Contents

Acknowledgements

Introduction

How to use the Rules

The Rules of Work

1Get your work noticed

2Never let anyone know how hard you work

3Set personal standards

4Carve out a niche for yourself

5Under promise and over deliver

6Know what you want long term

7Don’t gossip

8Put things in perspective

9Never disapprove of others

10Get people to assume you have already made the step

The Rules of Management

1Get them emotionally involved

2Accept their limitations

3Encourage people

4Be very, very good at finding the right people

5Respect individual differences

6Train them to bring you solutions, not problems

7Work hard

8Be proactive, not reactive

9Have principles and stick to them

10Go home

The Rules of Life

1Keep it under your hat

2You’ll get older but not necessarily wiser

3Accept yourself

4Dedicate your life to something

5No fear, no surprise, no hesitation, no doubt

6It’s OK to give up

7Don’t dwell on the past

8You’ll never understand everything

9Know when to let go – when to walk away

10Find a new rule every day – or occasionally at least

The Rules of Wealth

1Anybody can be wealthy – you just need to apply yourself

2Decide on your definition of wealth

3Most people are too lazy to be wealthy

4Decide what you want money for

5Understand that money begets money

6It’s harder to manage yourself than it is to manage your money

7Only by looking wealthy can you become wealthy

8Know yourself – solo, duo or team player

9Don’t try to get rich too quickly

10Know when to stop

The Rules of Parenting

1Relax

2Look pleased to see them

3Treat your child with respect

4Use praise wisely

5Make sure they know what’s important

6Schooling isn’t the same as education

7Remember Newton’s Third Law

8Don’t look under the mattress

9You can’t fix everything

10Don’t guilt-trip them

The Rules of Love

1Choose someone who makes you laugh

2You can’t change people

3You can’t make someone love you

4Be nice

5Allow your partner the space to be themselves

6Be the first to say sorry

7Your partner is more important than your kids

8Contentment is a high aim

9Never be too busy for loved ones

10The more you put out, the more you get back

The Rules to Break

‘Success is a good job earning lots of money’

1Success is what you say it is

‘The world is against you’

2You’re responsible for your own life

‘We all have an absolute right to be respected’

3There’s a balance between the right to respect, and tolerance

‘A place for everything, and everything in its place’

4It’s not morally superior to be tidy

‘The best people will be there for you for life’

5People come and go, and it’s OK

‘You can’t help how you feel’

6You feel what you think

‘Some people are just asking for it’

7Keep the moral high ground

‘No one is perfect’

8Be on the side of the angels, not the beasts

‘Let people know when you’re right’

9Never say ‘I told you so’

‘Guilt tells you where you’re going wrong’

10Don’t do guilt

The Rules of People

1People believe what they want to believe

2Banter isn’t teasing

3If they feel small, they’ll big themselves up

4Everyone else is insecure too

5Teenagers hate you because they love you

6Some weirdos are great people

7Listen to what they don’t say

8Loneliness is a state of mind

9Credit people with your own ideas

10Say thank you properly

The Rules of Thinking

1Take control

2Focus on other people

3Be in the present

4Think outside your head

5Loosen up

6Don’t settle for your first answer

7Facts are neutral

8Spot the box

9Feed your mind

10Untangle the knots first

The Rules of Living Well

1It’s not all about you

2Your feelings are your own

3Train your mind to relax

4Zen it

5Beware food rules

6Enjoy your mistakes

7Create boundaries

8Stay in synch

9Redraw your relationship

10Forgive and don’t forget

Know When to Break the Rules

Create your own Rules

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