What’s the Big Idea?
It looked like being a truly miserable overnight flight home. I found myself in economy class sitting next to an agitated young child with a teenager behind me banging her legs against my seat back. I felt tired and frustrated. I looked in vain for an alternative seat, but it was a full flight. Just before resigning myself to seven uncomfortable hours I decided to visit the galley and ask a steward if I could be moved. My expectation was to receive a polite “Sorry sir, but no. . . .” Instead, she listened carefully to what I was saying, seemed to understand my frustration, and said to my surprise, “There is a spare seat in Economy Plus you can have. Please follow me.”
This is a very small example of empathy followed by action in a service context. Although trivial, it illustrates how empathizing can lead to a radically different experience for the customer.
But is this everyone’s experience of the same airline? Have a brief look at the customer reviews websites, and you will discover the answer is a definite no. For organizational leaders’ questions about the possibility of “designing-in” empathetic ways of thinking and acting come to the surface. What do we mean by empathy? What if everyone’s experience of encountering the organization could be shaped by empathy? How would that look and what might be the consequences? This chapter starts to open up these questions and considers how empathy and empathizing need to sit at the heart of our practice of co-designing services in complex systems.
Defining what we mean by empathizing is not as straightforward as we might hope. One reason is that empathy is an umbrella term that encapsulates at least three distinct but overlapping types of empathetic response. The first is the idea that we can, in our minds, put ourselves in the position of someone else. We can try to see the world from their perspective. Sometimes we talk about this as though we can step into someone else’s shoes. We are cognitively engaged. A second different but related type of empathy is when we think we can experience the very same emotions as someone else in a specific context. We think of ourselves so in tune with a person that we feel we are literally experiencing their feelings. There is some evidence emerging from the field of social neuroscience that the brain can on occasions mirror the emotions of another person (e.g., Singer et al. 2004). The third type is when we recognize another person’s emotional state. It does not become our state, but we can sense why they might be feeling the way they are. This is our affective or feeling response.
Separating out these three “types” of empathy looks quite neat and tidy on the surface, although some researchers would argue that we have slightly oversimplified the picture (Baron-Cohen and Wheelright 2004). In reality, experiencing empathy can be a combination of all of them or just one.
Taking a broader perspective, empathy can be argued to be the “glue” that creates and sustains social relationships at a fundamental level. Without empathy, in any form, we can find ourselves fragmenting into individualism that ultimately can begin to see others as competitors in our fight for survival. Empathy recognizes that for us to flourish, as individuals, mutual social relationships based on understanding offer the potential for collaboration and success. It is possible that we don’t actually talk or think that much about empathizing because it is so hardwired into our thinking and practice as people. At the most basic level, we need to have some element of empathy to relate.
One idea often linked to empathy is that of compassion. The two are different but of course linked. Compassion in an organizational context can be broadly viewed as a culture of trust between individuals where people feel inclined to offer and receive help. Empathizing is clearly part of the process whereby compassion is enacted. So, for example, as we try to empathize with a recently bereaved colleague, it is not until we offer something to the person, like additional time off work, that compassion is expressed. Arguably, of course, we can also view the feelings of empathy as compassion in themselves.
In the context of co-design, it is the processes involved in empathizing that are of interest to us. Begin by considering a traditional design process. Here user-experience researchers have become the experts to help us learn about users. They claim this power through a set of research methods — journey maps, interviews, and personas — which help us to discover user needs. The danger with this way of thinking is that it creates a pseudoscience to replace empathy: There is a “right” way and a “wrong” way to learn about users.
Empathy is different to learning about users through a prescribed research method. Rather than attempting to objectify users, to map out their cognitive or emotional experience, empathy flows more readily when designers learn with people who find themselves acting in the role of a user or customers. Empathy is an intrinsic aspect of a relationship that conveys meaning and care — it is more relational than transactional. And this kind of relationship can be quite time-inefficient, given the need to invest time in listening and being with people in their context.
Empathy is important because it awakens our senses as designers. User research has the danger of reducing the complexity of people to a few words on a sticky note. Empathy, in contrast, seeks to enrich and deepen the experience through human sensation.
Our aim becomes the creation of an empathic environment where people acting in the role of designer and service user can share their experiences and think imaginatively together.
We think this view challenges the way that many designers think — that we need to put effort into understanding the world “as it is” before we attempt to change it. This is a call to move away from an objectivist way of thinking and to reject the formulaic toolkit of “personas” and “journey maps” replacing these artificial representations of reality with active, lively relationships between those involved in co-designing services.
To summarize, De Lille, Roscam Abbing, and Kleinsmann (2012) observe that
Empathic understanding goes beyond knowledge: when empathizing you do not judge, you relate to (the user) and understand the situations and why certain experiences are meaningful to these people, a relation that involves an emotional connection. . . . Using empathy, the design thinker can identify needs of the different stakeholders and react upon them. Through a complex and iterative process of synthesis and transformation of research data, design thinkers empathize with the stakeholders through revealing future design opportunities. (p. 3)
Why Is Empathizing Important?
Helping the people in the system to develop empathy for and with one another is crucial to successful co-design work. There are many reasons why this is the case:
In our Western culture, listening in this way tends to be countercultural, and so the need for role models, conversational and listening opportunities, and new habits becomes important. The aim is for listening to become routinized.
We have argued that empathizing is a key practice for co-designers in complex systems. However, it also has the potential to help shape the approach to leading and leadership within a system. This is important because leaders often have responsibility for enabling connections and purposing between quite disparate groups of people. By adopting an empathetic approach, this vital work of growing systems can be accomplished in a more nuanced and ordered manner, and so, securing ongoing commitment. In a nutshell, empathizing is a practice for all of us engaged in human organizing!
What Are the Implications for Practice?
It may be helpful to start with a few questions for reflection:
In thinking about developing our empathetic practice, it is worth spending time reflecting on past experiences to see what we can learn from them. Engaging in such reflexivity, where we not only remember but also explore our experiences, is basic to professional development in relation to any aspect of practice. This is also the case for the practice of listening. To be empathetic means that we have heard someone. Not only have we heard, and seen, the circumstances of another person but we have also listened to our own internal voice engaging with the experience of another. The practice prompt here for us is to consider how we might further practice empathetic listening. Maybe we find ourselves distracted so we need to find ways of focusing our attention. Each of us will have strategies for doing this, but often, speaking personally, we can fall back into old habits of not attending to others as well as we might.
Let’s first consider some further practical ways in which co-designers might grow in their empathy in the context of a system:
As with all practices, there are aspects that need some care. Klimecki and Singer (2012) noted that people have different capacities for empathy. One response might be for a person to exhibit symptoms of what they call empathetic distress. This is where they are overcome by other people’s feelings and may go on to experience emotional burnout. Bloom (2017) highlights the risk of empathy bias where we might only be concerned with people like ourselves and ignore others. He also points out the danger of overrelying on our emotional responses and minimizing helpful thought processes alongside the emotions. In situations of work overload, particularly in caring professions, research has shown that there is the possibility of decline in empathy as people are repeatedly “required” to demonstrate that they are empathetic when they themselves are experiencing stress (Hojat et al. 2009).
As we empathize with others what will be our practical response? This is a moral question for each of us. In every context, our decisions will have consequences and implications for a few or for many, some of whom we see and know and others who are out of sight. Space here precludes a discussion about the moral dimensions of empathy, but perhaps you would wish to explore this in your own practice.
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References
Baron-Cohen, S., and S. Wheelwright. 2004. “The Empathy Quotient: An Investigation of Adults with Asperger Syndrome or High Functioning Autism, and Normal Sex Differences.” Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders 34, no. 2 (2004): 163–175.
Bloom, P. 2017. Against Empathy: The Case for Rational Compassion. London, UK: Random House.
De Bono, E. 2017. Six Thinking Hats. London, UK: Penguin.
De Lille, C., E. Roscam Abbing, and M. Kleinsmann. 2012. “A Designerly Approach to Enable Organizations to Deliver Product-service Systems.” In 2012 International Design Management Research Conference, 8–9 August: Boston, MA: DMI.
Hojat, M., M. J. Vergare, K. Maxwell, G. Brainard, S. K. Herrine, G. A. Isenberg, and J. S. Gonnella. 2009. “The Devil is in the Third Year: A Longitudinal Study of Erosion of Empathy in Medical School.” Academic Medicine 84, no. 9, pp. 1182–91.
Klimecki, O., and T. Singer. 2012. “Empathic Distress Fatigue Rather than Compassion Fatigue? Integrating Findings from Empathy Research in Psychology and Social Neuroscience.” Pathological Altruism, pp. 368–83.
Singer, T., B. Seymour, J. O’Doherty, H. Kaube, R. J. Dolan, and C. D. Frith. 2004. “Empathy for Pain Involves the Affective but not the Sensory Components of Pain.” Science 303, pp. 1157–61.
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