A Leader Can Be Led
Leaders are interested in finding the best way rather than having their own way. “Because I said so” is a poor explanation for doing something. It’s no reason.
Stubbornness, an insistence on having your own way, narrowmindedness, a refusal to listen, an inability to see both sides—all are antithetical to leadership. If you cling to these traits, you and whatever team you wish to lead will not progress.
The leader must make the final decision, but it should be based on his or her evaluation of the best way. The suggestions and ideas of others should play an important part in that decision. That’s why a leader needs to retain an open mind.
You might remind yourself of this verse from time to time:
Firmness we condone.
The former is my neighbor’s trait,
The latter is my own.