CHAPTER 6
Neuroscience Platform—Neuroplasticity
It had rained overnight in the foothills of the Dolomite Mountains in northern Italy. Early-morning sun glistened on cobblestones in streets barely wide enough for a small car. Cyclists who had pitted their strength against steep inclines breathed a thrill of victory in reaching the ancient town of Asolo. NeuroLeadership Summit participants threaded their way among the cyclists and townspeople to gather in the 500-year-old convent that had become the headquarters for CIMBA, an international business school and conference center. Jeffrey Schwartz was about to unveil a formula for consciously managing brain changes that he and David Rock had developed:
DS = (exptn + exprnce) × AD+ × VP
In other words, dynamic stability equals a combination of expectation and experience multiplied by positive attention density multiplied by veto power. Dynamic stability is another way of saying “positive change,” change that allows a system to adapt and develop, rather than remaining inflexible and unable to respond, and to do this without becoming overwhelmed by chaos.
For most of the 20th century, assumptions of mechanistic science, added to limitations on observing the inner workings of live brains, led to several conclusions:
1. Damaged brains cannot regenerate.
2. Human brains at birth have all the neurons they will ever have.
3. Human brain structure is fixed by the beginning of adulthood.
4. From adulthood on, loss of neurons and thus of mental function is the best that can be expected.
Any contrary examples, such as people regaining the use of limbs after a stroke or of becoming accomplished pianists or athletes as adults, were dismissed as anomalies at best and hoaxes at worst. During the last decades of the century, however, several lines of inquiry shook those assumptions.
Attachment research established the importance of a secure relationship between a child and a parent. Not having that security was correlated with a number of mental health problems, including difficulty in establishing a secure relationship with one’s own children. But in his book The Developing Mind, Daniel Siegel (1999) reported research showing exceptions. Some parents whose insecure attachments had been identified when they were children ended up as adults being able to establish secure relationships with their children. This was very different from what should have been true based on the assumption that adult brain structure is immutable. Furthermore, psychotherapists were discovering treatments that at least relieved the symptoms of trauma, despite the belief that traumatic experiences created untreatable brain damage.
In a compelling series of stories, Jeffrey Schwartz and Sharon Begley (2002; Begley, 2007) describe more direct evidence of brain plasticity. Edward Taub showed that monkeys’ brains are able to rewire and return function to a limb whose nerves had been severed. Michael Merzenich and his colleagues applied this finding to helping human stroke victims regain function. Fred Gage and others discovered not only that adult brains can form new neurons but that this is possible at least into the eighth decade of life.
As a result, it is clear that our brains can grow to an extent never thought possible even 30 years ago. But questions remain.
• How can we keep from introducing so many changes so fast that our systems just cannot keep up?
• What are the limits of neuroplasticity?
• How does our new knowledge of the brain help us know how to change when we want to?
• What kinds of experiences are more likely to stimulate brain growth?
• What can we do consciously to encourage our brains to develop?
• How can we stop doing what we do not want to do?
• How hard is it and how long does it take to create a structural change in the brain?
• How does brain change relate to systems theory?
• Do we have free will?
We examine these and other questions under the next headings:
• Dynamic stability
• Placebo effect
• Experience and hardwiring
• Attention
• Veto power
• Applying the Schwartz-Rock Formula for Dynamic Stability
• Practice Guide for Coaching with the Brain in Mind—Leverage Change

DYNAMIC STABILITY

We examine each of the terms in the Schwartz and Rock formula for dynamic stability in order to understand neuroplasticity in some detail. Earlier we looked at dynamic stability from the perspective of systems theory as well as quantum mechanics. We know that healthy self-directed (autopoietic) systems are changing continuously but maintain a stable identity, neither inflexible nor disintegrated. Quantum theory tells us that an observer’s attention can hold subatomic particles in a stable state.
Systems in dynamic stability develop over time by becoming more complex. A child’s first steps may be awkward, but over time her brain and body develop so that she can execute complex ballet or hip-hop moves. A child’s brain may be subject to pruning, but the remaining neurons form complex networks of connections stimulated by the changing environment, especially social interactions. An organization that manages to survive through difficulties usually does so by developing complex skills and systems that enable it to meet future challenges more easily. Through dynamic stability, a skilled athlete or math expert develops abilities that can be nothing less than amazing.

Linking Dynamic Stability to Coaching

The development of advanced skills requires ongoing calibration. Taking on an overwhelming challenge may end in frustration and a sense of failure. Being asked to repeat something we have already mastered may be accompanied by boredom or lack of engagement. Coaches can help clients be aware of the characteristics of flow that create a sense of engagement and build expertise.

PLACEBO EFFECT

In medicine, the placebo effect, or the tendency for people to experience relief from a sugar pill just because the doctor recommends it, has long been recognized. But what is this phenomenon from a neuroscience perspective, and what is its relationship to neuroplasticity?
Robert Coghill is a scientist who studies pain and its representation in the brain. At the First Global NeuroLeadership Summit, Coghill (2007) reported that pain triggered by the same outside event was experienced quite uniquely by different people. This finding has implications for how people’s mental processes work. The objectively identical pain stimulus (e.g., heat) can be “felt” or rated by some people as 1.5 on a 10-point scale and by others as 8.5 on the same scale. This is not a matter of some people reporting less experienced pain just to appear brave or others reporting greater pain as a dramatic gesture. In functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) studies that indirectly measure changes in cerebral blood flow, different reported pain levels were correlated with different cortical activity. So people who reported pain of 1.5 actually had a different measure of brain activity from people who reported pain of 8.5.
But why is this work relevant to a gathering of coaches and business leaders? Coghill explained that listeners could replace the word “pain” in his studies with the word “information.” We have already defined information as output that tells us about input as well as the process involved in conveying the input.
As we argued earlier, information that comes from a painful stimulus is not delivered by our sensory apparatus bare and unadorned by our minds. Rather, the painful output that registers in our consciousness tells us not only about the original input or stimulus but also about the mechanism and process that regulates that flow of information. Coghill’s research indicates that the parts of the brain that are most active in regulating our unique perception of pain are the “higher levels,” which include past history, present context, and future implications.
As for what pain research can tell us about expectations, Coghill developed an “expectation paradigm” in which subjects learned to expect a mildly painful heat stimulus after a short time interval, a medium stimulus after a middle time interval, and a severely painful stimulus after a long interval:
• Mild: After 7.5 seconds, a stimulus of 46˚ Celsius
• Medium: After 15 seconds, a stimulus of 48˚ Celsius
• Severe: After 30 seconds, a stimulus of 50˚ Celsius
After enough trials that people knew what to expect, Coghill varied the stimulus, sometimes delivering a severely painful stimulus after only a short interval. That is, people expected a mild pain but received a severe one. The results were surprising. Not only did the subjects report experiencing less pain than when the severe stimulus was delivered after the expected long interval, their brain activity was similar to what occurred when they actually received a mild stimulus. The fMRI measures showed similar brain activity when people expected a mild pain but received a severe one as compared to when they both expected and received a mild pain. To put it another way, when people expected a weak pain but received a severe one, they experienced the pain as weak.
The difference is significant. It is comparable to the pain relief experienced when a person is given a shot of morphine. Conclusion: Expectation alters our experience of pain. And, more generally, mental activity alters whether we experience incoming information as positive or negative. Coghill suggested that he had discovered the brain traces of the placebo effect, the well-established tendency for a person’s expectations about treatment to affect his or her recovery. In psychotherapy, for example, Hubble, Duncan, and Miller (1999) marshal evidence that approximately 15% of variance in psychotherapy outcome is attributable to the placebo effect.
But expectation is not the whole story behind the placebo effect. Coghill’s experiment does not work the other way. People who expect a severely painful stimulus but receive a mild one report the pain as mild. Coghill explains this as the interaction of desire and expectation: We want a mild stimulus. Our expectations of what is severe are tempered by the desire for mild, with the result that we perceive mild as mild, even when we expect severe. This may be an example of confirmation bias, or ignoring negative information that does not suit our purposes. We are more likely to pay attention to information that matches our intentions.
Coghill’s studies support his claim that we are constantly constructing expectations and intentions and then testing them against incoming sensory data. That is, neither experience nor expectations alone account for phenomena like the placebo effect. It is the combination of expectation and experience that creates an important element in managing the human system that makes up our existence.

Linking Placebo Effect to Coaching

How can coaches help clients construct their expectations to take advantage of the placebo effect, especially in a situation that may have painful consequences? First of all, it is important for clients to be aware of their intentions. The coaching question “What do you want?” is repeated so often because it both clarifies and activates our desires and intentions. When we can help clients expect the best, they may be able to produce an effect similar to the placebo.
Example: “Another Chance to Design My Own Job”
Adele’s job in upper management at a government agency required her to retire at age 60, and she was not ready for retirement.
“What do you want?” asked her coach.
“I want to be able to use my experience and not have it just lost or forgotten, but I have no idea how or where to use it.”
“When in the past have you successfully figured out questions like that?” (This is an approach from solution-focused techniques discussed in chapter 10.)
“Oh, right. When I was transferred to a new department and had to create a new position for myself, I had no idea what to do. I went into a learning frenzy, taking courses and talking to people and gathering information about what was required. I designed a position that’s now been duplicated in several other departments. That came out great!”
“What can you apply from that experience to this retirement opportunity?”
“I can see it as another chance to design my own new job.”
Adele signed her first consulting contract with her former agency the week after she retired. By clarifying her intention, she became more likely to notice opportunities that matched what she wanted. Then, by activating her positive memories of a similar change in the past, she shaped an expectation that helped her bypass negative or discouraging feedback. Even if she got a painful response to her inquiries, she experienced it as a mild setback because of her positive expectations. As Coghill suggested in his NeuroLeadership Summit presentation (2007), “Change through aspiration is more effective than change through desperation.”
However, Coghill also warns us that our ability to think our way to positive experiences is limited. Believable expectations can alter reality (such as objectively measured painful stimuli), but when our expectations cross into unbelievable territory, the effect breaks down. By expecting a mildly hot stimulus, we may be able to experience a hotter stimulus as being mild, but only if the stimulus is not so hot as to cause physical damage. Expecting a truck to go around us when we stand in front of it is not likely to result in a positive experience. However, there is a large territory within which coaching our expectations effectively changes our experience and resulting maps of the world.

EXPERIENCE AND HARDWIRING

Coaches can use the power of awareness to help clients perceive and move toward their intentions. Repetition of this movement can result in hardwiring, or the shift of conscious intention to automatic processing, that enables us to act on information without requiring the limited resources of attention.
But human capacity to make this shift raises other problems: What if we react automatically, either because of implicit or explicitly practiced hardwiring, and that reaction is no longer appropriate in a new situation? Consider the experience of the new chief executive officer (CEO) of a resources company who wanted managers to offer their ideas about new processes and markets. But the managers had been trained by the previous command-and-control CEO to keep their ideas to themselves. The new CEO could not understand why brainstorming sessions were more like funerals. Issues like this are frequent challenges for leaders and are common fare for coaches. Understanding techniques for encouraging and guiding such changes requires recognizing how expectations fit into the larger picture of the brain and mind.

Linking Experience and Hardwiring to Coaching

Once a habit or emotional reaction or train of thought has been hardwired, it is useless to try to erase it. That is not a choice we have. It is, however, possible to pay attention to what we want to replace it with. Jeffrey Schwartz (Schwartz & Begley, 2002) does not underestimate the effort it takes to consciously redirect our attention, especially in the face of signals of danger. His experience with treating patients with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) gave him tremendous respect for their courage and tenacity. However, it becomes easier to persist in this task when we understand that quantum physics supports the possibility of using our minds (and the minds of others) to change our brains (see Begley, 2007).

ATTENTION

One aspect of our mental lives in which we exercise choice has to do with where we direct our attention. By exerting conscious energy, we decide what to pay attention to. Over time, the connections we make because we are paying attention become hardwired, and the basis for further actions. This fact has enormous importance in change management in general and in coaching, which Jeffrey Schwartz (Rock & Schwartz, 2006) has called “self-directed neuroplasticity,” (p. 32) in particular. After all, “self-directed” implies choice.
The collaboration of Jeffrey Schwartz with physicist Henry Stapp (Schwartz, Stapp, & Beauregard, 2004) has provided the foundation for our recognition of the importance of the systemic paradigm for both coaching and neuroscience. Schwartz (Rock & Schwartz, 2006; Schwartz & Begley, 2002; see also Stapp, 2007) explains that, in order to communicate with one another, the neurons in the brain require individual chemical ions to travel across channels that are, at some points, not much more than an ion wide. Ions are atoms or molecules that have an electric charge because they have either gained or lost an electron. According to quantum physics, this makes the brain a quantum environment subject to the laws that apply at this subatomic level. One of those laws is this: The questions you ask influence the results you see.
Applying this to the quantum brain, asking one question rather than another, or focusing our attention on one item or another, influences the connections the brain makes and “profoundly alters the patterns and timings of the connections the brain generates in each fraction of a second” (Rock & Schwartz, 2006, p. 36). Applying this concept to the principle of change, if we shine our spotlight on something new that represents the change we wish to make, our brain makes new connections. This is not just a theoretical possibility: That the brain makes new connections in this way “has shown to be true through studies of neuroplasticity, where focused attention plays a critical role in creating physical changes in the brain” (Rock & Schwartz, 2006, p. 36).
We have discussed the research by Fred Gage and others (Eriksson et al., 1998; Olson et al., 2006; van Praag et al., 2005) showing that the adult brain changes in response to stimulating environments and voluntary exercise. Schwartz (Schwartz & Begley, 2002) extended this in his psychiatric practice to people suffering from OCD. Remember that this is a very troubling affliction that its victims experience as having no control over. A popular depiction of this disorder is the detective Monk in the television series of the same name. The lead character, played by actor Tony Shalub, uses his obsession with detail to solve crimes.
Even so, part of the show’s appeal lies in Monk’s difficulty with everyday interactions. Because most people with this disorder are not able to make good use of their compulsive behavior, they are simply left with the suffering and isolation it entails.
Schwartz trained OCD patients to become mindful of their compulsive impulses and to attribute these to false messages from the brain’s error-detection systems. When they experienced an impulse, for example, to wash their hands after having just done so, Schwartz helped them say to themselves, “This is not a signal of danger, this is just my brain sending a mistaken signal.” They then practiced choosing to do something else, for instance playing the piano or watering their plants. After just two weeks of training in this method, not only did the patients report behavioral change, Schwartz was able to see systematic changes in neural structure in positron emission tomography scans of the patients’ brains. This is an example of what Schwartz calls “self-directed neuroplasticity,” the very term he also applies to coaching.

Quantum Zeno Effect

Looking more closely at the science behind this process, what accounts for such changes? At the first NeuroLeadership Summit in Asolo, Italy, in May 2006, physicist Henry Stapp explained the Quantum Zeno Effect. He drew a random pattern of dots and said that this could be a picture of how atomic particles decay. They are dynamic, or in motion, but they are not stable, or orderly. If an observer fixes attention on that decaying particle—Stapp pointed to one of the dots he had drawn—the pattern becomes orderly. Attention creates a “strange attractor” phenomenon around which decaying particles group. In this way, the atom achieves dynamic stability—moving, but in an orderly fashion.
Schwartz (Schwartz & Begley, 2002) points out that, at the molecular level, repeated observation holds a molecule in place, slowing the rate of fluctuation it exhibits when unobserved. Some scientists do not believe this effect is applicable to phenomena of the human brain, but if we accept, as Stapp and Schwartz do (Schwartz et al., 2004; Stapp, 2007) that the brain is a quantum environment, then our ability to focus our attention on newly connecting brain circuits should eventually hardwire them. That is, by choosing what to shine the spotlight of attention on, we can effect changes in the very structure of our brain.
In other words, our minds are not just a side show for what our brains, as nurtured by social interactions, are doing. To paraphrase Daniel Siegel (2007b), our minds use our brains to create themselves.
The key word to take note of in the description in the last paragraph is “repeated.” Focusing once on a new connection, say, remembering the name of a new employee, will not hold in place the brain circuit that represents that information and create an instant map. We must manage the flow of energy such that we pay intense attention to the change we want to make, and we must do it over and over. If our working memory gets exhausted or overwhelmed or distracted, we simply repeat the effort of paying attention as soon and as often as we are able. Rock and Schwartz state this concept in this way: “It is Attention Density that brings Quantum Zeno Effect into play and causes the proper brain circuitry to be held in place in a stable dynamic way” (2006, p. 37). When we pay sufficient attention to certain patterns over time, they become part of who we are and how we perceive the world.
It follows, then, that what we pay attention to is crucially important. If we pay attention to the problem or to the negative qualities of a situation or person, that is what will become hardwired. If we rehearse in our minds how embarrassed we will be if we do not remember the new employee’s name, what result can we expect?

Attention Density

Attention density is the quantity and quality of attention paid to a particular circuit consisting of connections among neurons in the brain. As we explained in chapter 3 on mapping, our brains structure information as mental maps, or circuits, for every word, picture, experience or concept for which we have any associations. One word or idea may trigger responses in visual, emotional, kinesthetic, auditory, motor, memory, and language centers. Attention density is either the sum or the product of the quality and quantity of focus. We say “or” because no studies have yet been done to verify whether the two elements are multiplicative. We look forward to studies that will provide this information.
Quality of Focus. The number of other circuits that are activated in connection to the original circuit and the amount of energy coursing through that circuit comprise quality of attention. For example, you will generate more energy if you have an emotional reaction to a topic.
Questions are more powerful the more that they increase attention density. For example, a coach may ask, “What did your boss tell you in your performance review?” Auditory memory circuits are likely activated, along with a visual picture of the scene, memories of whatever emotional reaction the client had, and an inner rehearsal of what might be said in response.
If, however, the coach asks, “What went well in your performance review?” the client has a much broader series of circuits to choose from: all those from the previous question, but additionally overall evaluation of the effects of the interaction, comparison with other performance reviews and other times when the client was evaluated, hopes and fears going into the review, reactions afterward, conclusions, questions. As a result, the client’s attention is held longer, more richly, and more positively.
Quantity of Focus. This is the number of times focus is directed to the desired circuit. If the coach made a request and the client agreed to journal about the review and her insights from coaching, more circuits would be involved and held active for even longer. The client would have to spend time summoning memories, conclusions, comparisons, insights, and emotional reactions and putting these into writing. This might take several sessions. If the coach asks her about her journal experience at the next session, the focus is repeated. This increases the client’s focus on lessons to be derived from coaching around her performance review from perhaps several hours or days to possibly weeks and months. That focus is now also linked to many more centers of her brain. Both the quantity and the quality of attention have gone up, as many more circuits were activated many more times.

Linking Attention to Coaching

As coaches, we need to help our clients pay more attention, for longer, in order to make connections with new ways of thinking that align with their goals. We need to increase their attention density to the right circuits. Often the best way to find out how to achieve this is to ask clients themselves.
The quality and quantity of attention determine the strength of connections in our brain. But to achieve dynamic stability, it matters what we pay attention to. Remember that we get more of what we pay attention to. To pay constant attention to fears, regrets, worries, or vengeful thoughts means that we will increase these undesirable aspects in our lives. Eventually, we may have trouble avoiding one or the other of disintegration or rigidity, the two shoals between which dynamic stability flows. This is as true for organizations as it is for individuals. The plus (+) sign in the dynamic stability formula is a reminder to focus on strengths such as the ones we discuss in chapter 11 on positive psychology (Seligman, 2002).
But let us examine the final element in the formula for dynamic stability.

VETO POWER

Earlier we emphasized the self-creating nature of each human being and how unique that makes us. Drawing on the work of physicist Henry Stapp (2007), we claimed that our minds are not determined by the structure of our brains or by our genetic inheritance, although both set material limits to our growth and accomplishments.
As Schwartz et al. (2004) argue, quantum discoveries have breathed new life into previously discarded concepts, such as those of William James. Will power or volition was a topic of debate among philosophers and early psychologists such as James. Both psychoanalysis and behaviorism ignored volition in the interest of promoting unconscious drives and stimulus response, respectively, as explanatory models. But quantum discoveries have revived the question of whether the subjectively experiencing person can exert free will or whether she or he is at the deterministic mercy of environment or heredity (or of seemingly intractable disorders such as OCD).
Subjectively, we have the experience of sitting at a desk and then, without any sense of being “made” to do so, voluntarily “deciding” to take a sip of tea. This feels like free will. However, many of our behaviors, such as shopping selections, can be predicted so well that there is a science of product placement. Can neuroscience help to reconcile this experience of free choice with decades of evidence that behavior can be controlled?
Neuroscientists Libet, Gleason, Wright, and Pearl (1983) came up with good news and bad news regarding free will.
Bad News. They found that the brain generates a signal, a “readiness potential,” to pick up our teacup about five-tenths of a second before we actually pick up the cup. We are not conscious of this signal until about three-tenths of a second later. The bad news is that if we define free will as the ability to consciously generate readiness potentials, we don’t have it. In chapter 13, we discuss the fact that the brain is constantly in processing mode. The subjective manifestation is that thoughts are constantly appearing and disappearing. Some of those thoughts have to do with “voluntary” actions. We do not voluntarily think these up, as we do not even become aware of them until three-tenths of a second after they register on instruments in the lab. So we do not freely will our options for action to appear in our brains.
Good News. But that is not the whole story. There is a lag of about two-tenths of a second between the time we become aware of a readiness potential and our taking the unconsciously proposed action.
The sequence is this:
• At 0.5 second before an action, instruments register our brain’s (unconscious) readiness potential.
• At 0.2 second before the action, we become aware of the urge to act.
• At 0 second, we act.
It is in that gap of two-tenths of a second between awareness and action that we can decide not to do what we have unconsciously generated as an option for action. We can decide not to reach for the teacup or make a snide remark or cut another piece of cake. Schwartz and Begley (2002) call this “veto power.” We do not have free will when it comes to voluntarily creating our brain’s readiness potential, but we have “free won’t” when it comes to performing the acts that we become aware of.
As part of his treatment, Schwartz helps his OCD patients recognize the signal to wash their hands or check the lock as coming from their brain, not from danger “out there.” This is an example of input not about the outside world but about the functioning of the brain system itself. Patients learn to recognize this and to use the two-tenths of a second after becoming aware of the faulty brain signal to veto it. They can choose instead to do something else. In doing some other desirable action, they are creating new maps and recruiting the principle of neural Darwinism to, eventually, reduce the strength of the old compulsion.

Linking Veto Power to Coaching

As we have seen, the concept of free will has its limitations. Understanding this fact helps us understand one reason why changing old habits to new ones is so difficult. We have noted that the brain makes connections based on use. When we have repeated a behavior often enough, it becomes automatic, a potential that often and easily comes to mind, a habit. The more often we perform that action, the stronger the connection and likelihood that it will present itself as a readiness potential.
However, every time we exercise veto power and do something other than the habit we are attempting to break, the more we reinforce alternative actions. Schwartz and Begley (2002) recognize the immense courage and energy this takes, but Schwartz knows it is possible because of his successful treatment of OCD patients. Discovering that people can do something other than wash their hands (again) or check to see if the door is locked (again) is why, when David explained coaching to him, Schwartz called it “self-directed neuroplasticity.”
How else can we increase the probability that a person’s insight from a coaching session will end up becoming reliably hardwired? All the techniques that coaches learn to help clients be accountable to themselves apply here: journaling about insights, setting up physical reminders, celebrating small victories, exercising “veto power” when the old pattern emerges, and so forth.
But that is not all. We do need to recognize that our working memory, the equipment that turns on and focuses our attention, is limited and vulnerable to internal and external distractions, as we discussed earlier. That is, our individual minds have these limitations. By “borrowing” the attention power of other minds, we can extend our capacity for attention density enormously. After all, that is surely a major ingredient in the success of coaching. The coach has the responsibility to, first, make sure the client is paying attention to what is positive—his or her strengths, what has worked well in the past, the upside of the problem. Second, the coach steadies the spotlight on the intended change, not by issuing orders but by asking questions that will direct the client’s attention to the brain circuits to be hardwired. In this way, the relationship with the coach supports attention density.

APPLYING THE SCHWARTZ-ROCK FORMULA FOR DYNAMIC STABILITY

Systems theory indicates that a healthy human or organizational system is one that exhibits dynamic stability. We have now examined each of the elements presented at the beginning of the chapter in the formula for dynamic stability:
DS = (exptn + exprnce) × AD+ × VP
Dynamic stability may be enhanced by a combination of expectation and experience. Our expectations can have a substantial and measurable effect on our experience. The dynamic, or changeful, aspect of dynamic stability is made possible by neuroplasticity, or the fact that experience can change the brain. Positive experiences are more likely to be system sustaining. More specifically for changes we consciously desire, if the Quantum Zeno Effect holds true, it is attention that changes the brain. Because the brain is a social organ, dynamic stability will be enhanced by relationships that are also positive and dynamically stable.
The formula for attaining dynamic stability of human systems is to add expectation for our desired outcome to experience, multiply that by quantity and quality of positive attention, and multiply that by saying no to those impulses that either lead us to repeat what has not worked or to do something other than what we have determined will work.
Example: Distracted by Her Own Feelings
Anne is an external coach for a broadcasting company. A producer requested that she coach him about his difficulties in working with his production team. He had met Anne through her facilitation of leadership workshops and recognized her capacity for appreciating “creative” (read “volatile”) temperaments.
Their sessions soon turned to his loneliness and lack of intimacy. Anne, who had lost her husband just four months previously, found herself emotionally upset by her client’s suffering. She felt like her client did—lonely and alone. There was no question of romantic involvement, but she found herself distracted by her own feelings. The more she berated herself for getting upset, the more upset she got. The client’s state of mind was clearly triggering her own, but not to the benefit of the coaching.
Anne’s own coach recognized that Anne’s usual ability to stay tuned to her client’s experience was in jeopardy. After making sure that Anne was paying attention to her own grieving process outside her work, the coach suggested using the dynamic stability formula and explained its elements. The two began by setting Anne’s intention to take note of every instance where the client reported a positive interaction with anyone—colleagues, friends, family, salespeople—anyone.
This expectation on Anne’s part led to her experience of the client as being more connected with people. She consciously paid attention to those moments of positive interaction, showing her interest by asking questions and remembering details about them from one session to the next. The producer also found himself paying more attention to his positive interactions.
When a thought of her own grief appeared in her mind, rather than focusing on it, Anne said to herself, “Veto that,” and directed her attention back to the client. Over time, she found it easier to stay attuned in sessions. The fact that feedback from his production team indicated his relationships were improving showed that her newfound stability was helping the client as well as being more comfortable for her. In this way, both the producer in his circle of relationships and Anne in her relationship with her client began to experience an upward spiral of dynamic stability.
Over time, refocusing our attention on the combination of positive expectations and corroborating experience while practicing veto power over and over will produce new mental habits and new hardwiring.
Capacities such as brain/body regulation, fear modulation, and emotion balancing are generally associated with the prefrontal cortex, or PFC, which we mentioned as part of our brain-in-the-hand model. The PFC is located behind the hard bone of our forehead and behind our eyes. Different areas of the PFC seem to perform tasks similar to an orchestra conductor: integrating, coordinating, and modulating energy and information that come from all parts of the brain. However, we must remember that, as with an orchestra conductor, the PFC does not itself produce the energy and information. The whole brain/body is required for that.
Our brains consist of neurons and their innumerable connections, plus other cells and substances such as neurotransmitters. This system makes it possible for us to gather information from “out there,” beyond our brain/body; to coordinate our different brain/body functions; to participate in sharing information; and to link past, present, and future. The capacity to predict the future not only means we can act rather than react, but, as quantum physics suggests, the very nature of that action can actually shape the future.

PRACTICE GUIDE FOR COACHING WITH THE BRAIN IN MIND—LEVERAGE CHANGE

Coaches who keep the brain in mind treat clients as whole persons (mental, physical, social, spiritual) who are embedded in systems with wide repercussions. They know the basics of several models of change and collaborate with clients to match model to situation. Besides understanding the elements of the formula for dynamic stability, such coaches know how to encourage client expectations, attention density, and veto power.
Three specific guides are particularly relevant to the question “How can we be healthy?” Keeping the brain in mind helps coaches:
• Recognize and balance the needs of physical brain/body, mind, and relationships.
• Pay attention to attention (their own and others’), including metaphors, energy levels, signs of being stuck, and unconscious signals.
• Catch themselves when they are about to repeat an unwanted pattern, veto that, choose a more beneficial path, and learn from the experience—and help clients do the same.
Asking how we can change and do better begs a consideration of why we do what we do in the first place. This is the question we consider in part III.
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