Self-made millionaires place a high value on being respectful. It is a reflection of their character. Like everyone else, these successful people gain respect in one way: by earning it.
Gary M., a prominent attorney and the twenty-sixth self-made millionaire interviewed for this book, explained the way he demonstrates his respect for others is by making friends with all persons who he deals with in life. His sincere caring for people is exemplified in the eleven forms of respect that he extends to others. There is no hoo-ha here. I have personally witnessed it.
You may be saying to yourself, “I have those 11 attributes, yet I am not a self-made millionaire.” Congratulations! I told you at the beginning of this book that you may be closer to self-made millionaire status than you think. It is a matter of keeping your eye on the big picture as you complete the remaining secrets in the book that are still on your “to do” list.
ACTION STEP: TREAT OTHERS WITH RESPECT TO SHOW OTHERS YOUR GOOD CHARACTER.
One of the many preconceived notions that I had of self-made millionaires is that their success went to their head. Was I ever wrong! At least that has not been the case with the thirty self-made millionaires who are part of this book.
Although their net worth has changed, most self-made millionaires' values have not. They have a virtue that is often both overlooked and definitely underrated. It is their humility.
Perhaps the modest beginning of many of these individuals is one reason that they are low-key about their status despite their seven-figure net worth. Like many of us, they undoubtedly have put in the long hours to achieve their success. Some still do despite having “made it.”
Now that they have achieved this success status, they have proven to themselves that they can do it. A large percentage of these individuals who have made it do not have the need or want, however, to flaunt their success or to be treated more special than anyone else. In fact, many self-made millionaires prefer to blend in. That is reflected by where they live, the vehicles some drive, and their modest dress. They choose to live below their means, as you will read in Secret 44 for creating your own success.
Warren Buffett is a prime example. Although Fortune's 2017 list of the world's wealthiest billionaires ranked him the second-richest person on earth, Warren chooses to live in a home in Omaha, Nebraska, that he bought in 1958 valued at $31,500. His financial status has since changed, but, like many self-made individuals, his choice of creature comforts has stayed the same.
Besides living a modest life style in comparison to their net worth, these confident individuals also often prefer to remain under the radar screen in other ways. Many of them are the listeners of the world and prefer to focus more on others rather than bragging about their own accomplishments—unless asked, that is. They thrive on helping others to achieve success.
What about you? Why not test your humility quotient by taking the following four-point test:
How did you do? If you answered yes to the above questions, then you have this secret mastered. If not, practice makes perfect.
ACTION STEP: FOCUS ON OTHERS.
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