Those 15 minutes determine whether the employee sues you, poisons coworkers against you, or resorts to violence.
—Amy Delpo and Lisa Guerin
AT SOME POINT IN your career, you may have to dismiss an employee. Preparing and knowing what to say during the meeting can help you handle the situation professionally.
First, make sure you’ve done all the background work: Have you documented the employee’s performance or behavior problems and the steps you’ve taken to help him or her improve? Have you consulted your company’s legal and human resource departments regarding the dismissal regulations unique to your situation? Have you processed the difficult emotions associated with this decision?
You want to feel confident that dismissing the person is the right thing to do—for him or her, for your team, and for your company. The really tough part of the dismissal could be breaking the news to the affected employee. However, if you have done a good job of providing performance feedback to the employee, the dismissal should not come as a complete surprise. Still, unfortunately, some companies have suffered severe repercussions after dismissing someone. A dismissed employee may deliver an angry or destructive outburst or inflict threatening letters or phone calls on the company. He or she might also sabotage company assets or launch (or threaten) a wrongful-dismissal lawsuit.
By handling the dismissal thoughtfully, you can do your best to ensure that none of these things happen. Certainly, there is no easy way to implement a dismissal. However, you can mitigate the amount of pain the affected employee will experience and protect your company from legal or other kinds of retribution by being careful about when, where, and how you dismiss an employee, and about what you say during this critical discussion.
Some experts advise against dismissing an employee on a Friday afternoon. A dismissal notice just before a weekend may cause the person to stew over the weekend and possibly ponder a lawsuit or think about returning to the office with disruptive intentions.
Consider scheduling a meeting on a Monday afternoon. That way, he or she has all week to start looking for another job, and you’ll minimize the impact of the dismissal notice on other employees.
Under some circumstances, you may want to allow time for good-byes. However, don’t let the dismissed employee mix with other workers for too long unless you can trust that he or she is not going to express extreme criticism of the action to other employees. If you do allow good-byes, identify whom the employee is allowed to meet with and for how long.
Meet with the employee in a place that keeps both of you out of plain sight, such as a windowless conference room or office, or some other space that gives you complete privacy. Also, arrange for a path to and from the meeting to avoid areas that are likely to be populated by curious coworkers.
Why so much secrecy? Keeping the meeting private shows basic respect for the affected employee. No one wants to know that his or her coworkers are overhearing or seeing what may feel like a humiliating experience.
Also, if other employees witness or overhear what’s going on, they may develop a “siege mentality.” That is, without much more information than glum or tense faces or voices, they may worry that they’re one misstep away from being dismissed themselves or feel protective toward the affected employee (especially if they consider him or her a friend).
To handle the dismissal as effectively as possible, don’t go it alone. Always make sure someone from human resources is present at the meeting. He or she can:
Also, get the meeting over with as quickly as possible. The more concisely you convey the news to the employee, the less prone you’ll be to say something that might expose your company to liability. Keep the meeting to five minutes—ten minutes at the most.
In addition, remember to be dispassionate, direct, and focused. Convey a sense of serious purpose and resoluteness. To avoid planting the seeds for legal problems later, resist the temptation to apologize or to reconsider your decision in light of protests from the employee. Don’t try to sugarcoat your message or give the impression that your decision can be negotiated. Instead, be as unemotional and resolute as possible.
The words and tone of voice you use in a dismissal meeting are crucial. Strive to apply the following practices:
Examples might include the following: “We talked about your not meeting the performance goals for your role six months ago. You still haven’t met them.” “You’ve received coaching and counseling to work on your critical attitude toward colleagues, but your behavior hasn’t changed.”
By citing objective reasons in a neutral tone, you’ll lessen the chances that the person will sue or bad-mouth you or the company—something that can come back to haunt you during acute labor shortages.
As for what not to say during a dismissal, remember that the specific language you use while dismissing an employee can play a major role in whether the person decides to sue. Therefore, language merits a focused discussion here. Use the following “don’ts” as guidelines during a dismissal:
No matter how difficult a dismissal meeting may be, it may yield information that can help you make important improvements in your group. But to gain that information, you’ll need to provide opportunities for the dismissed employee to communicate his or her opinions, and then listen to them objectively.
For example, if the employee has numerous thoughts about what went wrong, encourage him or her to write them down in a letter or memo and to share them during an exit interview. With nothing at stake any longer, the former employee may offer candid opinions of oppressive policies or other problems that you can use later to identify and implement needed changes. At the very least, by making the individual feel that his or her views are important enough to take seriously, you’ll help ease the pain of the situation and shore up the person’s self-esteem.
Also, be sure to listen as well as talk during the dismissal meeting. A person who is being dismissed may speak more openly about workplace problems than other employees will. By reviewing parting comments (even if they’re barbs) objectively, you may be able to identify weaknesses in your group that you can correct. Still, during the dismissal meeting, do not make any promises to change the way you manage your group.
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