my side.

Think of one of your key stakeholders. Recall how they behave and what they say. Do you think that they operate in time or through time? How could you check? What might you do before your next meeting?

3.7.4 Use of future pacing and ‘as if’ reframes to aid problem solving

In several of the exercises in this book you will see the final stage being to ‘future pace’, that is to imagine yourself in the problem situation in the future and imagine how you would react with the clarity and changes of mindset from the exercise. This is similar to one of the exercises on reframing, where we act ‘as if’ something has already happened, then test our reaction while looking on it with a different mindset. The advantage of going to a future state is that it dissociates the individual from difficult situations. Just as we can have 20:20 hindsight, it also allows people to move past obstacles that they cannot resolve when the obstacles are in front of them.

Things work out best for those who make the best of how things work out.

Zig Ziglar

Exercise 3.8 Future pacing

  • Imagine a problem/obstacle preventing project completion.
  • Now imagine you have successfully finished the project and are at the lessons learned/celebration meeting.
  • Looking back:
    • How did you solve it?
    • Who helped you?
    • What was the critical step?
    • What was the one thing that you had to do to move forward?

Conversely, verb tenses can be used for putting a problem into the past, for example: ‘That has been a problem, wasn’t it.’ Note that the grammar is purposely mixed to confuse the conscious brain so that the instruction to put things in the past can speak directly to the subconscious. A slight change of emphasis also acts as instruction.

3.8 PLANNING FOR SUCCESS – LOOKING BACK FROM THE FUTURE USING PRE-MORTEM

Tomorrow belongs to those who prepare for it today.

Malcolm X

Too many projects fail, but most of these can be avoided by a simply using a pre-mortem, adopting the NLP concept of future pacing.

As a ‘Gateway Reviewer’ for mega-projects and high risk projects across the UK plc estate, as well as spending a lot of time on intervention and turnaround, I see more than my fair share of project failure. Often I am surprised that the high failure rates which are widely reported are not even higher. The saddest part for me is that the reasons for failure were probably knowable and avoidable from the outset.

We know why projects fail; we know how to prevent their failure; so why do they still fail?

Cobb’s Paradox

This means that when projects do fail, sacrificial lambs are easy to find. When your project has failed, you will probably do a post-mortem to find out what went wrong anyway, so why not do it up-front instead and either save your resources by not starting or manage-out the risks that might knock your train off the rails?

How can we implement the lessons learned before we start the project? In the NLP world we often use the technique called ‘future pacing’ to get our clients to imagine themselves in the future, both to mentally rehearse going through the steps to get there and also to look backwards to help the imagination create insights about what must be done to get them there. Imagining we are in the future beyond the problem helps to set our thinking free and unleash our imagination.

Exercise 3.9 Carrying out a pre-mortem

Set time aside. You can do this exercise quite quickly, but half a day to avoid failure is a good investment. Think of a venue, ideally away from the work environment as you want people to speak freely and be unconstrained (as you read in Part 2, physical locations like the workplace anchor behaviours).

Pick people. Between 6 and 12 is a good number to get enough ideas without losing contributions from the quieter ones in the group. You will want a range of perspectives and thinking styles in the room. Now would be a good time to get your client/end user in the room. Also get your critics and ‘black hats’21 in the room. Maybe you should even consider inviting Cassandra.22

If you do not have a good facilitator, then bring one in – the project and people’s time are valuable, so do not waste them in order to save a tiny fraction of a per cent of the project value. A good insurance policy is worth the investment.

Tell people why they are here: to help the project to succeed, and success is thinking about as many ways as possible of why the project might fail. Or, rather, to work out, from a future perspective, why the project might fail.

Set the stage – people are most creative when they are having fun, so why not get into the spirit and play-act a little. (How would a ‘who dunnit’ murder mystery, or even a funeral ‘wake’, where people reminisce about the dear departed, stimulate the creative process?)

I use ‘spatial anchors’ to separate out the present and the future in different locations on the floor. In the future spot it is useful to have a flip chart to record ideas, and when we come back to the present we will have another flip chart making action plans for the present.

Initially, I use some Milton language and deliberately confuse timelines to improve chances of side-lining people’s conscious minds and assisting creative thinking. Something like, ‘Are you curious as to why, in the future, we will look back to when the project was to be implemented; and think about what we could be doing now; and wonder what people will say about why the project failed; and do those things now that will help future success’ (no question mark, i.e. no inflection in voice).

Now I play-act a short story to get us from the present to a safe distance in the future. ‘We are here today [standing on spatial anchor for the present] to have some fun, by imagining [while walking slowly across to spatial anchor for the future] that we have miraculously been transported to the future, at the company’s expense, business class, to look back on our project. And moving forward [while walking], through requirements, specification, design, build, test and roll-out. But the project failed [pause at half way mark]. But five years beyond that, when we have moved on to other successful projects, and maybe met up again like this [now on the future anchor], and look back at today [looking across at present anchor], what are the things, with the benefit of hindsight, that might have been the cause of failure. Shall we see if we can work it out between us?’

Pick someone out to start who is likely to make a good contribution to get things started. We are in brainstorm23 mode, so do not allow filtering or critique of people’s contributions. Use your facilitator’s skills to draw out reasons from everyone, especially those who might usually be quiet or reserved. Conclude with, ‘So, is our reason for failure in that list, or are we still missing something? And if we were missing something, what might it be?’

Now we return to the present. ‘So, coming back to today, here in this room, now [while walking to the anchor spot for the present]. Looking at that list, given to us with the benefit of 20:20 hindsight, is that a good list, does it contain that gold nugget that will save our project?’ Take confirmation, or recycle back to the future anchor and extract additional learnings.

Next we deal with each of the un-filtered ideas on the flip chart and quickly filter them for likely probability and impact, as we would do in a traditional risk workshop. From the refined list, we can then task pairs or groups to work up initial ideas for mitigation plans for remaining items. If time is short, this can be done by a sub-group after the event.

Bring the session to an end by thanking everyone for their input and creativity and pledge to work up the outputs to improve the risk register.

If you have found the thing that everyone knew but no one wanted to talk about, the elephant in the room, or some other nugget, then you will have saved everyone from a lot of wasted effort and maybe saved your project. Wasn’t that much better than waiting a while to present at the project autopsy?

If there was nothing new, then you have done a fantastic job at project assurance, done an excellent job at stakeholder engagement with your client, and carried out a first class team-building event– well done!

The process of ‘future pacing’ helps us to gain emotional distance to speak freely. If you are new to this game it may sound fanciful, but the results are well researched by Daniel Kahneman.24 If you are not yet brave enough to try it out, you can start with a tame version from the Harvard Business Review25 based on research at the University of Colorado in the late 1980s.

When working in the automotive industry we carried out an engineering technique with some similarities called Failure Mode Effects Analysis (FMEA), where you predict what symptoms a failed component might display, once built and in operation, and then work backwards to identify candidates for the root cause. From there you go into re-design, and work out tests to identify and eliminate root causes should symptoms manifest in operation.

A fellow author related to me a second hand story about a similar kind of workshop for Richard Branson’s Virgin Galactic project. I have to admire a man for whom the epithet, ‘The sky is the limit’ is not empowering but a limiting belief! For him it was a window to an opportunity for a new line of business. What could go wrong?

Well, his team did not find it difficult to come up with a few potential showstoppers: they did not have a space plane, if they built one it might blow up, they might not get a licence to fly a commercial plane in space, they did not have a space port, no customers, no money … ‘Enough,’ he cried, counting the risks and issues and the number of people around the table. ‘Right, you [pointing], sort the funding out, you get me a space port, you build me a space plane, you make sure it doesn’t blow up, you get it licenced … Well that was easy.’ I saw their program manager present at APM’s annual conference in 2011; they had funding, customers, a futuristic spaceport in New Mexico, and a space plane which hadn’t blown up when I first wrote this as a blog.26 (OK, so the project is really behind and the customers have not flown yet, but they still seem happy, because their imagination bought into a story.)

Do you or your sponsor or any of the other senior stakeholders have an uneasy feeling about any of your projects?

I was invited to give a talk to a large community of practice and spoke on the topic of a forthcoming book, How to Make all Your Projects Succeed.27 I had trained many of the people in the room, so was intent on ‘walking the talk’ and demonstrating some of the NLP tools and techniques on public speaking, presenting yourself and use of stories and metaphors, so I was actually training while talking. For emphasis, I focused on five topics. Afterwards, one of the earlier speakers, who had presented lessons learned on a major project failure, confided to me, ‘I spotted four of the five reasons in my feedback report.’ I had spotted all five while the project was still alive, so it was little surprise to most people that the project failed.

Would it be useful to give yourself and your sponsor assurance through a technique like this? So that you can honestly say after the event, ‘it was not foreseeable’?

There are known knowns. These are the things that we know that we know. There are known unknowns. That is to say, there are things that we know we don’t know. But there are also unknown unknowns. There are things that we do not know we do not know.

Donald Rumsfeld, former US Secretary of Defence

3.9 DEVELOPING FLEXIBILITY IN LEADERSHIP STYLE

There is nothing more difficult to take in hand, more perilous to conduct, or more uncertain in its success, than to take the lead in the introduction of a new order of things.

Niccolo Machiavelli

‘Leadership and influencing’ is one of the three core skills assessed for the ‘Expert BA’ qualification. Leadership invariably comes up when I ask audiences for the key behavioural competencies. But that label means different things to different people, in different cultures, and indeed morphs over time. Historically, in most cultures leaders were born into position, and in the past our military officers could only gain that rank through birthright rather than ability or experience. Note how such world-views have moved on in the light of overwhelming experience over the last century. Now, it is widely appreciated, and readily measured, that high scores for EI make for better leaders as well as all round better performers.

3.9.1 The rise of emotional intelligence in leadership

I think for leadership positions, emotional intelligence is more important than cognitive intelligence. People with emotional intelligence usually have a lot of cognitive intelligence, but that’s not always true the other way around.

John Mackey


Figure 3.16 Schools of leadership

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Professor Rodney Turner observes that there is little work setting leadership in projects within the context of the emotional intelligence school, but there is a significant relationship between project success and inner confidence and self-belief.28 The latter element is what NLP refers to as the self-reference meta-program (as against the opposite, external reference). Note that self-reference tends to make people more resilient, though less open to feedback.

Turner also observes that, while some say leaders are born not made, and some people are naturally more suited to leadership than others, everyone can improve their leadership skills.

My hope was that organizations would start including this range of skills in their training programs – in other words, offer an adult education in social and emotional intelligence.

Daniel Goleman

3.9.2 Six styles of leadership

As we look ahead into the next century, leaders will be those who empower others.

Bill Gates

Turner wrote a comprehensive series on leadership in the project context based on research as to whether different leadership styles influenced project success, and whether different leadership styles were more appropriate to different types of project.29 There is no right or wrong style, only the wrong context. I think each of these styles has use for some types of project in some situation or other. What is your preferred style?


Figure 3.17 Six styles of leadership

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Source: Compiled from leader articles in The Sunday Times, January–March 2008.

Reflecting on the past, do you think you have flexed your style to situations and been as effective as you could be? What style do you think works best in an agile environment? Looking to the future, can you think of a situation where you might want to flex your style?

At times in my career my strategy was so forceful and aggressive that I effectively bludgeoned dissenters and got my own way without taking any prisoners (including the client on some occasions). This might kindly be referred to as an extreme instance of the ‘directive’ style of leadership. The directive style can be useful in turnaround situations and projects where there is no clear plan and lack of direction. When I moved on to change management projects, however, I quickly realised that this approach was not achieving desired outcomes. I had to learn to do things more elegantly; that is, develop more flexibility in style and approach. If we do not adapt our style to the situation, aside from achieving limited success, we are liable to suffer excess strain and burn-out.

Reflecting back, I can see a progression in my career from a pure directive style, through pacesetting to be more facilitating. I now focus on spending more of my time in a coaching style. Of course, that is my own opinion. In a survey by the CMI Institute, most managers said that they used a coaching style, yet replied that their managers used a directive style. Perhaps CMI members are truly different, but perception obviously comes into it. There is in fact no best style of leadership, as it should be contextual. So, how do you plan to become more agile in your leadership style?

3.9.3 Supervising, managing or leading – what got you here might not get you there

Leaders are people who do the right thing; managers are people who do things right.

Warren Bennis, leadership guru

I was in the headquarters of a professional body when someone asked the question in relation to an application for chartered status, ‘Can I put my time as a supervisor down under leadership experience?’ ‘Yes’, came the reply. I disagree; though both have a part to play, leading and supervising are poles apart. If someone is not sure what they are doing and does not know how to do it, then we might have to give them detailed instructions if we are short of time in order to meet a deadline. Ideally, we would have sufficient time to bring them up to speed and coach them to an acceptable standard.

When I started my career, I was informed about ‘The Peter Principle’,30 which says that people are promoted to a level at which they become incompetent, and then they do not rise any more. Years later, Marshal Goldsmith, probably the most influential executive coach in the Western hemisphere, penned the bestseller, What Got You Here Won’t Get You There.31 Basically, you need to stop doing some of the behaviours that served you in the past in order to adopt those which will serve you in the future.

This reminds me of a story I was told on my slow path towards enlightenment in martial arts. A novice in a Shaolin Buddhist temple, perhaps Kwai Chang Cain himself, goes to have tea with the wise old monk (a man as bald and eminent as Marshal Goldsmith himself). The novice holds out his cup for tea. The monk delicately pours tea, and continues to pour. Eventually, still holding a serene smile that only an enlightened one can, the monk pours until the cup overflows. The novice, at first reluctant to interrupt the monk, now says, ‘Master, there is no room in the cup for more tea!’ To which the master replies, ‘So student, how will you empty your cup to receive the new knowledge that you seek?’

Exercise 3.10 Progressing from supervising to leading

  1. Look at the mix of words below

    checking quality describing tasks listing activities describing a vision disciplining staff coaching managing your state managing stakeholders using stories and metaphors

  2. Where do you think these fit along the path from supervising to leading?

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  3. On that continuum, where do you see yourself now?
  4. Where do you think others see you?
  5. Where do you see yourself in the future?
  6. Before you take on those new behaviours ahead of you, what behaviours which served you in the past might it be worth doing less of in order to practice more of the behaviours which will serve you in the future?
  7. When will you start on your future path and let go of what got you here?

Your attitude determines your altitude.

Zig Ziegler

During training courses, we do a kinaesthetic version of this exercise where we get delegates to write words associated with supervising, managing and leading and place them on a continuum on the floor. We then walk along this timeline to where they think others see them, envisioning letting go of some of the behaviours behind them in order to focus on the behaviours in front of them. The effects have proven to be profound. Why do you think it works?

So, should a BA/change manager be a manager or a leader? I think an effective change manager requires awareness of the context in order to flex between managing and leading depending on the activity being undertaken. Does the table in Figure 3.18 reflect your map of the world?

How can you spend more time on leading change?


Figure 3.18 Change managers need to be both managers and leaders depending on context

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3.10 MODELLING EXCELLENCE

Modelling is the pathway to excellence.

Anthony Robbins

Do you know any really good BAs, or ones that do some aspect of the job really well, for example run a workshop? You are in luck, as the primary approach of NLP has been to model effective behaviours. I gave a brief introduction to modelling in Section 2.17, and will now introduce the practical steps of modelling. Please note, however, that effective modelling requires a number of competencies in itself, some of which have been introduced to this point, but it is not usually taught until Master Practitioner level. Of about 50 NLP books on my shelf, half only mention modelling in passing and the rest contain only a cursory outline for modelling of simple strategies. Proper coverage, aside from facilitated practice, needs a book all to itself. The pioneering work for modelling in business was by Robert Dilts,32 based in large part around modelling of leadership skills at Fiat. My own modelling project, on entrepreneurs in the project management sector, took over a year to complete and achieve my desired outcomes. But BAs are clever people, and we are already familiar with modelling, so we will make a start.

Nothing in the world is difficult if you break it down in to small enough steps.

Henry Ford

3.10.1 From complex behaviour to modelling of simple strategies

Many areas of excellence that we experience are complex composites of many beliefs, values, behaviours and skills. For example, ‘presenting’ could be broken down into a number of components, such as: presenting yourself, engaging your audience, use of language, projecting your voice, dealing with questions, use of tools such as PowerPoint, and so on. The more finite the process is, then the better your chance of achieving the same outcome.

Where you are trying to master a larger topic, some success can be achieved by spending a lot of time with people who are experts and subconsciously mimicking what you see and hear. Some of your preference for approach will depend on your own meta-programs; for example, for process, big picture, and so on. For martial arts, this is equivalent to just mimicking the master, which was the common form of instruction when it originated. For BAs, I certainly recommend spending time with your peers and getting involved in best practice groups. Aside from picking up knowledge, some of the behaviours will ‘rub off’.

Think of a simple skill that you would like to learn; for example, remembering names. I use this as a warm up for my training as usually, at most, only one person in the group might consider themselves good at remembering names, even though all agree that it is important in building rapport. At the end of the exercise, most people remember all the names in the room.

My first experience of explicit modelling was in the early 1990s. In the days before mobile phones, I was not comfortable using the telephone, but had the fortune to witness a colleague in the PMO who appeared confident and achieved good results. I will use this example for illustration in the process below. Please note that, although the process is shown linearly and can be read through in a minute, it usually requires repeat cycles for you to be able to replicate the skill. Yet more time and practice is required to move it from being consciously competent to a subconscious and internalised skill. The true test of whether you have accurately modelled a skill is whether you can transfer it to a third party. Of course, it can all happen much quicker with appropriate facilitation. Remember that it is your job to discover what it is the person is doing to be successful because they will not have conscious awareness of it.

Exercise 3.11 Modelling process for a simple strategy

  1. Identify a gap or improvement that you would like to address through modelling.
  2. ‘Chunk down’ the skill until you have something small and concise enough to complete in a reasonable time frame.
  3. Identify suitable resources who seem to have this skill. One will do, but more helps in later stages to identify core and non-essential components.
  4. Ask permission to model the skill. Most people will be flattered. Usually they do not realise they have this skill, as it is ‘natural’ to them and they often assume that everyone can do it.
  5. Spend time observing people with this skill to get a kind of holistic overview of things they seem to have in common. During this time, you will also be doing some subconscious modelling through the natural process of induction, similar to how you learned most of your skills early in life.
  6. Establish rapport. You are well placed to make this easy as you have genuinely praised their skills and you should be listening intently to them. Later, you will also be mimicking both their body language and verbal communication, which naturally leads to rapport.
  7. As important as how people do things is why they do them. Values and beliefs underpin success. Where we have recognised a skill gap, we probably have a belief that we are not good at it, which needs to be addressed. The negative language can be easily corrected, for example, ‘Now that I have an excellent model I will soon be even better at (communicating by telephone)’. In this instance, my model had a clear belief that information should be shared to avoid confusion and mistakes, so would routinely phone people up just to ask them if they had heard about so-and-so and generally how things were going. People often do not know why they do things, so some gentle questions along the lines of, ‘And why is that important?’ help them to explore what is buried between their ears.
  8. Ask what their desired outcome is, and how they will know when they are achieving it. How will they know when they are not moving towards their desired outcome?
  9. What starts the sequence? What are they doing? What are they seeing/hearing/feeling/saying to themselves?
  10. Observe people’s physiology when you get them to act out the task. In this example I observed that my model always stood up to make important phone calls. He said he liked to imagine walking up to them when he said ‘hello’.
  11. The most important revelation to me was that he managed to completely ignore the telephone, which had become a negative anchor for me. Instead, he recalled a picture of the person he was going to call, heard their voice and then, in his head, he was effectively having a face to face conversation. Usually, people who have a skill are not aware of how they do it, but these features can be elicited by a combination of focused questions, such as, ‘And what are you thinking about now?’ and ‘Why is that important?’
  12. If you have developed sensory acuity, observing the model’s eyes when they are mentally replaying the activity will reveal any incongruence in what they say is happening. In this example, the model said that they imagined the person’s voice, but their eyes revealed that they were recalling visual memories first, and subsequent questioning revealed that they first accessed the face to help to retrieve the voice, which would be normal for someone with a visual preference.
  13. Ask what they will do if they are not achieving their desired outcome. How do they recover the process?
  14. Once you are happy that you have elicited a good enough model to make an improvement, try it out. Ideally, get your model to watch you, as seeing a ‘mirror’ will remind them of any steps or thought processes they have missed out. This learned strategy for the telephone proved a very effective starting point for me, especially in overcoming the barrier of making more calls in the first place and relying less on email.

The real test for a model though is to be able to transfer it to someone else. If you cannot, then there is probably a step missing.

As with any skill that we start to see an improvement on, I was motivated to improve further as I got the hang of it. You can refine the model by testing for bits that can be taken out without affecting the result. Modelling of other ‘callers’ also revealed that it was not necessary to stand, only to be comfortable, avoid looking down and relax the diaphragm in order to project your voice for clarity.

Is the strategy effective in all situations in which you want to use it? The strategy was not effective when calling strangers, and had to be adapted. I gleaned this from a ‘cold caller’ in sales, who told me they imagined they were phoning up someone they already knew.

Models can be improved over time as you discover new resources. Matching of pace and energy, matching of language and preferences, and so on, all built on to this skill over subsequent years. I later realised that my mother disliked using the telephone and would avoid answering it, so I was unpicking my unconscious modelling of her.

If you study NLP and modelling further you will see notation for modelling relating to this, particularly to the eye-accessing cues. It is, however, easy to misread these cues unless you have had practical training in sensory acuity and have ‘calibrated’ for your model; that is, tested how far and fast their eye movements are for a range of questions related to the senses.

In our training courses we include a modelling project to achieve ‘NLP Business Practitioner’ status. Seeing a group of a dozen people presenting back the skills they have learned from those around them is a humbling experience. You can download the guidance notes for this from the supporting website www.NLP4BA.com.

If you are going to achieve excellence in big things, you develop the habit in little matters. Excellence is not an exception, it is a prevailing attitude.

Colin Powell, diplomat and military leader

3.11 BE YOUR OWN COACH

Everyone needs a coach.

Bill Gates

Coaching skills were specifically mentioned in the review of competencies for effective BAs in Section 1.4. and form one of the three specialist skills assessed for the ‘Expert BA’ qualification. We can also be a coach to ourselves.

It is expected in sports that you need a coach to achieve your potential, but it is relatively new to business, and usually confined to those in very senior positions. While writing, I am employed as a coach for senior staff across a portfolio of major programs, including their business change managers and lead team in the IT department. But we can all be our own coach with the help of a few techniques and a bit of NLP.

3.11.1 From knowing to being

In Section 1.4 we talked about competencies and becoming competent, and how this was achieved through a combination of knowledge, experience and behaviours. Figure 3.19 is a popular model of this process. I have shown it as a cycle as, hopefully, like top tennis and golf players, we continue on the cycle towards our ultimate goal.

A similar model to this, which I have seen promoted in recent years to assist in sales, suggests a progression from ‘just do it’, to ‘being it’. I think it better represents the journey from understanding, to practising, to feeling fully comfortable in the role (see Figure 3.20).

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.

Aristotle

3.11.2 Compassionate coaching and the inner game

We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think.

Buddha


Figure 3.19 Towards unconscious competency

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We sometimes make the mistake of thinking that the, sometimes harsh, inner voice is ‘me’. It is not, though it is a part of us. We have the most effective learning machine ever developed between our ears, and yet when we try something new we tend to over-rationalise it. Our inner voice did not teach us to crawl or walk, and certainly was not around to teach us to speak, so put it aside. Top athletes have learned ‘the inner game’ of practice without judgement.33 This results in the ultimate experience of what has been referred to as ‘flow’,34 or ‘up time’ in NLP speak.

As described in Section 2.6, the subconscious mind is what drives us. If you want to put an internal voice to good use then let it be ‘your compassionate coach’,35 and be gentle and encouraging to yourself. Know and repeat your goals. The more solid they are and the more you can visualise them and experience them with all your senses, then the stronger will be the compulsion of your subconscious mind to attain them.


Figure 3.20 Being there

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Exercise 3.12 Conquering negative language

Look at the table in Figure 3.21. Do you recognise some of the negative words there? Negativity puts us in an un-resourceful state and holds us back, and that affects both you and the people that you influence. It is easier to start with what we write rather than what we say, so check what you put down on paper/screen and edit out that negativity. Now that it is in your conscious mind, catch yourself if you use a negative word and correct it. It will start to affect your outlook and put you in a more resourceful state. Others will also start to see you as a much more positive and competent person and have more trust in you.


Figure 3.21 Using positive language

Negative language

Positive language

Can’t

Working out how to

Difficult

Stretching

Problem

Challenge

Have to

Want to

Failure

Learning

Complaint

Feedback

Next time you catch yourself or one of your team saying something like, ‘We can’t get the users to sign-off requirements’, use a re-phrase like, ‘We are getting good feedback from users and exploring ways to articulate their needs.’ We are not talking about putting a positive spin on things here – it may sound like just words, but it will frame how you behave and what you do subsequently. Similarly, lessons learned are not about looking at what went wrong and attributing blame, as we see on a TV episode of The Apprentice, but a time of reflection on how we will do even better next time.

What are your ‘favourite’ negative words? What would be a more positive way of expressing them?

Mike Nichols, former chairman of the Association for Project Management until he passed away in 2014, refused to acknowledge any negative language or talk of failure in whatever he said or wrote. Was this a reason why his company was so successful, for example being a family business that leads on mega-projects like Crossrail in London and also operates globally?

Exercise 3.13 Taking control of your inner critic using sub-modalities

Does a voice in your head sometimes hold you back? Do not worry, it is part of the human condition. As you have heard, with NLP everything that we experience is subject to the way our brains code it. Making subtle changes to the language of our code can cure people from severe phobias, and we can use the same technique to quieten our inner force if it misbehaves. Here we will be making use of sub-modalities, as described and illustrated in Section 2.12.

  1. Call up that negative inner voice.
  2. What does it sound like? Do you recognise that voice? What are the sub-modalities (volume, pitch, near or far)?
  3. If you can locate it, for example on your right ear or behind you, then move it to the opposite place.
  4. Turn down the volume.
  5. Change the pitch.
  6. How about giving it a new character? Daffy Duck?
  7. Now, let it say some stupid negative thoughts, but in that stupid little voice.
  8. Now, that is easier to ignore, isn’t it?
  9. Imagine the future where you are going to do something where the voice used to hold you back. Now see yourself successfully doing it, with that funny little voice keeping you amused.

That was easy, wasn’t it?

3.11.3 The virtual mentor – imaginary friends for grown ups

Before ‘re-engineering of corporations’,36 there used to be multiple tiers of managers, and people stayed in their jobs for a long time. Nowadays, a couple of years in the same role seems to be a long time, and many people freelance. Hence we have fewer opportunities to ‘learn on the job’ through informal mentoring.37 I would strongly advise you to find mentors for all aspects of your life wherever you can. Sometimes you may really wish that you had one there and then. Well, with a bit of imagination you can. I have a collection of virtual mentors that I use in different kinds of environment. I am using Genghis Khan a lot less than I used to, and relying more on Mahatma Gandhi to do things a bit more elegantly. I think of it as a metaphor to put a bit of distance between me and the situation to allow more creativity (rather like ‘as if’ reframing). For this next exercise, imagine a mentor called ‘John’ – perhaps someone that you have encountered and admired in your career. I think my father would have chosen John Wayne.

Exercise 3.14 The virtual mentor

  1. When you find yourself in a situation where you feel you need more resources, ask ‘John’ to come and help you.
  2. Imagine John next to you and get into his character.
  3. Ask him what he thinks about the situation and imagine what he might say.
  4. Ask him for some options.
  5. Have a think about them – do any sound like they might be promising?
  6. Ask for some tips on what to look out for.
  7. Note down a plan and the first steps.
  8. Thank John and ask him to look over your shoulder until you are comfortable and back on track.
  9. Remember, John and his friends are there whenever you need them.

On paper it might look a little strange, but be brave enough to give it a try and judge by results. (That is what John would do.) When we are in a tight spot we could use all the help and advice we can muster, and ‘John’ is always willing to help.

3.11.4 Action learning sets and communities of practice

Action learning is essentially where you agree a common development aim as a group and agree to work on it individually and share experiences.38 It also acts as a support group. I have been involved in action learning sets as a senior manager. A related principle is that of communities of practice.39 A number of large organisations are now setting up communities of practice to share resources and support. I set up an online community on LinkedIn to discuss application of NLP to business analysis and project management, which is now as big as most other special interest groups of the professional bodies.40 What experiences can you contribute?

3.12 GREAT LEADERS USE STORYTELLING AND METAPHOR TO GET THE MESSAGE OVER

The universe is made of stories, not of atoms.

Muriel Rukeyser, poet and political activist

In a creative paper on why and how BAs and PMs should work better together, ‘The Marriage of Professions; Business Analysis and Project Management can live happily ever after…together’,41 Chuck Milhollan makes the case through the medium of story, including ‘The Monster’ (legacy system), the heroine (BA) and hero (PM) who go on to live, well, happily ever after.

British sociologist Anthony Giddens (Lord Barron),42 argued that we derive our sense of self, not from what has happened through our lives, but from our capacity to weave those episodic events into a consistent story. Our story is consistent with, and a constituent of, our personal map of the world.

Use of stories has become ubiquitous across analysis to bridge the gap between what a user wants from a system and the specification for the system. In recent years books have been published on use of storytelling and metaphor as a medium for teaching leadership43 and lessons in project management.44 I am currently modelling exponents of storytelling like Steven Carver,45 who has gone beyond incorporating stories to delivering whole talks within a single story, including post-graduate lectures as Professor at Cranfield Management School.

Legendary orators made extensive use of stories, including religious leaders. Well, the ones who remember anyway, as storytelling aids memory, and masters of memory make extensive use of stories and imagery.46

Why do these stories and metaphors work? As the great orators and religious leaders have found, they provide a low resistance doorway to the unconscious mind. Marketers and brand managers have also discovered and perfected these techniques. The unconscious mind is the world’s greatest pattern recognition system and looks for hidden meaning in all things. Hence I make extensive use of stories.

I recruited a scientist named Dominic Rhodes. Like most general recruitment processes, candidates gave a presentation. I remember being really taken aback by his. Instead of the usual PowerPoint, he showed a set of photographs in sequence of threes; a picture of a site as context, an image of the cause of the problem uncovered through his analysis, and a final slide illustrating the solution to the problem. By way of introduction he also told a story, with graphic use of language, about how he ended up working in a gold mine in South Africa, and extracted a parable about what he learned about life and the work of an analyst. I do not know how much preparation Dominic put in to that presentation, but I have never seen anyone appear more structured, succinct or persuasive. Of course I gave him the job, and a great job he did too. More recently he has been an ambassador for university collaboration and also a science, technology, engineering and maths (STEM) ambassador to schools. He also serves on the Smallpiece Trust, running a series of residential courses to help inspire young people in science and technology subjects. A number of the young people who have been inspired by Dominic’s involvement through his outreach work now work alongside him as colleagues. I last saw him in June 2014, 20 years after I recruited him and the day after he found out he had been awarded an MBE for his work with universities and schools.47 Not a bad story to tell the kids.

How will you inspire your audience? A start would be to use the often quoted but usually forgotten rule of stories – to have a start, a middle and an end. Far too often I have had presentations which seemed, at best, to be a stream of consciousness. Start with a simple message and build out.

3.12.1 Be the STAR of your story

If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.

Albert Einstein

One of the most effective ways of conveying information is use of the STAR model below. Recruiters use this technique to establish areas of competency, and I described it as such in Section 1.5 on assessing competency. So, if you want to sound competent, practice the STAR model in Figure 3.22 (the example is from a presentation I gave to a community of practice in Canada).


Figure 3.22 Storytelling using the STAR model

Situation or Task

Northampton’s city council was struggling to embrace national Modernising Government and eGovernment agendas to a reasonable timescale. The council had 250,000 citizens supported by 250 lines of business.

I was sent in by a central government agency as interim CIO to facilitate turnaround and develop internal delivery capability.

Action you took

I established cross-party governance, facilitated ICT strategy, pulled together delivery capability and delivered a portfolio of ICT enabled change.

Results you achieved

The council’s KPI for eGovernment improved from 36 per cent to 91 per cent within 12 months, resulting in markedly improved customer satisfaction.

How does that sound to you? Does it influence you to think that I am competent? How long did that take, less than a minute? (Sometimes I would ramble when asked these questions at an interview, so it is a great structure for me.) Think of a message that you want to get over and practice writing/telling it in this STAR format.

3.12.2 Use of ambiguity to gain agreement

Storytelling reveals meaning without committing the error of defining it.

Hannah Arendt, political philosopher

If you want to engage people, and also get them to agree with you, be specific about immaterial things, but use ambiguous terminology where people might associate values and beliefs. This, alongside storytelling and metaphor, is one tool which accomplished politicians, and lawyers versed in the art of rhetoric, use to influence people. We might all agree that ‘education is good’, but if you go into specifics like ‘online training is good’, then you run the risk of people disagreeing with you. This is especially true in a group, where they will not agree amongst themselves on specifics and your first task is to get general agreement of direction of travel before considering options.

In the early days of NLP, the founders derived the meta-model for specific questioning by modelling the renowned hypno-therapist Milton Erickson. Erickson used what was described as ‘artfully vague language’ to persuade mentally ill people to become well again. It can also be used to help mentally tired people to see clearly.

An over the top example of its use might be something like:

The decision to move forward can only be a good thing. People are behind this. It means we can increase performance and become more competitive while reducing inefficiency. The problems of the past will be behind us as we create new capabilities which give us a competitive edge. Let’s do it now.

All great empowering words. Don’t you just want one? Would your governing body want one? Have you heard people in your organisation speaking like this? If so, they are probably on the top floors as they know how to sell a story.

By lightly applying the meta-model questions in Section 2.15, we can start to pick it apart.

The decision (nominalisation) to move forward (how?) can only be a good thing (complex equivalent – this means that, really?). Everyone (generalisation – everyone?) is behind this (what?). It means (complex equivalent) we can increase performance (lack of referential index) and become more competitive (than who?) while reducing inefficiency (inefficient at what?). The problems (which?) of the past (when?) will be behind us (who?) as we (who?) create (how?) new capabilities (which?) which give us (who specifically?) a competitive edge (lack of referential index – against who?). Let’s (who?) do it (what?) now (why?).

When the head of performance management from Rolls-Royce went back to work after attending one of my courses a few years ago, her boss, the head of capability, asked if she had been ‘programed’. ‘No’, she replied, ‘I think I have been de-programed.’

3.12.3 Using metaphor … is like painting a picture to help people see what you are talking about

Use of metaphor helps to make change less threatening by associating something new with something they already know and are familiar with. For example, you might warn someone that they risk just repeating what they used to do on the old system with the new system, which does not sound particularly motivating. But if you warn them that they are simply ‘digitising the dinosaur’, they might imagine that they could face extinction unless they change their ways.

When presenting options, you could advise that you can:


Figure 3.23 Presenting options using metaphor

Factual

Metaphoric

Upgrade current systems

Fix the leaky roof

Increase functionality

Give them a paint job

Implement a new system

Design them a modern new house built for the information age

From the first column, do you think people might be tempted to play safe? In the second column, do you think this approach might tempt people to enter the information age? How can we paint a rosy picture of the future, ideally one so bright that they have to wear shades?

When you’re a carpenter making a beautiful chest of drawers, you’re not going to use a piece of plywood on the back, even though it faces the wall and nobody will ever see it. You’ll know it’s there, so you’re going to use a beautiful piece of wood on the back.

Steve Jobs, founder of Apple and Zen Buddhist

3.13 PRESENTING YOURSELF AND MANAGING YOUR PERSONAL BRAND AND REPUTATION

Presence: 1. The state or fact of being present; 2. The impressive manner or appearance of a person.

Oxford English Dictionary

The term ‘presenting yourself’ implies being ‘present’ in that moment in time. When we looked at flexibility with timelines, we saw that we should be ‘in time’. It also implies having some ‘presence’, an aspect of charisma which can be thought of as ‘self-confidence’. Being ‘present’ helps to build rapport, and appearing confident helps to build trust. Are you fully in the moment and self-confident when meeting people? If not, you can model people who are.

3.13.1 Modelling the structure of charisma

Being a leader gives you charisma. If you look and study the leaders who have succeeded, that’s where charisma comes from, from the leading.

Seth Godin, author, speaker and blogger on the digital marketplace

Charisma – ‘The impressive manner of a person’, as the Oxford English Dictionary terms it – can be learned. I remember seeing the CEO of the Confederation of British Industry (CBI) speak at their annual conference and remarking to one of my colleagues that he came over as quite charismatic. ‘You should have seen him when we got him’, she replied. Model strategies for behaviours that are considered charismatic and use this simple tip: start any presentation you make by beginning in a lower and slower voice than you would naturally use. You only have to do this for a few seconds. After this you will already have made your impression and you can let your voice move to its natural pitch and pace. Because I ‘eat my own dog food’, as my Canadian colleagues say, I explored ‘NLP for public speaking’ courses. Aside from addressing beliefs, state management and a few other strategies which I might address in another book, my main tips are these, echoed by courses delivered by RADA.48

  • Pitch – as above in the structure of charisma, drop the pitch of your voice, because a high voice is an indicator of tightening of the vocal chords due to stress. You achieve this by relaxing the diaphragm, which has the secondary benefits of forcing you to breathe deeply and release stress in your body.
  • Pace – ‘say half as much and appear twice as smart’. Speaking fast indicates nervousness, as well as making it difficult to establish rapport. Speaking more slowly also gives your audience a chance to process what you are saying.
  • Pause – a continuous monologue does not give opportunity to punctuate and emphasise your key messages. A short pause might seem a long time when you are in front of an audience, so allow yourself a count of five. Silence is very effective in communication as well as establishing hierarchy.

Watch and listen to effective speakers and notice their body language, pitch, pace and pause.

3.13.2 Achieving congruence in word and deed

Congruent: in agreement or harmony.

Oxford English Dictionary

One of the NLP presuppositions is, ‘The meaning of the communication is the response that you get’, that is, you are responsible for ensuring that meaning has been understood as intended. Studies have shown that the words we use account for less than 10 per cent of the message that we deliver.49 The tone alone counts for far more, while body language accounts for over half of the message as received. Saying, ‘I’m not angry’ through gritted teeth is not congruent behaviour. Some tips for aligning words, voice and body language are given in Figure 3.24.

It is not that you have to do these things all the time, just when you need to deliver important messages or when you need to convince people of your authority. The more you practise, however, the more natural it will feel and the less you will have to think about it.

3.13.3 Self-confidence and feeling good about yourself

One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.

Arthur Ashe, former world number 1 tennis player


Figure 3.24 Congruence in words, voice and body language

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One of the traits of ‘the human condition’ is that we lack confidence in some situations. As seen in the belief cycle, the behaviour is self-fulfilling, but no one wants to follow a leader who lacks confidence in themselves. So how do you appear confident even if you don’t feel it inside? NLP can help by using change techniques based on the way we code beliefs. Revisit ‘Beliefs’ and ‘Belief change’ in Sections 2.7 and 3.2.4.

The way we view or frame a situation also affects the way we feel, which in turn will affect the way we behave. Look at the table in Figure 3.25. Keep yourself in the outcome frame to make the most of your internal resources and look confident.


Figure 3.25 Feelings associated with blame and outcome frames

Blame frame

Outcome frame

Stagnant

Moving forward

Limiting

Choice/opportunities/possibilities feels

Frustrating

Freeing

Negative

Positive

Disempowering

Empowering

Pessimistic

Optimistic

The ‘circle of excellence’ technique in Section 3.29.2 is often used to ‘anchor’ confident states.

3.13.4 Developing your personal brand and reputation

You have to understand your own personal DNA. Don’t do things because I do them or Steve Jobs or Mark Cuban tried it. You need to know your personal brand and stay true to it.

Gary Vaynerchuk, serial entrepreneur and bestselling author

Companies and celebrities place great emphasis on developing, exuding and promoting their personal brand. This same concept should be applied to career professionals seeking to differentiate themselves in a competitive global job market. Building your brand boosts your professional credibility, propels your chances for a job interview or promotion, positions you as an aspiring leader and, ultimately, fosters an increase in earning potential.

So, what makes for a good personal brand? A captivating personal brand is:

  • A representation of your character and identity.
  • Authentic and unique to you.
  • Well understood by your target audience.
  • Consistently portrayed in person, online and in writing.

If I were to ask you ‘What is your unique promise of value’, do you have an answer?

After successfully delivering a number of courses to one large organisation, the head of delivery asked us to take his team to ‘the next level’. We agreed development requirements, designed and piloted the second level course.

The best yet; very powerful.

Marco Altieri, portfolio manager

As the delivery director had a degree in marketing, he was keen for us to address ‘personal brand’ in the content. What is personal brand? Like established corporate brands, it is a shortcut to our identity and capabilities, and whether we consciously take control of our brand or not, we all have one in the minds of our stakeholders. What would you like yours to be?

Like all good brands, our statements and ‘elevator pitch’ need to be congruent with our behaviours and how we present ourselves. Indeed, with development of social media, there are a number of guides out now on how to develop and maintain your online presence and branding too.50

How do you develop your brand? I was surprised at how easily NLP can be applied to this emerging concept. Of course, congruence, establishing rapport and trust, and ethical behaviour are core to NLP from the outset. Understanding yourself and how others see you is the next step, that is, self-awareness. As for corporate brands, this must be linked to your personal values. You may think that they are generic, but we have not yet had two people stating the same values within a group doing nominally the same job in the same organisation. Then, using some of the communication techniques in this book, refine your words and test them with one of your clients or colleagues until they confirm that your statement is congruent with how they see you. The words you use in your brand statement will become consistent as you start to feel comfortable with them.

Try the exercise below.

Exercise 3.15 Develop your personal brand

  • Establish your goal – how do I want people to see me?
  • How do you want to position and present yourself to make this a reality? Remember, people will naturally assume that you like what they like until you actively re-position yourself.
  • Gather information, for example strengths and weaknesses, feedback, aspirations.
  • Since brand has to be congruent with values, do the values elicitation exercise first (Section 3.28.1) so that you have something to guide you. Write down key words.
  • Get some feedback on how others see you as part of your general good habits of eliciting feedback at every opportunity. I use the following construction to gather information while priming my stakeholders: ‘I believe we have had a successful partnership here in delivering a good result. For my own personal development, would you mind sharing with me one thing which you valued about my contribution, and one thing which I can work on to become even better?’ How do you think this phrasing will impact your client? Add some key words to your list.
  • Look at the results from your assessment of your meta-programs in Exercise 3.2 in Section 3.3.2. Add some words to your list; for example, detailed, process oriented, completer–finisher, and so on.
  • Next, what kind of activities do you want to do more of/less of?
  • Now, while looking over your list of words for inspiration, think about how you want to be seen. If you heard people talking about you, what would you like to hear? If someone recommended you, what would you like them to say about you?
  • Write down your statement and spend 10 minutes reviewing the words to make it punchy and memorable, but remember, it has to be ‘you’.
  • Test your statement with friendly stakeholders; do you think this is me? Refine your brand through feedback.
  • Review – is it working, do people see you as you see yourself?

So, since you have a personal brand and reputation whether you want one or not, what would you like your personal brand to be?

Your smile is your logo, your personality is your business card, and the way you make others feel is your trademark.

Zig Ziglar, marketing guru

3.14 CREATIVITY AND PROBLEM SOLVING – USING WALT DISNEY’S STRATEGY

It’s kind of fun to do the impossible.

Walt Disney

‘Creative problem analysis and resolution’ is one of the three core skills assessed for the ‘Expert BA’ qualification. There is a lot written about creativity and problem solving, including by de Bono.51 the ‘inventor’ of brainstorming and mind maps. Along with fellow scientists and engineers, I remember going on a week-long graduate training program on creativity as part of my preparation for the world of work. So what does NLP have to add to the mix? Of course, NLP did not invent anything, it just modelled people who were really good at stuff. One person who was really good at being creative was Walt Disney and his ‘imagineers’.52

The true sign of intelligence is not knowledge but imagination.

Albert Einstein

3.14.1 Modelling Disney’s strategy for creativity

Aside from creation of characters and stories with global and cross-generational appeal, Walt Disney was also responsible for a number of important technical and organisational innovations in the fields of animation and film-making in general. I remember visiting his Experimental Prototype Community of Tomorrow (EPCOT)53 in Florida 20 years ago and being educated through entertainment as I travelled around on his pioneering magnetic monorail.

It is clear that one of the major elements of Disney’s unique genius was his ability to explore something from a number of different perceptual positions. From the analysis of Dilts and DeLozier,54 it would seem that Disney the ‘dreamer’ functioned primarily through a strategy of constructed visual images. Disney then made his fantasies ‘real’ by associating into the feelings of the imaginary characters and acting them out to give them life. The spoiler comes from taking a second look at these creations from the point of view of a critical audience. The strategy can be used in any situation where creativity is required. Balancing the fundamental perceptual positions of the dreamer, the realist and the spoiler (or critic) in the service of a common vision is no doubt a fundamental strategy of all genius and had many common elements to self-analysis by Einstein.

Creativity involves breaking out of established patterns in order to look at things in a different way.

Edward de Bono

Exercise 3.16 Disney strategy

  1. Mark three positions or chairs in a triangle which are observable from a fourth ‘meta-position’.
  2. Label them (1) ‘Dreamer’, (2) ‘Realist’ and (3) ‘Critic’.
  3. Anchor the appropriate strategy to each physical location.
  4. Think of a time you were able to creatively dream up or fantasise new ideas without any inhibitions. Step into location (1) and re-live that experience.
  5. Afterwards, move to a neutral position.
  6. Identify a time you were able to think very realistically and devise a specific plan to put an idea effectively into action. Step into position (2) and re-live that experience.
  7. Afterwards, move to a neutral position.
  8. Think of a time you were able to constructively criticise a plan – that is, to offer positive and constructive criticism as well as to find problems. Step into location (3) and re-live that experience.
  9. Afterwards, move to a neutral position.
  10. Pick an outcome you want to achieve and step into the dreamer location. Visualise yourself accomplishing this goal as if you were a character in a movie. Allow yourself to think about it in a free and uninhibited manner.
  11. Step out into the neutral meta-position.
  12. Step into the realist location, associate into the ‘dream’ and feel yourself in the positions of all of the relevant characters. Then, see the process as if it were a ‘storyboard’ (a sequence of images).
  13. Step out into the neutral meta-position.
  14. Step into the critic position and find out if anything is missing or needed. Then, turn the criticisms into questions for the dreamer.
  15. Step out into the neutral meta-position.
  16. Step back into the dreamer position to creatively come up with solutions, alternatives and additions to address the questions posed by the critic.
  17. Continue to cycle until your plan congruently fits each position.

Can you imagine situations where this strategy will prove useful?

3.15 CO-CREATE THE BUSINESS

Of all the things I’ve done, the most vital is coordinating those who work with me and aiming their efforts at a certain goal.

Walt Disney

I started this book relating my experiences around BPR. Back in those days we were all about ‘re-engineering the corporation’,55 ‘down-sizing’ and ‘right-sizing’. Internal and external consultants were sent away to do MBAs, learn consultancy skills and BPR. Indeed, I sent my own staff away to become qualified.56 While working with local government, however, I had a revelation. Local government is made up of more than 200 lines of business, with many thousands of business processes – far too many for a single person to remain expert. But it did not require someone with a huge brain and an MBA to design processes which cut out waste. With a little facilitation, those involved in the end-to-end process, when put in the same room so that they could reproduce and comprehend the ‘Frankenstein’s monster’ which processes often become through repeated evolution and change, were quite capable of optimising their own processes. Perhaps more importantly, they would own the process and any perceived resistance to change would evaporate.

Tell me and I forget. Teach me and I remember. Involve me and I learn.

Benjamin Franklin

Of course, the concept of self-managing teams is not new. We used to advocate them when total quality management and Peter Drucker’s The Toyota Way,57 was fashionable. Here the facilitator only manages the co-creation process, ensuring input from all team members, ideally only contributing questions to lead the team towards the goal. I have found questions like those below useful for drawing out contribution:

  • Who is our customer?
  • What do they want from us?
  • What are we trying to achieve?
  • How will we know when we have succeeded?
  • What would that enable us to do?
  • What do we need to do?
  • Does the customer value that?
  • What can we stop doing?
  • Are we finished, is there anything else we need to do?

Note that I avoid using ‘why?’ questions, as these can lead to justification and entrenchment rather than facilitate change (see Figure 3.26). You can read more about question types in Section 3.16.

There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all.

Peter Drucker, management guru


Figure 3.26 The 3Es – efficacy, effectiveness and (only then) efficiency

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In terms of tools to help you to do that, while yellow stickies work; personally I use mind-mapping software, which enables co-construction in real time (see Figure 3.27). The one I use readily exports to process flowsheet software such as Visio as well as the rest of the Microsoft suite,58 including MS Project.

A leader is best when people barely know he exists, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: we did it ourselves.

Lao Tzu

So, I urge you, if you want to see effective and efficient processes which work and are happily adopted and supported by those responsible for doing them, then put aside any ego and dedicate yourself to becoming an excellent facilitator and coach in order to support them in finding their own solution. The quicker you can make yourself redundant from the process then the more value you will add. But do not worry, I know from personal experience that there is always a next job for those with that skill set.

3.16 REQUIREMENTS – BETTER ANSWERS THROUGH BETTER QUESTIONS

Understanding requirements is obviously a fundamental part of the role of any BA, but the role is much more than listing stated needs. As BABOK® v2 says, ‘The BA is responsible for eliciting the actual needs of the stakeholders, not simply their expressed desires.’

You can’t just ask customers what they want and then try to give that to them. By the time you get it built, they’ll want something new.

Steve Jobs, founder of Apple


Figure 3.27 Mind-mapping software is an effective tool for facilitation and co-construction

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Remember, a key part of our interaction is to build rapport and trust, and we should spend just as much effort thinking about the way we will encourage the customer to feel, as they might not remember what was actually said. Some say that we decide emotionally then rationalise logically after the event. What do you feel?

3.16.1 World-views and perspectives – a different kind of elephant in the room?

You have to get along with people, but you also have to recognize that the strength of a team is different people with different perspectives

Steve Case, former CEO of AOL

We all have different perspectives, and from different perspectives we form different views and imagine different paths to get there. But, sometimes, we let our ego get in the way and imagine that our map is the only true map or even the only map. As you know, unfortunately some people are prepared to make huge sacrifices to prove their view. But when we appreciate variety we can create a beautiful functioning thing that everyone has part of. Harvest the views and perspectives of your stakeholders to enrich you vision and shun none. If their view is radically different then see it as a challenge to understand why, rather than dismissing it as wrong simply because it does not fit with your view or that of the majority.

The story of the elephant and the blind men59

Once an elephant came to a small town. People had heard of elephants, but no one in the town had ever seen one. Thus, a huge crowd gathered around the elephant, and it was an occasion for great fun, especially for the children. Five blind men also lived in that town, and consequently, they also heard about the elephant. They had never come across an elephant before, and were eager to find out about it.

Then, someone suggested that they could go and feel the elephant with their hands. They could then get an idea of what an elephant looked like. The five blind men went to the centre of the town where all the people made room for them to touch the elephant.

Later on, they sat down and began to discuss their experiences. One blind man, who had touched the trunk of the elephant, said that the elephant must be like a thick tree branch. Another who touched the tail said the elephant probably looked like a snake. The third man, who touched the leg, said the shape of the elephant must be like a pillar. The fourth man, who touched the ear, said that the elephant must be like a huge fan; while the fifth, who touched the side, said it must be like a wall.

They sat for hours and argued; each one was sure that his view was correct. Obviously, they were all correct from their own point of view, but no one was quite willing to listen to the others. Finally, they decided to go to the wise man of the village and ask him who was correct. The wise man said, ‘Each one of you is correct; and each one of you is wrong. Because each one of you had only touched a part of the elephant’s body. Thus you only have a partial view of the animal. If you put your partial views together, you will get an idea of what an elephant looks like.’

Figure 3.28 Different perspectives are needed to progress from true to truth

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3.16.2 Balancing open and closed questions

While delivering workshops in a large engineering company, I was surprised when I was asked on several occasions what the difference is between open and closed questions. So, for completeness, a refresher on that topic is provided now in Figure 3.29, to draw out how an NLP perspective can be applied to them.

It is easier to ask closed questions rather than open questions because we can readily perform a quantitative analysis of the results. But quantity does not always relate to quality, and in the field of performance management we say, ‘Just because something is easy to measure does not mean that we should measure it, and just because something is difficult to measure does not mean we should not try.’ Or more succinctly, ‘Rubbish in, rubbish out.’


Figure 3.29 Properties of open and closed questions

Closed questions

Open questions

Framed to illicit a short binary answer to provide specific information

Encourages the second party to express their opinion

Projects our map of the world

Elicits their map of their world

Enables us to make decisions quickly

Provides us with the opportunity to listen to indicators of their preferred language patterns sensory preference, metaprograms, values and preferences

Transactional

Builds rapport

Encourages the second party to use unconscious ‘fast thinking’

Encourages the second party to unconscious ‘fast thinking’ consciously think about what they want using ‘slow thinking’

Isn’t this easy?

Why do you think that I end most sections with questions for you to reflect on?

Provides a universally understood answer

Open to interpretation

Easy to capture in questionnaires and spreadsheets and perform numeric analysis

Requires skill to elicit and interpret

Provides quantity

Provides quality

Useful in getting people to do what you want

Useful for finding out what people might actually want

Use after we have established the scope and frame of the topic through use of open questions

Use to build rapport and understand the client’s map of the world

Readily automated

Encourages us to interact with our customers

Exercise 3.17 Reducing filtering by asking open rather than closed questions

In the table at Figure 3.30 I offer a reframe of some popular closed questions. Fill in the blanks to practise switching between open and closed.

A sub-set is the use of leading questions, which primes the client with the answer that we want. Note that this is usually done subconsciously rather than deliberately and is a key area of discipline for those conducting opinion polls. As Daniel Kahneman showed through research, it is fairly easy to get people to reverse their answer depending on how you frame and phrase the question.


Figure 3.30 Examples of open and closed questions

Closed question

Open questions

Would you like tea or coffee?

What would you like to drink?

Do you prefer SAP or Oracle?

Is there a customer relationship management (CRM) system which you prefer (leading to, ‘What is it that you particularly like about that system?’)?

Do you want a blue screen or a green screen?

Do you have a preference for screen colour?

Would you like weekly or monthly progress reports?

How would you like me to keep you informed?

Will you sign-off these requirements?

Is there anything else I need to do for you to be comfortable enough to agree that we have adequately captured your requirements?

How long have your worked here?

What do you like most about your role?

What application of NLP do you think would be most useful to you?

Do you think soft skills are important to a BA?

How could you explore a client’s map of the world?

Do you think open or closed questions are most useful?

How could you become a more effective BA?

3.16.3 World-views, meta-programs and sample size

Given a choice between their worldview and the facts, it’s always interesting how many people toss the facts.

Rebecca Solnit, author and political commentator

In Section 2.5 we introduced the concepts of world-views and filters, and the role of behavioural meta-programs in determining preferences. If you were to characterise your sample user population, which you are gathering requirements from, what proportion are:

  • detail oriented rather than big picture?
  • reflecting on the past rather than focusing on the future?
  • process oriented rather than outcome focused?
  • looking for variances rather than seeing commonality?

When I conduct well-formed outcomes exercises for personal change during group coaching sessions, I endeavour to demonstrate some of the basic errors we are programd to make because of our own maps of the world and filters. In one exercise someone wanted ‘to be fit’. I elicited their requirements, asking a member of the group to capture them, while at the same time remembering them as accurately as I could myself. When I asked for the requirements to be read back, they bore little resemblance to what the client had actually wanted, let alone said; they were what the BA would have wanted in his shoes. When I said, ‘That’s strange, I thought I heard him say that he wanted x, y and z’, repeating the exact language of the client, he smiled and nodded. First, his requirements had been respected and accurately captured. Second, I had made the effort to actually listen to him, rather than thinking that I knew what he needed better than he did.

Have you ever asked for something and been surprised when it didn’t turn out the way you expected? Has someone asked you for something and been disappointed with what they ended up with? What are your preferences? How might these be biasing your proposed solution? How will you compensate? In the future, how are you going to change your behaviours to accurately capture people’s stated requirements?

3.16.4 Ask how not why

Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.

Tony Robbins

When I worked for one of the large consultancy firms, we were drilled with the ‘5Ys’ technique. I felt like I was interrogating people in client organisations by asking a succession of five ‘why’ questions before we moved on. An example might have run along the lines of the example given in Figure 3.31.


Figure 3.31 The ‘5 whys’ men

5 whys

Possible responses

1. Why isn’t the product available?

The project got behind

2. Why did the project get behind?

Because the contractor didn’t deliver

3. Why didn’t the contractor deliver?

Because he didn’t have enough resource

4. Why didn’t he have enough resource?

They are on higher priority work

5. Why are they on higher priority work?

Because that was behind schedule

Being on the receiving end of this interrogation, how do you think you might feel? (There I go again, slipping into use of framing and priming to lead you to say what I expect you to.) In my experience, it led to people becoming defensive, even when given assurances such as, ‘Hello, we are from Y consultancy preparing a report for internal audit on your project and are here to help you.’

Far better an approximate answer to the right question, which is often vague, than the exact answer to the wrong question, which can always be made precise.

John Tukey, professor at Princeton and leading statistician

In contrast, explore the types of responses you might give to ‘how’ questions in Exercise 3.18.

Exercise 3.18 Ask how, not why

How do you feel when asked this type of ‘how’ question? Personally, I feel like I am being engaged and asked for help rather than being offered up as a sacrificial lamb on the altar of doomed projects. It helps to move us from a ‘blame frame’ to an ‘outcome frame’ (see Section 3.23.1); from being stuck in the problem to thinking laterally and coming up with options. Add your responses to the ‘how?’ questions in Figure 3.32.


Figure 3.32 Ask how, not why

Examples of how questions

Your possible responses?

How could this product be made available sooner?

If we could have more resources, or maybe defer some of the features to the next release

How can we recover time on this project?

How can we help the contractor to deliver on time?

How can we get enough resource?

How can we prioritise our work?

Peter always had the right questions to ask.

Frank King, technical assurance lead, HMRC

3.17 REQUIREMENTS – THE AGILE ROAD TO ‘MOSCOW’

The fast-paced digital age has accelerated the need for companies to become agile.

Nolan Bushnell, founder of Atari

Adolf Hitler, like Napoleon before him, after stunning ‘quick wins’, finally bit off more than he could chew when he tried to go for a ‘big bang’ and implement his Russian campaign in one phase. Synchronicity, then, that agile methods make extensive use of with the term ‘MoSCoW’ to capture the principle of prioritising requirements in terms of (my interpretations):

  • Musts – we must have these requirements as a minimum to function effectively.
  • Shoulds – these requirements have obvious value, so we should do them if we have sufficient resources, but the system functions without them.
  • Woulds – these would add value, and would be worth developing if we have time before the deadline.
  • Coulds – I could do them if I have time, somewhere down the line. (But probably will just put them on this ‘car park’ instead, and maybe fold them into a future release.)

In traditional agile ‘sprints’, delivery is ‘time-boxed’, that is, after establishing a reasonable duration to check progress, say a week to a month, the team works down from the highest priority requirements until they run out of time. Delivery of functionality over time establishes the team’s ‘velocity’ for planning future sprints. A series of further sprints are scheduled, each going through their own development and test cycles, until the agreed release date.

Think about release of your next smartphone; the provider will not be pinned down on functionality until close to the release date, usually set by the marketing team, because they are not sure how much they will fit in, but it must have the Musts. Other software functionality from the desired requirements list can be added after you have purchased the phone. Customer feedback and research and development (R&D) then pave the way for a re-visitation of customer requirements, including those anti-gravity and teleportation features for the release of iPhone 99.

But it is not my job here to teach you the benefits and formalities of agile, which should be self-evident. Aside from the exercises below, which will help you to separate needs from wants and overcome some of the barriers to getting buy-in to an agile approach, I want to draw out a more general application of agile thinking.

As we have said from the start, agile is about approach and mindset. When I look at any task, including writing this book, I visualise it in terms of a standard consultant’s 2×2 matrix, as illustrated in Figure 3.33.

I want to exclude anything that I can from the top left box of Musts and establish the minimum that I can get away with while still fulfilling the customer needs.

For those familiar with bidding for contracts, a successful approach is to submit the minimum specification compliant with the request for tender, sometimes even knowing that it would not be fit for purpose. After all, if you do not win the work then you are not going to be able to add any value to the client anyway. A more expensive ‘value proposition’ can then be added alongside the compliant bid. Alternatively, a value proposition might be submitted after securing the contract.


Figure 3.33 Boxing in MoSCoW

What is the minimum I must do to achieve the desired outcome in the shortest time with the least resource?

What work would I do if I still have resource and time before the final deadline?

What questions do I need to ask to get to the core of the opportunity or problem?

What additional work is there which has clear value to the client which I should do if I have resource?

What work could I do if I had available resource and inclination, bearing in mind the opportunity cost of staying on this task?

This approach gives me a number of immediate benefits:

  1. I am de-risked in that I have a working solution in as short a time as practical.
  2. I only need to ring-fence my resources for a short period but more importantly,
  3. It focuses my attention on questioning what the customer really needs.

3.17.1 ‘Old wine in new bottles’ – haven’t we tasted this before?

Of course, much like NLP, a lot of this can be thought of as ‘old wine in new bottles’. Things that make sense and are practical will re-surface time and again in the colours of the new fashion (or ‘flavour of the month’, ‘à la mode’, ‘smells familiar’, or ‘reboot/upgrade/v2.0’, depending on your sensory preference).

Value management60 has been around for a long time in engineering circles, though not so visible in recent years. I remember the textbook exercise of assigning value to the functionality of a bus stop, and in combination with assessed cost/effort, working out how to ‘get the most bang for our buck’ (see Figure 3.34). Of course, it is the client’s perception of value which we have to get an understanding of; we need to get into their world. That raised curb at the bus stop might be of little value to me, but my brother is in a wheelchair, and I might not need that timetable on display while I have my phone app, but what about my grandfather who does not have a car or smartphone? How will you find out how your client values things differently to you, as they surely will?

Note the parallels with Section 3.18.10 on benefits management in the delivery of change programs where value is added incrementally with each tranche. Added advantages are that our cash and business exposure is greatly reduced. It is politically much more acceptable to walk away from the project at any time without having to face the psychological burden of sunk cost as in a traditional ‘waterfall’ approach from requirements to test.


Figure 3.34 Value and cost

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And let us not forget the Pareto Principle,61 usually referred to as the 80/20 rule, which states that you can usually get 80 per cent of the value of an activity from only 20 per cent of the effort. This was taken a stage further by The Lazy Project Manager,62 who asked ‘Can’t we just get 80% of the 80% with 20% of the 20%?’ Yes, in principle, you can get two-thirds of the value (64 per cent) from less than 5 per cent of the effort.

3.17.2 Needs from wants using the meta-model

You get what you need in life, not what you want.

Anthony Robbins, master wizard and advisor to past and future presidents of the USA

Having travelled on that long road to MoSCoW several times, it is a challenge to help users on the journey to understand what good enough might look, sound, feel and function like. Forget perfection; the best is the enemy of the good. Good enough is, well, good enough.

A fundamental of NLP is the meta-model (see Section 2.15), which helps us to develop precise language by minimising distortions, generalisations, deletions and equivalences. As I said in the introduction of Part 2, and you saw from the history of development of NLP in Section 2.2, little in NLP is new, being a synthesis and modelling of strategies which have been found to work. The meta-model is one of those few developments which was developed at the core of NLP, being reverse engineered from Erickson artfully vague hypnotic language.63 It is perhaps the most effective structure for exploring other people’s maps of the world and clarifying what the words and phrases they use actually mean to them, rather than what they mean to us. Meta-model questions will help you to uncover all the types of distortions that fall out of our mouths all of the time (all of the time leads to distortion). Hence, our words provide a print-out of our internal map of the world to those who invest enough time to listen and understand them.

The table in Figure 3.35 shows the 12 types of meta-model violations with typical responses which could be asked to explore the elements that are obvious and redundant in the client’s map of the world.


Figure 3.35 Using the meta-model in negotiation

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I recommend that you play with the meta-model questions with friendly colleagues and move on to listening for the patterns before trying them out in real work situations, as they can come over as abrasive if used without finesse.

3.17.3 Getting requirements signed off

Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes … but no plans.

Peter Drucker

Finally, when we believe we have adequately captured requirements, we sometimes still have a problem getting the client to sign-off on them. Why might that be? Let us consider for a moment life in the client’s shoes. To take second position, if you will. What do they have to lose by signing off requirements, and how might they think that their position is better if they don’t?

Reasons may include:

  • They do not want to be held accountable (and we might not want to either).
  • They do not want to be charged for any changes down the line (and we do not either).
  • They do not want to be seen to be the cause of delays further down the line (and neither do we).
  • They do not understand the requirements document (and we probably have a limited understanding of their business, otherwise we might not need to behave so contractually about requirements).
  • They don’t understand the language in the document – for example, ‘use cases’.
  • The language preference in the document is that of the analyst, translated from their sensory-based language (or lack of it in the case of a high proportion of BAs being naturally AD).
  • They are not actually sure what they want (as am I, when I am looking for something that I am not familiar with, such as when I recently bought my first telescope and ended up with a great specification which I found difficult to use; it remains in the garage to this day).

In one organisation, users’ reluctance to give up wants in order to get their needs sooner appeared to have been due to the fact that, in the past, they never got their next release. As we have discussed elsewhere, trust underpins everything, and it takes a long time and lot of effort to build. It can, however, easily be lost. How long does it take to recover a lost reputation?

Why do you think users sometimes resist signing off? How might you overcome those barriers in advance by thinking about it now?

Should we even be trying to get a ‘sign-off’ of these technical specifications by the end user? What I am looking for is ownership rather than accountability or blame. I want the client to help me if we hit problems, rather than us wasting time working out from the requirements whose fault it might have been.

To test whether I have captured what will satisfy them, and expressed it in their language, I usually use the phrase, while holding out my hand, ‘If I had this in my hand, would you take it now?’ This is a phrase we often use in behavioural change and personal coaching. If the person does not make a movement towards the hand you offered, then they are still not sure and you need to cycle around phrases such as, ‘Imagine what might we need to add or change for you to really want it’ or ‘Now it has that feature, how much do you want it?’ Always look for the body language rather than the words. Now you have commitment rather than a reluctant signature.

If you still feel that you need a formal sign-off, I use the phrase, ‘Now, in order to give you what you need, I need to get this closed-out with an email so that we can move forward and deliver it to you by your required date.’ Remember though, their map of the world and language patterns are different from yours, so keep your eyes and ears open for the subtlety of what they are saying, not what you think they mean.

3.18 DELIVERING TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANGE

Business analysis is the practice of enabling change in an enterprise.

IIBA BoK v3

The BCS survey discussed in part 1.2.3 lists business transformation’ and ‘organisational change’ as two of the top three current management issues. Perhaps it is fitting, then, that the whole of the BA skill set in the SFIA framework is aligned to the ‘business change’ category.

Year after year, more change initiatives fail than succeed, particularly in not realising the promised benefits from the resources invested. As a member of the UK government’s accredited ‘Gateway’ reviewers for high risk projects, I see more than my fair share of them. But failure is avoidable. As quoted previously, what is now widely known as ‘Cobb’s Paradox’64 points out:

We know why projects fail; we know how to prevent their failure; so why do they still fail?

So, enough of failure; in NLP we model what works rather than what does not, so let us focus on making all of our projects succeed.

3.18.1 Do you want incremental improvement or transformational change?

Start with the end in mind.

NLP presupposition

Often when I am called in to review or support programs of change I find that they are still using linear project management methods with the emphasis on incremental milestones from the current situation. However, to achieve true transformation we must start with the end in mind, as walking forward in a direction with which we are familiar is unlikely to take us to new places. The table in Figure 3.36 shows the difference in application and emphasis for the two approaches.


Figure 3.36 Do you want incremental change or transformation?

Incremental change

Transformational change

Suitable for stable business environments

Required when business environment changes

Focus on efficiency

Focus on efficacy – doing the right things, and effectiveness – achieving results

Need to understand processes

Need to understand customers

Competitive advantage is cost or time

Competitive advantage is in creating new services and value

Efficiencies of a few per cent can be realised

Transformation should target at least 30 percent improvement to outweigh barriers

Only refinements to processes are required

Changes to mindset and to behaviours are required

Forward looking

Imagine a point in the future where you are successful and look backwards to understand how to achieve that

Operators best placed to identify efficiencies

Operators can be blinkered by ‘as is’ situation so best facilitated by external change team

Improvements can be captured and measured easily

Benefits require formal methods to realise and track

In the following sections I will focus on transformational change, but incremental change should still be carried out after transformation to realise further improvements in performance and operational excellence.

3.18.2 Be customer centric

We think that our job is to take responsibility for the complete user experience. And if it’s not up to par, it’s our fault, plain and simple.

Steve Jobs

After central government modernisation and technology-enabled transformation initiatives, which basically migrated processes from being paper-based to being web-enabled, another transformation was initiated which still has a long way to run. Of course the driver was to reduce the number of civil servants by migrating customers to the lowest cost channel, that is, self-service via the web. While high-volume services in central and local government mimicked operating models and processes in the financial services sector, the words around valuing ‘the customer’ rang hollow in both, especially after a couple of instances of wasting hours hanging on the telephone waiting for ‘customer services’. In the private sector, such a commodity market differentiated on cost rather than service destroys brand loyalty and customers migrate to the lowest cost provider. Margins are lost and quality is on a downward spiral of cost cutting.

Bizarrely, in spite of the old adage in retail that ‘the customer is always right’, it can appear from down in the operational engine room that customers are a pain. Life would be a lot easier if we did not have them, or at least if they would stop bothering us and stick to the process as we designed it. In financial services and utilities these are usually designed to maximise cross-selling rather than delight us, the customer. These attitudes and behaviours prompted fellow NLP practitioner, Shelle Rose Charvet, to write her excellent follow-up book The Customer is Bothering Me.65

My first experience of this type of transformation was in local government with the introduction of customer-focused services into so-called Adult Services, that is, social service support to adults in need. The operating model changed from professional staff determining what was best for the client to the customer deciding what they wanted from a service menu. Horror! What does the customer know; they will mess up! Of course, much higher levels of satisfaction were reported. It came as a surprise to many in social services with less vision that the main part of the program was in behavioural change on the delivery side, not the enabling IT and systems.

So, strangely, real customer-focused service is revolutionary. Instead of us, as the professionals/experts, telling people what is best for them, we should give them the choice. To get around our own biases, we have to develop the ability to ask questions without imposing our own filters. You can practice structures for eliciting what the customer might actually want in Section 3.16 on ‘better answers through better questions’.

Another area of local government services which many of us have come into contact with is town planning, which gives permission on changes to our houses. We used a similar approach to develop a revolutionary customer-centric virtual reality model to guide developers and citizens into perspectives bespoke to them. The approach was successful in winning the ‘Customer Excellence’ joint award from the Society of Local Authority Chief Executives (SoLACE) and Society of IT Managers (Socitm). It has gone on to become an exemplar for similar services.66

One expert in selling and buying, and associate NLP practitioner, Michael Beale, summed up current thinking around creating a sustainable business as:67

  1. Maximise the proportion of ‘good sales’ from bad, that is, focus on products and services that the customer is happy to pay for rather than charging them for things that they do not want or use your market position to bully or penalise them. (Think of examples such as phone roaming charges, lock-in periods for gym membership, obfuscating tariffs from utilities, and so on, as great ways to tarnish your brand.)
  2. In your requests for customer feedback you only really have to ask one question: ‘Would you recommend us to friends and colleagues?’
    And I will add a final follow-up question.
  3. What is one thing that I could do more or less of to improve the value and quality of our services to you?

Would you happily and unreservedly recommend your service providers to friends and colleagues?

How do you think that your customers might respond to those questions? You can practise using the exercise on second positioning your customer in Section 3.17.3 to help you find out.

3.18.3 For transformational change think programs not projects

The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it.

Albert Einstein


Figure 3.37 Behaviours of effective program and project managers

Effective behaviours for a project manager

Effective behaviours for a program manager

Focused on delivery of assets to time and cost

Focused on operational outcomes and realisation of benefit

Drives out risk and uncertainty (‘Away from’ risk)

Comfortable with risk and uncertainty in order to maximise opportunity (‘Towards’ opportunity)

Manages internal stakeholders and suppliers

Navigates through external stakeholders

Supervisory or directive leadership style

Coaching style of leadership

Suited to detail

Likely to be ‘big picture’

Resilient and may be dissociated from feelings

High degree of empathy to tune into feelings of stakeholders

Comfortable telling

A natural listener

Driven by schedule

Directed by business case

Might be introverted

Might be extroverted

Task focused

People focused

Asks ‘why’ questions

Asks ‘how’ questions

Explains project view

Elicits other people’s perspectives and world-view

To be honest, for many years I was a sceptic of the adoption of program terminology and had many discussions on the topic with my colleagues in the best practice group for program management.68 I was not alone in reluctance to adopt the developing world-view around programs. The APM only restructured its body of knowledge to address the different perspectives of programs and projects (and also portfolios) in its sixth edition in 2012 under the chairmanship of the late Mike Nichols of the Nichols Group,69 with whom I was honoured to sit on the steering group.70 US-based PMI has also supplemented its ‘Project Management Professional’ qualification with a similar one for program management.71 Today, roles and terminology have been clarified and codified to the point where they are coherent and practical.72 To cement my conversion, I now deliver master classes in program management for my former employer BNFL, now Sellafield Ltd, and re-purpose some of that slide-ware in this section.

So, what promoted my change of mind? Basically, I saw that, in general, projects were still focused on delivery of assets rather than realisation of benefits, and even today, benefits as stated in the business case are not achieved in the majority of IT projects. Whether I agree with it or not, the PM role remains largely technical and supervisory rather than one of leadership, consigning the BA to a role of requirements gathering and testing. Program management, however, promotes the BA to undertake change management and benefits realisation, often with the title ‘business change manager’.

One of the exercises we conduct in workshops is to imagine the behaviours of ideal program managers and PMs to help crystallise the differences in roles. Some of the responses are captured in the table in Figure 3.37. Most of the behavioural aspects can be readily matched to the NLP meta-programs.

Irrespective of what it is currently called, do you think that you are working on a project or a program? More importantly, is the approach suitable for realisation of the benefits articulated in the business case?

3.18.4 The role of the executive in sponsoring change

Leadership is the capacity to translate vision into reality.

Warren Bennis, widely regarded as a pioneer of the contemporary field of leadership studies

When I first became involved with the APM best practice group for governance in 2004,73 I realised from the UK National Audit Office’s list of reasons for project failure – gleaned from several thousand independent gateway reviews74 – that failure was usually outside the direct control of either the BA or the PM. Those causes of failure, however, should be under the influence of the sponsor, otherwise you have the wrong sponsor appointed. A standard model for program governance showing the leading role of the sponsor, sometimes referred to as the senior responsible owner (SRO), is shown in Figure 3.38.


Figure 3.38 How the sponsor supports delivery

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In 2005, when we published the first guidance on project governance,75 even the word ‘governance’ had not yet made an appearance in APM’s BoK, PMI’s BoK or any of the OGC (now Axelos) publications such as PRINCE2 (the IIBA had not yet been founded). The role of sponsor was even less well defined, and so our guidance on the role of the sponsor in delivering change,76 published by the APM, was readily adopted by the OGC, now the Cabinet Office, and distributed to senior sponsors. Recognising the gap that had been filled in this age of governance and oversight, a launch event was hosted at the Institute of Directors’ London headquarters77 and introduced by the then chairman of the IoD, Sir Neville Bain.

Personally, I did my best to avoid sponsors right through the 1990s as I did not understand their role any more than they did. But now I say to you, ‘sweat’ your sponsor; that is, give them tasks and make them work to support delivery. Not only should they be considered as part of the team, think of them as team president. They should be working behind the scenes to make your life easier. Under formal methods, they are actually the ones who ‘own’ the business case, that is, present it for funding approval, and who ‘own’ the benefits, as benefits are usually only realised after the resources have moved on to the next project. Of course, they will probably get you to write it for them.

To me, sponsorship is all about leadership, which is the ability to get people to want to follow you, and they should practice the language of leadership. While you should use very concrete, specific and detailed language to elicit requirements, a leader needs to paint a picture in people’s minds of where they want to take them. For this we use what NLP refers to as ‘artfully vague language’.78

Have you ever wondered why Dilbert has an uncommon first name, no last name, a nameless boss, and he works for a nameless company, making nameless products, while living in a nameless city? That’s hypnosis. By omitting those details, I allow the reader to better feel some version of ‘that’s me!’.

Scott Adams, author of Dilbert

Artfully vague language is the approach of choice for politicians and those seeking to build a following and achieve consensus. Basically, you make generic ‘motherhood and apple pie’ statements that everyone thinks they understand, interprets in their own map of the world, and few have reason to disagree with. Any devil is in the detail. In training I use videos of great orators and politicians to illustrate common language patterns established millennia ago by Aristotle as part of the art of rhetoric,79 and more recently mastered by US President Obama. It is the polar opposite of the meta-model introduced in Section 2.15 to uncover specific meaning. Basically, use:

  • Global and inclusive terms – We (everyone, really?).
  • Nominalisations (verbs used as nouns) – took ‘the decision’ (which?).
  • Words and phrases with generic or global meaning (though not common meaning) – to achieve improvements (value, customer satisfaction?).
  • Lack of specificity – and things (which?) will be better (how?).
  • Lack of referential index –in the future (when?).

It is also the language of hypnotists,80 and allows people to tune out and feel that they are part of something global. You can deal with specifics with individuals, according to their maps of the world, further down the line, but it removes many roadblocks if people feel that they want to be part of the change, even if they have suspended disbelief for the time being.

When you criticise Donald Trump for his vague policies during his election campaign, you should know that it is intentional. The empty spaces are provided for you to fill in with whatever you think a good idea. For a skilled wizard (trained by Anthony Robbins), the less he says, the more you like it. The wizard lets your brain fill in all the blanks with your personal favourite flavor of awesomeness.

Scott Adams, Ericksonian-trained fellow wizard and author of Dilbert

3.18.5 Imagining end state and creating the future together

Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.

John F. Kennedy

As you would expect, use of the NLP technique of future pacing can be applied directly to development and description of the future state resulting from transformation. We have used this technique successfully for not only new systems, but also organisational strategy and very large support frameworks. Use Exercise 3.19 to create a robust ‘end state’ which is agreed to by your stakeholders.

Exercise 3.19 Creating the future together

Choose a cross-section of stakeholders with different perspectives, motivational biases and behavioural preferences. Take them to neutral territory where distractions of the day job, functional hierarchy and un-resourceful anchors to the workplace are reduced.

Frame what we are going to do: have some fun creating the blueprint for what we are going to deliver.

Some facilitators start with the current problem state. Given your new understanding of how the mind is primed with what has been suggested beforehand, I prefer not to taint thinking with what is not working now. Instead, I always start with getting people to imagine and buy-in to the future state.

I use physical and temporal spacing and anchors, so when I talk about going from now (emphasising and pointing down to the floor at the left of the room, or furthest away from the window), I talk about moving forward to a point in the future.

Next I make the future as real as practical. ‘Now in the future’, when we are celebrating success together, what might people be saying? What might we see? How will we feel? How will we know that we have been successful. (No question mark, i.e. no upward inflection of voice here as this is a suggestion to help the group associate with success.)

Now we start to capture how they will know that a successful outcome has been achieved. Ensure that everyone is talking in the present tense about the future: we need to create a compelling vision for the future, a future that we will (not would) be proud of being a part of, a future so bright that we have to wear shades.

While facilitating APM’s 2020 strategy for ‘A world in which all projects succeed’, we had them transported to the future and writing catchy tabloid-style newspaper headlines on the topic, because gaming releases the playful and creative part of us.

This co-creation process not only gives us multiple perspectives so that we are less likely to miss significant aspects, but it also gives us immediate and almost unconditional buy-in to the future state; a positive anchor, if you will. I no longer attempt to guide people to the solution I used to think it was my job to be the expert in, but rather submit myself to the wisdom of crowds.81

Next, travelling back while moving across the floor to the spatial anchor for the past, we create an uncomfortable anchor for the current state. Here we use the language of pain through problem statements. Now those running ‘away from’ meta-programs come into their own. Pour on the pain until the present state seems like it cannot go on, even though it probably has for many years and people have got used to it. (In sales training this is known as the SPIN technique.) If we do not have a ‘burning deck’ for change then we need to fan the embers until at least our feet are uncomfortable.

The rest is the usual process and mechanics to develop an ‘as is’ and ‘to be’ description. (When we write it up, it is useful to match off the problem statements to future state and vice versa as a gap analysis.)

  • Is there sufficient buy-in to your end state?
  • Is it innovative?
  • Is it robust?

3.18.6 People take action when standing on a burning deck

When you can’t make them see the light, make them feel the heat.

Ronald Reagan

Basic management theory from the time of Henry Ford says that some people are more motivated by fear and others by greed; the proverbial ‘carrot or stick’. NLP says that people have a behavioural bias ‘away from’ problems or ‘towards’ opportunity, and we captured this meta-program in your self-assessment in Exercise 3.2. But why take a chance guessing what motivates someone when you can ‘buy one, get one free’? Accomplished NLP practitioners, like accomplished politicians, attempt to cover both ends of binary pairs for meta-programs using inclusive statements. As well as removing the need to make assumptions about the target audience, it also reduces inadvertent projection of our own biases. The technique can be used to add shade to the usual black and white presentation of ‘as is’ and ‘to be’.

It is often said that transformation, especially of large organisations, rarely exists in the absence of a so-called ‘burning deck’. You might recognise other kinaesthetic based metaphors around ‘doing’ when encouraging people to take action, like ‘holding their feet to the fire’. Pick up on them to encourage feelings of discomfort with the current state.

We often hear of politicians putting a ‘spin’ on things, and even employing a ‘spin doctor’. The sales technique of SPIN selling82 was actually taught to me during my NLP practitioner course by NLP trainer Paul Matthews, now managing director (MD) of People Alchemy and former European head of sales for a large software vendor.83 The steps are shown in Figure 3.39:


Figure 3.39 The steps in SPIN selling

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Notice that this method of selling is not about talking someone into action, but in asking questions that allow them to talk themselves into it. The approach is parallel to that used successfully in coaching interventions. How can this technique help you to create the impression of a platform which, if not actually burning yet, might be about to burst into flames?

3.18.7 Getting stakeholders on board

Communication is a skill that you can learn. It’s like riding a bicycle or typing. If you’re willing to work at it, you can rapidly improve the quality of every part of your life.

Brian Tracy, author and authority on personal effectiveness

‘Communicating ideas and getting buy-in’ was a specific skill gap in the BCS survey reviewed in Section 1.2.3. The success of your project is often more about perception than reality, so best to start to influence perception in key stakeholders from the outset. Your initial stakeholder map should be a living document which evolves as your map expands through each new contact. Personally, I use a mind map to capture the evolving picture. When you get down to mapping all of your stakeholders, I expect there to be too many to meet up with on a one-on-one basis. The table in Figure 3.40 is an established tool to help prioritise who to talk to, basically anyone who can accelerate your project or derail it. For the rest of those affected by your project, roadshows and online information usually suffice.


Figure 3.40 Stakeholder power versus interest grid

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While facilitating a stakeholder management plan for a large organisation in the nuclear sector, I discovered that being led by their corporate communications team, where the focus was on the public perception of their operations, ‘the public’ and ‘the trade unions’ were assumed to be their priority stakeholders. In fact, no resource had gone in to planning, let alone engaging, stakeholders within the company who had an interest and leverage in helping the program to be successful, or identifying those who might slow it down.

Who can help you overcome barriers? Who can stop your project? Who has the most influence? What is their map of the world and how might your project benefit them? How are you going to engage them?

Be sure to maintain a stakeholder engagement plan to monitor and record stakeholder activities and the evolving stakeholder landscape as a mechanism to share progress. Fields for a stakeholder engagement plan might include:

  • Category (from power versus influence grid).
  • Stakeholder position.
  • Name.
  • Who in the team owns the relationship?
  • How will engagement be managed, that is, through existing committee structure, Friday morning coffee, over golf?
  • What events are scheduled?
  • What engagement has occurred to date?
  • What do you think their current position, needs and wants are?

Personally, I also grade the relationship from green – strong supporter – through to red – active blocker. No colour means I have not found out yet, while amber means they are still making up their minds. Over time, how does your stakeholder landscape change? How could you make further improvements?

Once you have constructed your initial stakeholder grid then you may want to think about an analysis of your stakeholder social network. As you already know, network relationships are all the buzz with social media. Who are the key ‘connectors’ influencing perception of your outcome?

I presented on development of internal capability at the IPMA’s global congress in London in 2000. Of course, the ‘Millennial Projects’ were high on the agenda; essentially a set of vanity projects funded to help celebrate the turn of the year 2000. Two iconic projects in London were held up for comparison; the London Eye and the Millennium Dome, now the O2 Arena. Public perception invariably refers to the Millennium Dome as a failure, yet it was one of few projects to be completed on time for New Year’s Eve celebrations, let alone within cost and to scope. The London Eye, however, sponsored by the British Airways marketing team, is seen as a success, and it remains a great ride. But it over-ran, despite being ‘shrunk’. Whereas the Eye team actively engaged the mass media, as after all it was a marketing exercise, the Dome discouraged disruption by the press in order to meet committed deadlines. The Dome also suffered from an overly ambitious business case, but that was in place before the project team were assigned.


Figure 3.41 Example of a network diagram

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Which projects that you were involved in do you think have been presented as successful, and which were considered failures? Do you think that opinion, if not the result, could have been influenced by more robust stakeholder engagement?

You can’t win an argument; both sides lose over time as resentment builds up and relationships suffer.

Dale Carnegie in How to Win Friends and Influence People

Personally, I do not attempt to directly influence those whom I consider to have already made up their minds. I do, however, employ advocacy; that is, influencing people who have influence on those people. Who do you know, or who could you get to know, who could help you to influence, or at least neutralise, any remaining potential blockers? Remember that you do not need to do this directly, and your sponsor may be better placed to manage the politics. Being responsible for change, however, you are responsible for deploying appropriate tools to manage the stakeholder process. (This often leads to confusion over the term ‘stakeholder management’, with many preferring ‘stakeholder engagement’; ‘stakeholder management’ is management of processes, which encompass stakeholder engagement, but engagement needs to be prefaced with analysis and summarised through tracking for broader stakeholder management.)

Tools and techniques for one-on-one engagement are illustrated in Section 3.20.

3.18.8 Managing expectations

A genuine leader is not a searcher for consensus but a moulder of consensus.

Martin Luther King Jr

Do you like unpleasant surprises? Neither will your sponsor or other stakeholders. It becomes rather boring to see highlight reports in the sequence: green-green-green-red! Red from nowhere on a highlight report is also red on the face of your sponsor when they have to explain to their customer that they did not have proper oversight in place. Expect a debilitating program of external assurance as a consequence. Trust takes a long time to develop but a moment to lose forever. The golden rule is:

No Surprises!

Do you think that the public consider the iconic Sydney Opera House a success, despite it being an order of magnitude over budget and a decade late? How does Richard Branson hold on to the deposits of paying customers for his Virgin Galactic flights into space, despite a history of delays and even the demonstrator blowing up? In a world where perception is the only reality, it is down to active stakeholder engagement and managing customer expectations.

Of course, marketing, sales or the account manager might have already set expectations too high in order to close the sale and secure their bonus. I know many in the business analysis function try to get involved as early as practical to inject a dose of realism; keep at it, as a sale that does not make money is not even good for the client or the salesman in the long run.

Senior management are conversant with the phrase:

Under-promise and over-deliver

but often we get the opposite. Professor Bent Flyberg at Oxford Said Business School’s centre for complex projects makes a living describing people’s natural ‘optimism bias’, resulting in delivery that runs late and over-cost.84 Compounding the fact that most organisations systemically under-estimate resources, however, humans are loss averse.85 Psychologists such as Daniel Kannerman demonstrated that we are happier getting less but more than we were promised, rather than getting more but less than we were promised. Assume that you have an ‘intelligent client’ and do not oversell, or you will come to regret it.

Keep it real.

Ali G

Most of us involved with corporate buying are familiar with ‘the hype cycle’ (see Figure 3.42),86 and I find it makes a useful tool to keep things light and recalibrate expectations at project initiation with the client. Keep the illustration visible to remind us all that current difficulties are only a phase in what will be a successful journey.


Figure 3.42 The Gartner Hype Cycle

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If you were in a position of oversight for a major change initiative, what would you like to know, and how would you like that information communicated to you?

3.18.9 Overcoming resistance to change

If you really want something, you will find a way. If you do not, you will find an excuse.

Jim Rohn, entrepreneur, bestselling author and motivational speaker

As Machiavelli pointed out,87 transformation upsets the status quo and so will inevitably be resisted by established stakeholders. Whether conscious and deliberate or not, this is human nature. Hence, transformation programs will often default to incremental change, which is not disruptive and hence not threatening. Unfortunately, it does not result in transformation of performance either. But we can still ‘cherry-pick the low hanging fruit’, as getting some early successes under our belt will help enormously in managing dissenters. But what does it mean, and how do you do it?

Personally, I use the grid in Figure 3.43 and organise a workshop of stakeholders to help to populate the squares with examples of services / features / benefits. Different perceptions of value and resistance quickly emerge, which helps to inform the client of the difficult choices you have to make, but hopefully you will gain at least some consensus. It also creates some buy-in to the early implementation plan, and you could go further to encourage them to become evangelists for the project.


Figure 3.43 Value versus resistance

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During master classes on change management, after first establishing an overwhelming vision for what we are trying to achieve, I tease with the phrase, ‘It all seems so easy, doesn’t it. So what is stopping us?’ After a long pause, I get the delegates to list on a flip chart everything that they think is preventing them from moving forward quickly enough. Of course, it is all specific to each change initiative, each industry, each organisation … No, generally it is not. Barriers to change are fundamentally part of human nature and fairly generic, as are methods of dealing with them. But first we must assess their magnitude, and decide whether we have enough push from the problem, pull from the opportunity and management support and resource to overcome them.

Some people, especially analysts, like to make tables of barriers and levers, score them and weight them and decide on the likely outcome. Personally, I like to visualise them in a force-field diagram as shown in Figure 3.44.


Figure 3.44 Lewin force-field diagram illustrating barriers and levers for change

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What do you think barriers to your outcomes are?

Of course, sometimes there appears to be just one awkward individual who takes malevolent delight in ruining your day. But I am of the belief that no one comes to work to mess up. Perhaps I am misguided, but usually I find that the individual just has a different map of the world. My own reframe is to see this as an opportunity to practise my skills of eliciting this strange creature’s world-view, and then finding their levers for change. But if we do not have time or energy for that, then try the simple but effective Exercise 3.20.

Exercise 3.20 Do you want to celebrate success together, or blame each other for failure?

When you recognise that something needs to change in a conversation, affect a ‘pattern interrupt’; that is, abruptly change your body language, position and tone. This signals something has changed and renders the subject prone to suggestion.

Now, hold out your left hand and say, ‘If this left hand holds out the risk of arguing about blame for failure, (move your right hand very slightly upward and forward as you speak) ‘and my right hand holds out the opportunity of basking in success together, which hand do you choose now’ (no question mark, this is an embedded command to choose now using subtle command tonality).

Having forced that choice on the other person, you can now consolidate progress with an inclusive, but non-specific, statement along the lines of, ‘So, how are we going to start working better together from now on?’ And wait as long as it takes for them to fill the silence. And they will.

I have never had a client who hesitated, let alone choose the wrong hand.

Resistance in a client is a sign of lack of rapport.

NLP presupposition

3.18.10 Focus on delivery of benefits

As you might expect, the SFIA framework includes ‘the quantification of potential business benefits’ as part of the BA role, and benefits realisation mapping was added to the second edition of BCS’s book Business Analysis. A formalised benefits management process helps to work backwards to focus on activities which are essential to delivery of outcomes and realisation of business benefits.

Some people struggle with constructing benefits maps, confusing activities, capabilities, outcomes and benefits, but they are quite easy to construct by asking questions of the right format. In Section 3.16 we discussed getting better answers through better questions. Figure 3.45 illustrates how the sometimes confused terms outputs, outcomes and benefits are related:


Figure 3.45 Benefits in the context of a healthcare program

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Now, starting with the example of the benefits being measured in Figure 3.45, do you necessarily have to create that asset, that is, build a new hospital? In fact, these targets were largely met by alternative activities. What alternative ways can you think of for reducing wait times in this example?

I have seen benefits-mapping exercises to back-fit this approach to large programs which reveal tens of millions of pounds of unnecessary scope, and at the same time illustrate that the scope was missing which would have been necessary to realise the benefits from the assets being created. The impact of the latter would, of course, have led to significant delays when discovered later, affecting not only time and cost, but also functionality, risk and stakeholder confidence.

Can you relate all your activities to operational outcomes, and how you will base-line and measure the benefits?

3.18.11 ‘Let’s not blow everything up in a big bang’ – agile thinking and use of tranches

Nothing is particularly hard if you divide it into small steps.

Henry Ford

If we imagine ourselves on a boat, it would be straightforward to plot a course from the front to the back, bow to stern. Unless the boat was very big, or we could not see the other end because of large obstacles, or it was very foggy, especially if we were in rough seas. In these cases, we would be advised to plot our course to the next point where we could stop and rest, then revisit our course with better visibility. Though we might appear to be zig-zagging to someone on solid ground, we would in fact be maintaining forward direction by the most practical route. And so it is with programs of change where we have an overall direction but cannot see clearly quite how to get to our destination at the time we set off.

That is why we use tranches in programs, to provide resting places where we can harvest benefits of progress from creating new capabilities while re-assessing future direction in a changing environment. In this respect, a program approach is similar to an agile approach. With an agile approach, strictly speaking, we should be able to envision the whole development before we decide to break it down into time-based ‘sprints’. With a program approach, tranches are based on achieving capabilities rather than a duration or phase of working. Thus, a program approach embodies the traditional change management cycle illustrated in Figure 3.46.


Figure 3.46 Unfreezing and freezing meta-states

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Because tranches are based on delivery of distinct capabilities, they give us natural ‘walk-away’ decision points where we can harvest the benefits of investment to date, rather than committing ourselves to an all or nothing investment cycle. For large investments, it is easy to fall in to the ‘sunk cost fallacy’, which might otherwise keep the team working long after hope of achieving the business case has, in reality, already been lost.

Calling things by their proper names – tranches, stages, phases or sprints

In NLP we aim to be very precise with our language. As we demonstrate in workshop exercises, the same common words are understood to mean quite different things in different people’s heads, despite being in the same function of the same organisation with similar cultural and educational backgrounds. So, let us be clear with terminology regarding work break-down, as words are often used interchangeably, causing needless confusion.

A programmatised approach to business change is similar in many respects to agile methodology, especially in the agile mindset, for example:

  • Focus on early realisation of benefits.
  • De-risk implementation by avoiding a ‘big bang’.
  • Focus on stakeholders.
  • Adaptable approach to changes in environment.
  • Plan from a helicopter view around building blocks.
  • Adopt a facilitative style and involve the team and stakeholders in co-construction.
  • Engage business users directly inside the delivery team.

The main difference should be that, by using agile in developing system architecture, we should have a good picture of what it is we are building before we set off, but choose to deliver in ‘sprints’ in order to realise benefits incrementally. This brings forward the benefits curve and reduces the peaks of the risk profile. While agile sprints should deliver progressive functionality, the main driver for their length is duration, which should not be more than a few weeks, whereas tranches in change management, based on delivery of new capabilities rather than time, are more likely to be months and years.

Stages are sub-divisions of the life-cycle and a very convenient point to reconsider the merits of the business case and reformulate team membership for change in focus. Stage and gate originated in new product development88 and is extensively used in pharmaceutical development, where most projects are expected to be terminated early. The method is also extensively used where development periods are long, including the automotive and aerospace industries. So, use of stages and gates is a portfolio process for opportunity and risk management rather than one supporting benefits realisation. The stage and gate process is used by many central government departments to review status before allocating the next round of funding in very large, high risk projects. While stages and gates are extensively used in projects, only a ‘Gate Zero’ is used in programs as an assurance mechanism to ensure that organisation, processes and documentation is in place to support successful delivery.

Many people used the terms tranches and phases interchangeably, but phases are only convenient points in planning, such as handover from one contractor to another, or financial periods. An example would be in construction where first phase electrical fit-out would put wiring in, followed by plastering, that is, a handover to another resource skill set, followed by second phase electrical fit-out. None of which necessarily indicates any realisable benefit to the customer.

When you are using tranches correctly, you will always have the option of closing out the project and mobilising your resources to other initiatives, as benefits of work to the last tranche should have already been realised.

3.18.12 Selecting options for implementation

The best is the enemy of the good.

Voltaire

Consider Figure 3.47. A ‘perfect’ solution, but with a lot of resistance, or which is difficult to embed, does not result in any more benefit than a simple solution, such as a spreadsheet which is widely adopted. A simpler solution also minimises disruption by the program. Hence, I council you from experience: look for options which are likely to result in sufficient benefits with lower risk and disruption. Having constructed your benefits map, look at it again from right to left. If what you want to achieve is on the right, do you really need all the stuff on the left to achieve it?

Start with the end in mind.

NLP presupposition

Consider Figure 3.45, showing the relationship between building a new hospital and the measured benefits which we are expecting to result. If we start on the right with the goal of reducing waiting time for hip operations, do we really need to build a new hospital, which will take years to complete, irrespective of the cost? In master classes on this topic, delegates have no problem coming up with a long list of alternative ways to achieve the benefits more quickly and cheaply. (Many of these were in fact used by the health service when it considered the same approach.) Unfortunately, sometimes ‘the tail wags the dog’, and we become the slave of a system implementation.


Figure 3.47 Options – the best is the enemy of the good when it comes to implementation

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I was responsible for a program of technology-enabled transformation in a local authority and was called in by the executive team to explain the benefits of putting in the new enterprise resource planning (ERP) system. I was, however, working under an outsourced service provider, and explained that our business case in offering it was to secure a 12-year service contract. I was not able to discern what their business case was as they already had a good system. It turned out that they were asking this question because they were due a visit from the now defunct Audit Commission. To support my client, I gave them some examples of things which might have been benefits in a business case – had one been written – including financial governance, process efficiency and cost saving, to enable mobile working and to migrate away from out of date and costly line of business systems, hardware and so on.

They sent me away, and called me back a couple of days later to tell me that they decided that the business case was financial governance, and I should say so if asked. A good call given that a big over-spend had revealed itself as a surprise at the previous year end. ‘Oh dear’, I replied. When asked why, I explained that the new system was just a modern equivalent of the perfectly good system they had before, and it would not stop the same problem from occurring. They needed personal accountability in job descriptions, financial controls in place, process re-engineering and a lot of training, including of suppliers. They responded, ‘We assumed that you might have been doing that already?’ (‘Assumed’ makes an ‘ass’ of ‘u’ and ‘me’.) No, came my reply, I am just putting the asset in; you are supposed to be managing business change. We were running a project without the umbrella of a program on the client side. As above, a right to left perspective is a great sense check, and we might have chosen not to put that new system in. Since we now had it, we used it to harvest other benefits too. The balancing activities were back-fitted in time and benefits realised, and the partnership went on to win major PPP of the year.

Hopefully, your sponsor understands the boundaries of work-scope and relevant responsibilities, but is it worth checking that what you are delivering makes sense on their map of the world?

3.18.13 Methods, tools and behavioural competencies

A fool with a tool is still a fool.

Grady Booch

The UK government’s transformation agenda popularised structured delivery methods such as PRINCE2. In parallel, a comprehensive methodology for business process reengineering and change management in public services, SPRINT, was developed by a lead authority in collaboration with a university’s organisational development function.89 The resulting SPRINT methodology is in my opinion equal to the best out there and is actively supported by a community of practice and annual conference. (I should say here that I am biased, as Peak Performance is a SPRINT accredited organisation.) As described in Section 1.3 on qualifications, since then, IIBA was formed (in Canada), qualifications by BCS have become more popular and PMI piloted a BA qualification in 2014.

Why was it felt, so late in the day, that these capabilities needed to be developed? Because it was realised that progress on the five-year funded program was not where it should have been.

I was engaged to turn around one such transformation program in local government which was lagging four years on a five-year schedule. I realised that the focus had been on the bulk of a thick report on failings complied by the Audit Commission, which had been ‘projectised’ by one of the leading management consultancies. I thought the route to success was contained in the opening paragraph of that thick report: ‘This organisation has no credible capability in delivery or change management.’ This is what I addressed, creating delivery and change management capabilities, including a business analysis function. After that, delivery was relatively plain sailing, and massive improvements in audited key performance indicators were achieved within the final 12 months and reported in the national press.

Funding enabled a lot of people in local and central government to be trained in the PRINCE2 method. Unfortunately, conferring the title of ‘PRINCE2 Practitioner’ was mistaken as a qualification in project management itself, whereas, as the lead author and accompanying manual says, it is (only), a method to support project management. When Andy Murray of Outperform, now part of global consultancy RSM, was commissioned to update PRINCE2, he reported that the overwhelming feedback was that behavioural competencies need to be added. They do indeed need to be added to create capability, but do not belong in the method document itself. Rather they should be developed through a professional cadre or academy using similar group coaching methods to those we deploy within large corporates.

Peter shows a path to maturity that starts with self-awareness and progresses through self-regulation, social-awareness to social-regulation. It is the latter that most people will find will transform their performance as it includes the ability to influence groups.

Andy Murray, Partner of RSM and lead author of PRINCE2

Maturing your change management capability – mindset and toolset

Organisational maturity is directly correlated with organisational success. Higher maturity yields higher performance.

PWC state of PM annual survey

Organisations are maturing from heroic endeavours of change and program management to codifying methods and processes that improve chances of success. Indeed, PWC’s survey for the PMI ‘State of the profession’ highlighted a stark difference between high performing organisations, with a better than 80 per cent success rate, and low performing organisations, with a large correlation to maturity.90 Hence the opportunity arises to assess the likelihood of success of programs and projects across an organisation by assessing maturity.

Maturity models were reviewed in a guide by the APM,91 and include the CMMI model and PMI’s OPM model. More recently, the IPMA have introduced the Delta model, which is perhaps the best in addressing the maturity of behaviours likely to lead to success.92 As an accredited maturity assessor, I still consider assessment of behavioural maturity to be lagging significantly.

Another approach to assessing maturity of delivery is the Portfolio, Program and Project Management Maturity Model (P3M3).93 As a trained and accredited assessor, I find in particular that the program management dimension provides reasonable assurance for change management, covering blueprint, benefits, processes, stakeholder management and roles. Some organisations, including the State of Queensland in Australia,94 have mandated use of maturity assessment using P3M3 for their departments, and many large organisations in the UK have not only assessed maturity but also have improvement programs in place.

Successful delivery is a combination of mindset and toolset; toolset is somewhat overdone and we need to focus more on mindset. This book will help you.

Steve Wake, chairman of the APM

3.19 MINIMISING ORGANISATIONAL DISTRESS DURING TRANSFORMATION

It is time that we admitted there is more to life than money, and it’s time we focused not just on GDP (Gross Domestic Product), but on GWB – General Well-Being.

David Cameron, former UK prime minister

We will deal with managing stress and building resilience in ourselves, alongside broader aspects of the emotional intelligence quadrant of managing ourselves, in Section 3.29. Here we look at ways of minimising stress in an organisation during transformation. Addressing organisational needs forms part of the fourth quadrant of the emotional intelligence framework under social influence. I find this particularly important, not just for ethical reasons, but because an organisation under excessive stress is likely to freeze and resort to passive aggressive behaviour rather than make life easy for us as managers of change.

Stress seriously affects people’s health and wellbeing and it is the number one cause of lost working time through sickness in the UK, with one in four working adults suffering from a stress-related health problem in their lifetime. Organisational restructuring is perhaps the biggest source of stress in the workplace. Hence, as agents of change, we should optimise our approach to reduce the effect we have on the health of others.

3.19.1 Causes of stress in the organisation

Remember that stress doesn’t come from what’s going on in your life. It comes from your thoughts about what’s going on in your life.

Andrew J. Bernstein

I run an ongoing stress survey,95 and results to date are:

  • Causes – 55 per cent reported being hopelessly under-resourced.
  • Symptoms – only 30 per cent did not feel overwhelmed, and 46 per cent were very anxious about work.
  • Business impact – only 30 per cent would stay if they had another job offer.
  • Wellbeing – only 27 per cent had confidence in their leadership.
  • Support – only 30 per cent had any training in managing stress or building resilience.

Do you think stress helps an organisation to move from good to great?96

I supplemented a review of literature with input from more than 20 workshops around England speaking about the causes and impact of stress. Common causes of stress given at the workshops are shown in Figure 3.48. Consider how could you modify your approach and behaviours to reduce your impact against each of these.


Figure 3.48 Causes of stress in the organisation

Cause

Mitigation

Uncertainty

Change

Lack of trust

Lack of control

Lack of leadership

Being micro-managed

Unrealistic targets and deadlines

Lack of recognition

Lack of support and coaching

Not enough rest

Inter-personal conflict

Uncertainty


3.19.2 How the organisation performs better without stress

As in shown Figure 3.49, when under stress we exhibit classic responses of ‘freeze, flight or fight’.

In Figure 3.50, consider how each of these might manifest itself in your organisation.

Stressed people under-perform and make poor decisions at best. Conversely, in the absence of stress, individuals are more likely to collaborate, motivate and create. Which team culture would you prefer if you were in charge? What can you do about it?

3.19.3 Minimising the impact of stress from change management initiatives

Having been responsible for bid and transformation through large PPPs, I have seen change management done badly, and witnessed the effects on the workforce in general as well as on the wellbeing and careers of individuals. In PPPs we have an extreme, but mergers and acquisitions are similar. Put yourself in their shoes: your employer is changing from a ‘cosy local government job for life’ to working for a profit-centred private sector company with aggressive performance management. You may be re-located. Your job description will change. Your boss will change. The systems and processes you use will change. Efficiency targets mean there are likely to be fewer of you. Your outputs will be measured and your performance will be managed. Your output and performance is expected to go up markedly immediately after transition! In their shoes, how do you feel?


Figure 3.49 Stress pyramid

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Figure 3.50 Manifestations of stress in your organisation


Stress response

 

Manifestations in your organisation


Flight

Fight

Freeze


I saw one of these transitions drag out for three years waiting for supporting technology platforms and new facilities to come online. Performance declined rather than increased due to the long-term impact of stress, which in turn led to more pressure. When it came to my turn to manage a similar portfolio of technology and facilities through transition, with the benefit of hindsight I realised that performance would be better if we did things quicker and tried our best to keep stakeholders involved through the process. This was underpinned by:

  • Setting up joint governance involving leadership from all stakeholder groups with communications top of the agenda.
  • Getting agreement at the governance level that the implementation would be as clean and swift as practical, shortening analysis of the stagnant ‘as is’ stage and adopting ‘vanilla’ implementations of key systems such as enterprise resource management and customer relationship management systems with minimal customisation and configuration.
  • Only adopting common off the shelf technology (COTS) where we had reference transformations. Avoiding ‘bleeding edge’ technology, no matter how good the sales pitch.
  • Working hand in glove with corporate communications to tell people what was going to happen, what was happening and celebrate what we had achieved. Planning media campaigns to work across all channels, appealing to different representational systems and meta-programs, especially away from problems and towards solutions.
  • Having a dedicated ring-fenced budget to manage the change and supporting training. Note that this is normally excluded from capital expenditure (CapEx) proposals.
  • Employing a dedicated change management professional to augment the program in addition to the business analysis and BPR resource.
  • Having a dedicated HR change management professional to promptly deal with queries regarding working conditions. You might already have an HR business partner who would love to be involved and bring additional resources to bear.
  • Avoiding ‘big bang’ change-overs by piloting all roll-out of systems through lead groups with close support.
  • Involving local subject matter experts in the specification and design, especially ‘black hats’ to look for what might go wrong.
  • Majoring on active stakeholder management with ongoing engagement of all groups including workforce representatives.
  • Training up a group of ‘change champions’ within the workforce to act as local ambassadors and points of contact.
  • Holding regular ‘town hall’ meetings where anyone had a voice to ask any questions.
  • Celebrating success at every opportunity.

Award for ‘Major PPP of the year’ was in no small part due to the way we managed the transition. Having made life-long friends with some of those affected was the real measure of success. What approach will you use to minimise road-kill on the road to change?

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