CHAPTER 10
Bedrock—Psychotherapy
Ishi’s treatment by anthropologists from 1911 to 1916 was at least kindly. Not so for the treatment of soldiers traumatized by their World War I experiences. Medical doctors practiced what can only be described as torture in order to force “shell-shocked” men back to fight at the front. Alfred Adler was drafted to serve in the Austrian army as a physician during the war, just as he was on the verge of establishing a new approach to treating mental illness after he split from the Freudian circle in 1911. Adler’s new approach took into account people’s uniqueness, creativity, and social connections. But the war and his military service put an end to professional conferences, speeches, writing, and organizing a new therapeutic endeavor.
Always an excellent and humane observer, what did Adler make of the terrors and tragedy of the war? He wrote precious little about it, but it is clear from his subsequent behavior that something had changed for him. After the war, as if on a mission, Adler dedicated himself to activities that he hoped would lead to a different future for humankind than was indicated by its war-torn past: setting up child guidance clinics in Viennese schools to help children and their parents live cooperatively; mentoring teacher educators from around the world in his techniques; extending psychotherapy to families and groups; speaking in public on the principles of his commonsense approach to mental health; writing books in what today would be called the self-help genre, such as What Life Could Mean to You (Adler & Brett, 1998); and lecturing in university classes of physicians, social workers, and teachers. He continued providing psychotherapy to patients and supervising psychotherapists, but psychotherapy for him had taken a different turn, one that had much in common with the field of coaching that would emerge some seven decades later.
Psychotherapy is an application of philosophy, health practices, and psychology to treating mental illness. Many people assume that psychotherapy and psychology are the same, or that psychotherapy came into existence as an applied subfield of psychology. But worldwide, most psychotherapists are not part of the psychology profession but rather psychiatrists or other medical doctors, social workers, clinical counselors, psychiatric nurses, occupational therapists or, simply, psychotherapists (Orlinsky & Rönnestadt, 2005). Psychotherapy, literally “tending the soul,” has its own history that is at least as old as that of scientific psychology.
The two fields do, however, have strong and ongoing connections. Both encroached on what had been the church’s exclusive dominion—psychology to study the soul and psychotherapy to treat the sick soul. Many definitions of psychotherapy include “treatment by psychological means.” Psychology’s emphasis on the individual divorced from social context was mirrored in psychotherapy’s location of mental illness within an individual. Psychotherapy also inherited Western medicine’s tendency to define health as absence of disease. As a result, it bears the stigma of being sought only when one is identified as “sick.” These two limitations provided opportunities for coaching to step in with a more systemic alternative.
• Why do we sometimes act crazy?
• Why do some of us lose touch with reality to such an extent that we cannot function?
• Why is it that insanity in one context is tolerated or even honored in another?
• Are some of us destined by our genes or upbringing to go insane?
• Is mental illness a result of chemical imbalance that can really be treated only with drugs?
• Does psychotherapy work?
• How do we know if it does or does not work?
• Where do we draw the line between mental health and mental illness?
• Is it possible to stop thinking of ourselves as victims of mental illness and instead create conditions that allow us to reach our full potential?
Many of these concerns lie largely outside the professional interest of coaches, whose ethical guidelines prevent us from treating mental illness. What is most relevant in our discussion of psychotherapy is what has not received much attention: healthy functioning, antecedents to happiness, and conditions for success and fulfillment. It is this space that coaching has filled, aided by other fields, such as positive psychology.
HISTORICAL INTERLUDE
Major Figures in Early Psychotherapy
Sigmund Freud
Although psychotherapy practice with individuals has been traced back to as early as 1775 (Ellenberger, 1970), most people assume it started with Austrian physician Sigmund Freud (1856-1939). Freud developed an approach he called psychoanalysis. To be blunt, Freud provides few models for coaches to draw on. However, he is such a seminal figure that a brief discussion of his ideas can be helpful, specifically for comparison with later approaches.
The genesis of Freud’s psychoanalytic approach came during the late 1800s when he sought a scientific treatment for what were called neuroses and hysteria. After investigating various approaches, some of which met with considerable opposition, he began to meet with colleagues in 1902 to discuss the then-revolutionary idea that what patients said might indicate the source of their problems. He came to believe that neurosis stemmed from culturally unacceptable, thus repressed and unconscious, desires and fantasies of a sexual nature. Later he theorized that aggression could be explained by these drives also.
Freud concluded that the reasons people use to explain their behavior are not at all the “real” reasons. Rather, people’s personalities are made up of three conflicting aspects, and their behavior indicates which of these predominates at any moment:
1. The unconscious id, insisting on seeking pleasure, and damn the consequences
2. The largely unconscious superego, which represents an internalization of social norms and which battles to contain the id’s wild impulses
3. The conscious ego, which negotiates between the two conflicting forces and ingeniously invents defenses that more or less successfully justify resulting behavior in the real world
Despite Freud’s emphasis on listening to what people say, he conformed to a mechanistic paradigm in ignoring their subjective talk as a mere mask for his “objective” conclusions about their unconscious reality. He also assumed that people are “driven” by libidinal forces, much as a steam engine is driven by the pressure of steam. To mix metaphors, these forces can become “impacted” as a result of repression, which can result in more or less serious mental illness. He also approached psychological treatment as a largely individual matter. These ideas were enormously influential in early-20th-century acceptance of the dynamic power of the unconscious. Freud’s generally dark and pessimistic view of human nature seemed to fit with experiences of the time. However, most of the specifics of Freud’s theory have been superseded or expanded by new psychotherapies and advances in cognitive psychology and neuroscience.
To simplify greatly, we might say that the assumption “We are our demons” summarizes Freud’s theory. Through enough “talk therapy,” patients become acquainted with these internal demons and gain insight about how to live with them. As a treatment strategy, psychoanalysts offer themselves as a “blank screen,” with as little of their actual lives as possible intruding so that patients can project their unconscious drives and conflicts without interference from the therapist’s personality. Psychoanalysts listen and listen, then offer interpretations or conclusions they have drawn from observing the patterns offered up in the patient’s “free association.” The assumption is that the interpretations are truths that the patient denies at the peril of being labeled “resistant.” Breaking down this resistance is an intense process, generally requiring three to five sessions a week over three to seven years minimum. Patients who can afford the treatment may be in therapy throughout their adult lives.
Freud can be credited with the widespread acceptance of seeking treatment to improve individual mental health. One hundred years ago, there were few resources for treating people with mental illness beyond institutions for severe cases. Now there are psychiatrists, psychotherapists, clinical psychologists, social workers, and counselors across every city in the Western world. Freud’s concept of the unconscious being a driver of our behavior has also contributed to the practice of increasing self-awareness through reflection, which has proven to have merits of its own. Even today, Freud’s voluminous writing is read, often with a sense of reverence, by students in almost every field of human science.
However, Freud has also engendered great controversy, with critics claiming that his denial of the reality of sexual abuse has caused tremendous suffering (Masson, 1984); his attitude toward women and sexuality has supported discrimination (Keller, 1986); blaming the patient for resistance adds an unconscionable burden on someone who is already ill (Page, 1998); his requirement of therapist neutrality denies the power inherent in the relationship (Miller & Stiver, 1998); his emphasis on conflict and catharsis ignores the importance of connection (Surrey, Stiver, Miller, Kaplan, & Jordan, 1991); and his intolerance of ideas that were different from his own held back the development of psychotherapy (Breger, 2000). Because of these and many other claims, Nobel Prize-winning doctor Sir Peter Medawar described psychoanalysis in 1972 as “one of the strangest and saddest of all landmarks in the history of 20th century thought” (p. 68).
Alfred Adler
From a coach’s perspective, Alfred Adler (1870-1937) is an entirely different matter. In 1902 Freud invited Adler (Hoffman, 1994) to join the Wednesday-night discussions that saw the birth of psychoanalysis. At that point, Adler’s ideas about psychotherapy had already begun to develop, and he contributed concepts such as inferiority complex, defense mechanisms, and aggression drive to psychoanalytic theory. However, his independent views resulted in his being expelled from the Psychoanalytic Society in 1911. An oversimplified but memorable way to capture the differences between the two men is that Freud believed women envied men’s penises (a biologically determined drive) whereas Adler believed women resented men’s power (a socially constructed goal). As mentioned, Adler’s development of his own approach to psychodynamic psychotherapy was interrupted by World War I, when he was drafted to serve as a military doctor in the Austrian army.
Hoffman’s (1994) excellent biography of Adler does not describe his wartime experiences in detail, but the results are clear.
It was as if Adler had somehow uncovered in the rubble of World War I a crystal ball revealing the theoretical underpinnings of what, almost a century later, would become coaching—underpinnings that today are being confirmed by neuroscience research. Although many of these ideas are not associated with Adler, and his contribution generally is minimized in psychology and psychotherapy outside the Adlerian tradition itself, Adler was uncannily prescient in making the assumptions that human beings are:
Socially embedded. There is no such thing as an isolated human being. In fact, the moment a person’s status or belonging in a group is threatened or construed as being threatened, the potential for conflict arises.
Creative meaning makers. Understanding people’s psychology requires understanding their phenomenology, or the subjective meaning they give to events and behavior.
Dialectically constructing and reconstructing themselves within the constraints of heredity and environment. “Both are giving only the frame and the influences which are answered by the individual in regard to his styled creative power” (Ansbacher & Ansbacher, 1956, p. xxiv).
Goal-oriented. To understand people’s behavior, it is much more important to know their intentions, values, and longer-term purposes than what drives them from the past. In fact, people’s stories of their past reveal their goals in the present and future rather than a factual report of what happened.
• Integrated, unique, whole persons. Creativity, meaning making, goals, values, emotions, thought, physicality—all are linked systemically to yield the person we are. For individuals, the tasks of work, friendship, and love (some Adlerians also include self and spirituality) are unavoidable and interconnected.
Adler disagreed with Freud’s idea of imposing a tripartite personality structure—id, ego, superego—on all people. He promoted discovering and treating each individual’s unique structure. He used a German word, Individuum, referring to a person’s “indivisible” nature, to name his approach. However, this word is translated in English as “individual,” with an emphasis on individualism, or separation of a single person from the group. It is ironic that one of the first psychotherapies to insist on the importance of social connection and to treat groups, families, and organizational systems ended up being called individual psychology.
Reading Adler’s assumptions today may create a “ho-hum” response, as they are widely accepted and increasingly supported by psychological and neuroscientific research. However, they are a very early example of the shift to a systemic paradigm. Adler was very much a theoretical pioneer in the early 20th century. His contributions are seldom mentioned in psychological or coaching literature for many reasons:
• Adler focused on changing the world rather than on writing scholarly literature.
• His acceptance in teaching, parenting, and social work led many academic psychologists and psychiatrists to treat his theory as unworthy of their attention.
• The hostility he and his students faced from Freudian psychoanalysis was daunting, especially in North America.
Adler’s ideas are consistent with a number of coaching approaches:
• Appreciative inquiry (Bergquist, 2003; Cooperrider & Whitney, 2005)
• Co-active coaching (Whitworth, Kimsey-House, & Sandahl, 1998)
• Developmental coaching (Cook-Greuter, 1999; Laske, 2006)
• Inner game (Gallwey, 2001; Whitmore, 1996)
• Intentionality and social psychology (Bandura, 1986; Lewin, 1975, 1999)
• “Learner-judger” model (Adams, 2004; Goldberg, 1998)
• Phenomenology and existentialism (Frankl, 1984; Sartre, 1993)
• Positive psychology (Csikszentmihalyi, 1990; Seligman, 2002)
• Reflective practitioner and action research (Argyris, 1993; Argyris & Schön, 1974, 1978; Schön, 1983)
• Social constructivism (Berger & Luckmann, 1966; Piaget, 1928; Vaihinger, 1911, 1925; Vygotsky, 1978)
• Systems theory and application (Bateson, 2002; Mead, 2001; Senge, 1990; von Bertalanffy, 1968)
In what is perhaps his most important contribution, Adler sought to identify mental health as more than just lack of disease. He proposed the concept of “social interest” as a measure of what we would today call “wellness” in its broadest sense. People, he said, are born into a paradox: On one hand, we are alone at the center of a self-created universe. On the other hand, our very survival depends on nurturance by those around us. Social interest is a way of resolving this paradox by identifying our own best interests as irrevocably bound up with the interests of others. Social interest is characterized by a sense of belonging to the whole human species, and indeed to the universe, as well as by the motivation to contribute our unique capacities to the betterment of humanity and the world.
For all these reasons, it is reasonable to consider Adler as a grandfather of coaching. He is also considered a precursor to the self-help and humanistic movements discussed in this chapter.
Carl Jung
Carl Jung (1875-1961) was from Switzerland and was 19 years younger than Freud and 5 years younger than Adler. Both of the younger men were closely involved with psychoanalysis after the turn of the 20th century (Jung became chairman of the International Psychoanalytical Association in 1910), and both developed independent interpretations that resulted in their separating from Freudian circles around 1912. However, Jung’s emphasis on spirituality and archetypes, his idea that humans share a “Collective Unconscious” in addition to the personal unconscious of Freud’s theory, and the principle of synchronicity influenced countercultural movements of the 1960s, and Jung is therefore generally better recognized than Adler.
Jung was the only surviving child of a Swiss Reform minister and his wife, who suffered from bouts of depression during her son’s childhood. An isolated and introspective child, Jung explored his own personality and reactions to family and social stresses. After becoming fascinated with the newly emerging psychoanalytic movement toward the end of his medical studies, Jung was greatly influenced by his association with Freud and counted him as a mentor throughout his life. Jung’s variation on psychoanalysis, which he called Analytical Therapy, is widely practiced throughout the world. But he also read, wrote, and investigated topics outside psychotherapy, such as mythology, Eastern and Western philosophy and spirituality, sociology and anthropology, literature, and the arts.
His theory of personality types (Jung, 1923), starting with the dichotomy between introversion and extraversion, formed the basis for a personality assessment tool that is widely used in both psychotherapy and coaching: the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator MBTI®. Developed during World War II by Catherine Cook Briggs and her daughter, Isabel Briggs Myers, to help women decide how they could best help in the war movement, the assessment (Myers et al., 1998) covers people’s attitudes, information-gathering functions, decision-making patterns, and lifestyle preferences measured according to four dichotomies:
1. Extraversion (E) versus Introversion (I)
2. Sensation (S) versus iNtuition (N)
3. Thinking (T) versus Feeling (F)
4. Judging (J) versus Perceiving (P)
People’s personalities may be characterized by any of the 16 resulting combinations.
Aside from the assessment itself, which is used extensively in organizational consulting, a basic coaching principle is that none of the dichotomies represents an objective right or wrong, good or bad. And no one is completely described or determined by their type. As with all typologies, the assessment is one of many sources of information. It may be useful in indicating what job or personal contexts may feel most “at home” to a person, and why he or she finds some activities more problematic than others.
Jung’s emphasis on spirituality provided a connection with both the wellness and the humanistic movements of the later 20th century.
The major figures associated with the early popularization of psychotherapy—Sigmund Freud, Alfred Adler, and Carl Jung—set the stage for a myriad of varieties, or “schools,” of psychotherapy. Each school had its version of what it considered to be the right theory or technique. At the most general level, the battle was between psychodynamic approaches that paid attention almost exclusively to an individual’s internal motivation and behaviorist approaches that insisted on the primacy of external reinforcement techniques. During the last part of the 20th century, three trends combined to create a new context for psychotherapy that is much more supportive of a systemic worldview. We discuss these trends and the influence of psychotherapy on coaching under these headings:
• Humanistic movement
• Trauma and its social implications
• Research revealing transtheoretic common factors
• Linking psychotherapy techniques to coaching
• Resource Section: Mental Health Issues—How not to do psychotherapy
• Psychotherapy as bedrock for coaching

HUMANISTIC MOVEMENT

Humanistic psychology, often called humanism, or the “person-centered approach,” developed in the 1950s as an alternative to psychoanalysis and behaviorism. Humanistic psychologists believe that individuals are controlled by their own values and choices and not by the environment, as behaviorists think, or by unconscious drives, as psychoanalysts believe. The goal of humanistic psychology is to help people function effectively and fulfill their own unique potential. To simplify, the person-centered approach says, “We are our human needs.”
The humanistic approach focuses on:
• Individuals and their needs, including personal choice, free will, and creativity
• Conscious experience, drawn out of the concept of phenomenology (the study of immediate experience)
• Human nature in its entirety
Humanistic psychology draws on the philosophical concept of humanism and was the first movement to popularize Adler’s focus on mental health rather than on mental illness. The field laid the foundations for the human potential and personal development movements, the adult education field, and much of the thinking in the counseling field.

Abraham Maslow

One of the founding theorists behind humanistic psychology was American psychologist Abraham Maslow (1908-1970). Maslow was originally a behaviorist who became dissatisfied with the field, partly as a result of his association with Alfred Adler. He developed the theory of self-actualization (Maslow, 1943, 1971) based on the idea that each of us has an innate desire to achieve our potential through using our unique abilities.
Although the high level of generality of Maslow’s self-actualizing model makes it difficult to test in research, its intuitive “rightness” has helped it stand the test of time over several decades. A powerful idea that has still not been superseded in psychology, it is a model that most coaches would subscribe to, whether they are aware of its source or not.
Out of Maslow’s work on self-actualization came his well-known Hierarchy of Needs. The hierarchy is represented in many sources as a pyramid with multiple levels. The bottom level is physiological, representing needs for survival. The second level is safety and security needs. After these come the social needs for love and belonging, followed by ego needs of self-esteem. Finally, the apex of the pyramid is self-actualization.
In Maslow’s theory, each need must be met before the next need above can be dealt with. Exceptions have been cited, such as heroes giving up their lives to come to the aid of strangers. Scholars argue about whether the needs are independent rather than arranged in a hierarchy. Nevertheless, the idea of taking care of lower needs first makes intuitive sense. Coaches may find it useful to refer to the hierarchy in exploring health practices. As a basic example, if we are hungry and have nothing to eat, it is hard to focus on how our career may help us to feel better about ourselves. Clients may not be able to move toward increased self-esteem if their “lower” needs have not been met.
Maslow’s work has had an influence on management theory, especially in the realm of how to motivate others. Reasoning from his hierarchy, workers may have difficulty developing a cooperative work environment if they do not feel that they are safe within it. Employees who are motivated by satisfaction at work rather than by financial gain may in fact assume a certain basic level of income. In this case, their search for work satisfaction would be difficult to maintain if they were worried about feeding themselves and their families.
In parent education and education in general, self-esteem that comes from making one’s own choices is assumed to provide a basis for a “higher” self-actualization motive. Many forms of therapy also make this assumption and guide clients to understand their own and others’ needs.
Maslow also described in more detail what a psychologically healthy person might look like, an exciting development in a field that focused so much on illness. According to Maslow (1968), self-actualized people:
• Are efficient and accurate in perceiving reality.
• Are accepting of themselves, of other people, and of nature.
• Are spontaneous in thought and emotion, rather than artificial.
• Are problem-centered (rather than blaming people for problems).
• Are concerned with the eternal philosophical questions of humankind.
• Are independent and autonomous.
• Have a continued “freshness of appreciation” of ordinary events.
• Often experience a sense of oneness with nature.
• Identify with all of humanity and are democratic and respectful of others.
• Form very deep ties, but only with a few people.
• Appreciate for its own sake the process of doing things.
• Have a philosophical, thoughtful, nonhostile sense of humor.
• Have a childlike and fresh creativity and inventiveness.
• Maintain an inner detachment from the culture in which they live.
• May appear temperamental or ruthless, as they are strong and independent people guided by their own inner visions.

Carl Rogers

The other key figure from the field of humanistic psychology is Carl R. Rogers (1902-1987), an American pioneer in psychotherapy theory and research, who challenged the basic assumption that the therapist is the expert. Rogerian psychotherapy was widely embraced for its humanistic approach. It is also referred to as “client-centered” or “person-centered” psychotherapy. This is a nondirective approach to therapy, where “directive” means any therapist behavior that deliberately attempts to alter the client in some way. Directive behaviors include giving advice, offering treatments, teaching, persuading, diagnosing, and making interpretations. Despite the success of Rogers’s ideas, many of the clinical therapies practiced in the United States are still directive by nature. Coaching, however, has embraced the non-directive ideal, and Rogers was cited extensively by coaches who were asked to acknowledge those who influenced them (Brock, 2008).

TRAUMA AND ITS SOCIAL IMPLICATIONS

The women’s liberation movement that began in the late 1960s was accompanied by criticism of the tendency of psychology and psychotherapy to ignore the experience of women and to generalize about mental health and treatment from studies of men alone. One important phenomenon that was explored was the effect of violence against women (Brownmiller, 1975).
At the same time that the women’s movement was revealing the extent and psychological consequences of rape and domestic violence involving women, veterans returning from the Vietnam War were exhibiting extensive physical and psychological symptoms. Theorists (van der Kolk, McFarlane, & Weisaeth, 1996) began to see a pattern of trauma and resulting disabilities across present and past war experiences, violence against women, and abuse of children. Research evidence accumulated, resulting in the addition of a new diagnosis to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (American Psychiatric Association, 2000): posttraumatic stress disorder, or PTSD. The significance of this diagnosis is that for the first time, the cause (or etiology) of a mental disorder was recognized to be a social event, albeit one outside what is considered “normal,” rather than some internal conflict or deficiency on the part of the victim. The out-of-proportion rage of the war veteran, the passivity of the rape victim, or the tendency of people who were abused as children to “go somewhere else in their minds” was shown to be an understandable reaction to traumatic stress. This was a significant step in recognizing the importance of context in mental illness. If context is recognized as being important in causing illness, surely it must be taken into account in creating wellness. This emphasis on context is an important influence in the shift to a systemic perspective.

RESEARCH REVEALING TRANSTHEORETIC COMMON FACTORS

Psychotherapy in the 20th century was a contentious field. As mentioned, Freud excluded Alfred Adler from the psychoanalytic inner circle, and Carl Jung went his separate way. Behaviorism in psychology spawned behavior modification, which ridiculed psychodynamic therapies as being “subjective” and unscientific.
The behaviorist approach informed many techniques (see Erwin, 1978; Rimm & Masters 1974), including behavior therapy, aversion therapy, and electroshock therapy. For decades, a substantial part of clinical psychology drew from behaviorist principles. It was not until the introduction of cognitive and humanist approaches in the 1950s and 1960s that a shift occurred (see Bechtel, Abrahamsen, & Graham, 1998, especially pp. 15-17). However, behaviorist principles still hold sway in many fields, including school psychology, psychiatry in institutions, and some domains of psychological research. Cognitive therapy has been melded with behaviorist techniques to produce cognitive-behavior therapy, and the resulting treatment has received a good deal of support from research based on manuals that prescribe how the therapist should treat the patient (see Nathan & Gorman, 1998).
Psychotherapy was considered part of medical practice to such an extent in the United States that psychiatrists (medical doctors) in the 1950s took psychologists Albert Ellis and Harold Mosak to court for practicing medicine without a license. (They were exonerated, opening the door for psychologists to practice psychotherapy.) Each of the hundreds of schools or approaches to psychotherapy claimed that it had the best or correct or only approach. After all, their patients got better, didn’t they?
A dash of very cold water was thrown on psychotherapy in 1952 when Hans Eysenck published an article claiming that psychotherapeutic treatment was no better than doing nothing at all. That is, according to Eysenck, allowing patients to recover on their own, with no psychotherapy whatsoever, yielded about the same outcome as those who had received psychotherapy. Eysenck (1953) directed his criticism particularly toward psychoanalysis. Eysenck called for better ways of measuring outcome, but it was easy to conclude that psychotherapy was an expensive and quite unnecessary procedure. This conclusion, and the fact that it was backed up by research, galvanized the formerly competing schools so that they began to cooperate in examining their work more systematically.
Interest in psychotherapy research began to build around the same time as the cognitive revolution in psychology proper, when processes inside the “black box” of the mind became legitimate subjects for scientific study. Over the next few decades, computer technology made it possible to do research on ever more complex interactions, such as those that characterize psychotherapy. The Society for Psychotherapy Research (see Internet links) brought together psychotherapists from a wide range of therapeutic approaches and professional backgrounds to share their findings. After many years and thousands of studies, many of them very carefully designed and methodologically sophisticated, some results can be stated with confidence. And those results open the door to more systemic, holistic, socially embedded, and positive approaches that have stimulated the emergence of coaching.
The first question that psychotherapy researchers answered, in response to Eysenck’s devastating critique, was “Does psychotherapy work better than no treatment at all?” The general answer, as Norcross (2002) summarizes, is yes. Nathan and Gorman (1998) describe more specifically that certain therapeutic techniques work better with some patients than with others and that some techniques work better with some mental disorders than others.
The second question was “What is it about psychotherapy that works, that accounts for the improvements shown in outcome research?” The results of this line of research may have direct relevance to coaching. Hubble, Duncan, and Miller (1999) brought together a number of studies of psychotherapy and counseling applications to find common factors among those that were successful. Their research astonished adherents of competing schools: The techniques and theories that took up most of the attention in psychotherapy training accounted for only about 15% of the variance or likelihood of successful outcome. Whatever the theoretical orientation of the therapist, the strongest predictor of success had to do with characteristics of the patient—about 40% of variance (“variance” meaning how much a factor contributes to making a difference).
One lesson that coaches may draw from this research is the importance of learning about the client from the client’s subjective perspective, rather than applying preconceived notions or assumptions to the coaching engagement.
Coaches learn to differentiate their practice from psychotherapy and counseling, as suggested by David Orlinsky’s (2007) differentiation in the introduction to this book. We do not yet have the research that clearly shows all the differences and similarities between coaching and psychotherapy. At the same time, there clearly are commonalities: Two people (in individual coaching and in therapy) relate to one another with the intention that one will benefit from the interaction. Thus, one candidate for similarity is the relationship between the patient or client on one hand and the therapist or coach on the other. The research compiled by Hubble et al. (1999) showed that the relationship was the largest factor—about 30% of variance—over which the therapist has some influence. Learning theorists (Johnson, 2006) recognize the importance of a caring teacher or mentor in creating the conditions for a student to learn, and anecdotal and experiential evidence in coaching concurs.
The remaining 15% of the outcome has to do with a factor that had been dismissed as “interference” or “irrelevant” in medical research: the placebo effect, or client expectations. We discussed this factor at length as part of the formula for dynamic stability in chapter 6. The fact that psychotherapy research shows it to be a substantial contributor to getting better supports our claim that it is an important factor in coaching.
Many research methods and strategies have been developed or borrowed from fields other than psychology—for example, qualitative approaches of sociology and anthropology—to deal with the subjective and relational reality of psychotherapy. Thus, psychotherapy research supported the overturn of the focus on “objectivity” and factors internal to the individual that derived from the logical positivist worldview. This has resulted in an impetus for coaches putting themselves in the shoes of the client, or the subjectivity that is characteristic of coaching.

LINKING PSYCHOTHERAPY TECHNIQUES TO COACHING

We have chosen to focus on six approaches from psychotherapy and counseling that are directly relevant to coaching:
1. Person-centered therapy
2. Gestalt and expressive therapies
3. Cognitive and cognitive-behavioral therapies
4. Neurolinguistic programming
5. Solution-focused therapy
6. Metaphor and narrative therapy
These approaches yield techniques that may be useful both in coaching and in psychotherapy and counseling. Because ethical standards do not allow coaches, in their role as coaches, to practice psychotherapy, it is important to be able to discern when a client should be referred to a psychotherapist or counselor. Therefore, after discussing these approaches, we provide information written by certified mental health professionals to help coaches differentiate their practice from that of psychotherapy.

Person-Centered Therapy

Carl Rogers (1951) developed a nondirective method in which the therapist was supposed to listen with acceptance and without judgment. He believed that the client or person seeking therapy (he preferred not to call them patients) was responsible for improving his or her own life and was likely to have the best answers for how to do this. This is a key principle of much of the coaching field now as well. If Adler can be referred to as a grandfather of coaching, Rogers is often considered its father (Brock, 2008).
Roger’s theory of a healthy person involved:
• An openness to all experience
• An ability to live in the moment
• The ability to follow one’s own instincts
• Freedom in thought and action
• Creativity
Here are the basic tenets of person-centered techniques:
Unconditional positive regard. The therapist holds on to a belief in people’s potential and their ability to find their own answers, despite their behavior at any one time.
Genuineness or congruence. The therapist’s role is to encourage and support and to do this on an equal level with the client.
An accurate empathic understanding by helper. The therapist is there to provide empathy and understanding, not direction, allowing clients to heal themselves. Therapists check their understanding of what a patient says with a brief restatement for the client to verify or correct. The therapist trusts that the open acceptance of the client’s statements will foster the client’s natural process of actualization.
Rogers also worked with the idea of a “self-concept,” which consists of the “ideal self,” the “self-image,” and “self-esteem.” His concept of self-esteem was picked up by the human potential movement and propagated in schools and in parent education.
The person-centered approach was one of the most popular within psychology in the 20th century and contributed a great deal to the systemic paradigm shift. It brought subjectivity back into psychotherapy. It also laid the foundations for the study of happiness, cognitive (not just biological) motivation, and peak performance, fields especially important to coaching.
There is a great deal of similarity between coaching and humanistic approaches such as that of Rogers. The statement, presented as an article of faith, by pioneer coaches Whitworth, Kimsey-House, and Sandahl (1998) is that clients are “creative, resourceful, and whole” (p. 3). As with coaching, the primary intent of humanistic approaches is to comprehend the client’s internal frame of reference, focus on the client’s perception of self and the world, and draw out the client’s own wisdom and resources. A coach practices unconditional positive regard toward the client at all times.
Coaches are taught to reflect back and accept the client’s statements rather than imposing some supposedly objective “truth” or interpretation. Listening skills are based on the extensive elaboration of Rogerian techniques by Allen Ivey and colleagues (Evans et al., 2004) resulting in a textbook that is widely used in counseling and psychotherapy courses. Good listening skills provide the backbone for an approach that conveys empathy to the client.
Finally, a coach must behave in a way that is congruent with his or her values and let the client be fully aware of the coach’s authentic self, rather than hiding behind a veil of objectivity. While these skills are demanding, they constitute core competencies for coaches.
To take another perspective, despite the positive influence of believing that individuals may have their own answers, especially if they are encouraged by unconditional positive regard, there is a drawback. When a coach relies entirely on empathy, he or she may end up reinforcing the client’s inability to change. Therefore, coaches take responsibility for believing in a person’s greater potential, even when that person does not see it, and even when reminding a person of his or her potential may seem directive.

Gestalt and Expressive Therapies

Fritz Perls (1893-1970), a German-born psychiatrist, and Laura Posner Perls (1905-1990) combined the humanistic approach with Gestalt psychology to create and develop Gestalt therapy after the couple immigrated to the United States. The German word “Gestalt” roughly translates to “whole” or “form.” Gestalt psychologists claim to consider behavior holistically. “The whole is greater than the sum of its parts” is a phrase that comes out of experiments in the Gestalt tradition. In applying the concept to therapy, Gestalt therapists notice the client’s postures, gestures, and tone of voice rather than just the content of words. Many other forms of therapy emphasize the whole sensory experience of clients: art, music, dance, and psychodrama, to name a few.
The theory behind such applications maintains that in order to interpret what we receive through our senses, we automatically organize the information. For example, when we see one dot, we perceive it as such, but when we see five dots together, we “see” them as a “row of dots.” Without this tendency to group our perceptions, that same row would be seen as “dot, dot, dot, dot, dot,” taking longer to process and reducing our interpretive ability. Gestalt theory claims that grouping is based on the four principles of similarity, proximity, continuity, and closure. More recent neuroscience findings show that our interpretations indeed cannot be separated from our sensations.
One of the key researchers in Gestalt psychology (as opposed to its application in Gestalt therapy) was Wolfgang Köhler (1887-1967). He developed insight theory, often called the “aha!” phenomenon. Insight theory claims that we learn by immediate and sudden recognition and that individuals often use insight when solving a problem or determining their response to stimuli. Clearly, this idea is directly counter to the behaviorist idea that learning is based on stimulus-reward, stimulus-reward accumulating over time.
Köhler based his ideas about insight on his observations of chimpanzees. Food was placed out of the chimps’ reach while objects such as sticks were placed close by. Köhler observed that some of the chimps learned more quickly than others and that though they used trial and error to reach the food, their attempts did not build step by step, as you would expect if reinforcement were the mechanism. Nor were their attempts random. Köhler theorized that the chimps used insight to solve the problem (Blosser, 1973). Today, neuroscience has allowed us to understand the process of insight much more thoroughly so that coaches can help clients set up conditions to make insight more likely, as illustrated by Rock’s (2006) “Four Faces of Insight” model presented in chapter 9.
The many expressive therapies share the humanistic assumption that we are whole beings and that our subjective experiences can be discerned by what we do physically and what we feel emotionally. Changing behavior and thinking patterns may be useful techniques, but not to the exclusion of changing feelings, including both sensations and emotions.
One very influential technique that has proven useful to coaches is the “empty chair” (Greenberg, 2002). The technique is particularly effective when a client is stuck, either in an internal or external conflict or not knowing which of two options to choose.
Example: “Why Don’t You Just Do Things the Way I Tell You to Do Them?”
Sanjay thought he had solved an ongoing problem with getting financial reports on time when he hired a bright young bookkeeper, Maxine. However, after several weeks, he told his coach that he felt things were worse than before he hired her. After listening carefully to Sanjay’s complaints, the coach thought that he could benefit from seeing things from Maxine’s perspective. Of course, the coach could suggest that Sanjay have a conversation with the bookkeeper herself, but he thought an empty chair exercise might make that conversation more productive.
 
Coach: Let’s say that Maxine is sitting here in this empty chair. What would you say to her?
Sanjay: Why don’t you just do things the way I tell you to do them? Why do you keep coming and asking me about every little detail? You don’t need to understand everything. You don’t need to question everything we do here. Why don’t you just do it?
The coach listens for the point where Sanjay seems to run out of steam and starts to repeat himself.
Coach: Now stand up and move over to the empty chair and when you sit in it, become Maxine having just heard all that you said. What’s your reaction as Maxine?
It is crucially important that the client actually physically move to the formerly empty chair. Remember that this technique is based on an assumption of holism and necessitates shifting sensations and perceptions.
Sanjay as Maxine: I’m doing the best that I can. I’m trying as hard as I can. It’s just that nothing seems to make sense the way that my former job did.
Coach: What about your relationship with Sanjay, your boss? Talk to him in this empty chair.
Sanjay as Maxine talking to Sanjay: (taking a moment to think) It seems that every time you come into my office, you’re looking for something wrong. I get so nervous that I start to make mistakes and then I’m questioning everything I do. (long pause)
Coach: Would you like to take the Sanjay chair again?
Sanjay, back in the chair as himself: I can see that I’m pushing you because I’m so anxious to clear up this mess with the financials. I guess that doesn’t help you focus on what you need to do.
Coach: How might this understanding help you approach Maxine next time you go into her office?
As presented, the exercise is done in person, but it could be just as effective over the phone as long as the client actually moves from chair to chair. The Sanjay example is condensed; it actually went on for nearly 45 minutes, but it is representative of the kind of change that can take place as a result of utilizing an empty chair in this way.
Role playing, where the coach becomes an actor in whatever drama is engaging the client, and psychodrama, where a whole scenario is played out with other people, are related expressive techniques that may be used in individual or team coaching. To avoid having the session turn into therapy, the coach must keep the focus on practical, work-related issues rather than straying into inner emotional conflicts that must be referred to psychotherapists.
Gestalt therapy contributed to a major strand in the history of coaching. Stimulated partly by the group work of Kurt Lewin (1947), Fritz Perls led seminars based on his approach to psychotherapy at the Esalen Institute in Big Sur, California, beginning in the early 1960s. The T-group movement had started in 1946 in Bridgeport, Connecticut, when Lewin had been invited to help a group deal with ethnic tension after World War II. T-groups represented an attempt to understand the social dynamics that contributed to problems in organizations. At that point, the “T” in T-group stood for training. After Lewin’s untimely death, colleagues formed the National Training Laboratory and used the technique in organizational consulting. Perls applied T-group techniques in his seminars. Meeting in groups where members confront each other as a way of developing self-awareness soon became popular in West Coast counterculture. Werner Erhard combined group confrontation with Zen philosophy in the first Erhard Seminars Training, or EST, in 1971 in San Francisco, California. Later, EST became Landmark Education, which offers training worldwide and was cited by a large number of coaches interviewed by Vikki Brock (2008) as a major influence in the history of coaching.

Cognitive and Cognitive-Behavioral Therapies

As we discussed in chapter 9, cognitivism became the dominant approach in psychology in the second half of the 20th century, replacing behaviorism as the popular paradigm for understanding human behavior.
Cognitive therapy is an application of scientific psychology that focuses on teaching patients how to retrain their thinking patterns. It uses awareness, logic, testing, and practice to alter distorted attitudes and perceptions that lead to problematic behavior. Automatic, habitual thoughts form the basic data around which treatment is built. A client’s thoughts are presumed to be the cause of emotions. Therefore, cognitive therapists help the client recognize distorted thinking and replace it with more realistic ideas that then yield more desirable feelings and behavior. The focus is on the present and future rather than uncovering past “causes” for difficulties.
Major features of cognitive therapy include (Schulyer, 1971):
• An active, structured dialogue
• Focus on the here and now
• Goal-directed, problem-solving collaboration
• Limited time frame
• Assumption that thinking drives emotions which drive behavior
• Use of homework assignments
• Avoidance of interpreting unconscious factors
Studies done in the 1970s showed that behavior therapy was more effective when it was extended with cognitive elements. Thus, cognitive-behavior therapy (CBT) was born. CBT has been shown to be as effective as drug treatment for depression, panic attacks, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and other problems of excessive anxiety.
 
 
RATIONAL EMOTIVE BEHAVIOR THERAPY Albert Ellis (1913-2007) is a psychologist who developed rational emotive therapy (RET), one form of cognitive therapy (Ellis, 1974) that had many connections with Adler’s individual psychology (Ellis, 1957). As behavioral outcomes of thinking and emotions became more recognized in cognitive psychology during the 1990s, Ellis added “behavior” to the name of his approach: rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) (Ellis, 2003). REBT and CBT share a good deal of common ground.
Ellis’s REBT is a practical, action-oriented approach to coping with problems and enhancing personal growth. REBT focuses on the present: on currently held attitudes, painful emotions, and maladaptive behaviors that can sabotage a fuller experience of life. REBT therapists seek to help people uncover their individual beliefs (attitudes, expectations, and personal rules) that frequently lead to emotional distress.
REBT assumes that humans are prone to adopting irrational beliefs and behaviors which get in the way of their goals and purposes. Often these irrational attitudes or extreme philosophies take the form of dogmatic “musts,” “shoulds,” or “oughts”; they contrast with rational and flexible desires, wishes, preferences, and wants.
The presence of extreme philosophies can make all the difference between healthy negative emotions (such as sadness or remorse or concern) and unhealthy negative emotions (such as depression or guilt or anxiety). For example, one person’s philosophy after experiencing a loss might take the form: “It is unfortunate that this loss has occurred, although there is no actual reason why it should not have occurred. It is sad that it has happened, but it is not awful, and I can continue to function.” Another’s might take the form: “This absolutely should not have happened, and it is horrific that it did. These circumstances are now intolerable, and I cannot continue to function.” The first person’s response is accompanied by sadness, while the second person may be well on his or her way to depression.
Most important of all, REBT maintains that individuals have it within their power to change their beliefs and philosophies profoundly and thereby to radically alter their state of psychological health. To accomplish this, REBT employs a technique that can be valuable in coaching when clients maintain that they have no control over their emotional reactions or the behavior that results. The ABC framework (Ellis, 1974) clarifies the relationship between activating events (A); our beliefs about them (B); and the cognitive, emotional, or behavioral consequences of our beliefs (C).
Example: “This Shouldn’t Be Happening to Me!”
Drago lost his temper and stomped out of a management meeting after being told that his new project had been canceled by the client. For a month after the incident, he fumed and complained, and his vice president finally suggested that he see the company’s internal coach.
“I gave my lifeblood to this project,” he told his coach. “I was persuaded to leave my old position just to take this on. No one could do it better than me, I was told. Now the client gets bought out, and where does that leave me? Sure, they pay a penalty to our company for breaking the contract, but I’m still left without the project that was going to make my career! You can’t blame me for getting mad. I couldn’t help it. I’m still mad. And that’s making everything worse. I can’t think or concentrate on my other work and my boss is getting after me.”
“Let’s look at the ABC of this,” suggested the coach. “You’re saying that A, the activating event, was when the client canceled the project. And the consequence, or C, is that you got angry.”
On a flip chart, the coach writes the letter A (project canceled) and the letter C (anger) with an arrow from A to C (see Figure 10.1a).
Figure 10.1 Example of Ellis’s ABC Model
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“Right. That made me really angry.”
“But what’s between the cancellation and your anger?”
“What? Nothing. It just makes me mad, that’s all. I can’t help it.”
“One thing I know about you, Drago, is that you think fast. I believe that you thought through Step B so quickly you weren’t even aware of it. What do you believe about Step A, the cancellation, that would lead to the consequence of so much anger? What are you telling yourself about A?”
The coach erases the arrow and inserts the letter B, labeling it “Belief,” as in Figure 10.1b.
Drago is silent for a while. “I guess…I’ve just been working so hard. I don’t deserve this. This shouldn’t be happening to me!”
The coach writes this sentence next to the B on the flip chart.
“What comes to mind when you look at this?” asked the coach.
Drago smiles. “You know, if one of my people came to me with this, I’d tell them they had been working hard and that they didn’t deserve such a thing. And that they had a right to be upset. And that I wish nothing bad would ever happen to them. But . . . I guess working hard doesn’t guarantee that nothing bad will ever happen.”
“You’ve just gone through D and E. You do think quickly,” said the coach. “D is disputing, or taking a commonsense look at your belief. You tried working on C, or your feelings, but nothing changed. Then when you became aware of the belief connecting A with C, you could see that you were making the unreasonable demand that things ought to work out the way you wanted. After D, or disputing and making the belief more realistic, you were able to shift to E, an effect that appears to be more positive. You certainly look more relaxed.” (See Figure 10.1c.)
“That’s right. I feel hopeful again. I think I’m ready to get back to work.”
Changing how we think about a perception (or how we filter it through our beliefs or the questions we ask unconsciously) can change how we feel about it. In effect, this ABC model, which is similar to other forms of cognitive or cognitive-behavioral therapy, illustrates that mental activities or predispositions can mediate between experiences and emotional responses.
In working with the ABC framework, REBT employs three primary insights:
1. While external events are influential, psychological disturbance is largely a matter of personal choice in the sense that individuals consciously or unconsciously select either rational beliefs or irrational beliefs at (B) when negative events occur at (A).
2. Past history and present life conditions strongly affect a person, but they do not, in and of themselves, disturb the person; rather, it is the individual’s responses that disturb him or her, and it is again a matter of individual choice whether to maintain the philosophies at (B) which result in disturbance.
3. Modifying the philosophies at (B) requires persistence and hard work, but it can be done. Ellis himself was a very colorful figure who did not hesitate to use strong language and humor in disputing people’s irrational beliefs. He accused people of “muster-bating” or “should-ing on themselves” when they demanded that events turn out according to their assumptions. He assigned people whose fear of judgment by others was paralyzing exercises to get them used to looking ridiculous, such as by taking a banana on a walk at the end of a dog leash. His techniques were directive but often quite effective.
The main purpose of REBT is to help clients replace absolutist philosophies, ones that are full of musts and shoulds, with more flexible ones.
Part of this includes learning to accept that all human beings (including oneself) are fallible. Achieving one’s goals is connected with learning to increase one’s tolerance for frustration. REBT does not deny the importance of empathy, unconditional positive regard, and authenticity on the part of the practitioner. However, REBT views these conditions as neither necessary nor sufficient for therapeutic change to occur.
 
COGNITIVE THERAPY In medical school in the 1940s, Aaron T. Beck (born 1921) turned his attention from psychiatry to neurology because of the lack of research showing the effectiveness of psychotherapy available at the time. He joined the Psychiatry Department of the University of Pennsylvania in 1954, and, influenced by the cognitive revolution in psychological theory, he developed a clinical approach that he named cognitive therapy. Developed a few years after Ellis’s REBT, Beck’s approach has been enormously influential, partly because of the extensive ongoing research that Beck and his students have conducted beginning in 1959.
According to Beck (1976), cognitive therapy seeks to:
• Identify cognitions (thoughts) relevant to the presenting problem.
• Recognize connections among cognitions, affects (emotions) and behaviors.
• Examine evidence for and against key beliefs revealed by the cognitions.
• Encourage the client to test beliefs in real situations (homework).
• Help the client choose those beliefs that are supported by evidence.
• Teach the client to carry out the cognitive process independently.
The central insight of cognitive therapy as formulated over three decades ago is that thoughts mediate between stimuli, such as external events, and emotions. A stimulus elicits a thought—which might be an evaluative judgment of some kind—which in turn gives rise to an emotion. In other words, it is not the stimulus itself that elicits an emotional response directly but our evaluation of or thought about that stimulus. This is similar to Ellis’s ABC Model described in Figure 10.1, with the stimulus being A, the thought B, and the emotion C.
Two ancillary assumptions underpin the approach of the cognitive therapist:
1. Clients are capable of becoming aware of their own thoughts and of changing them.
2. Sometimes the thoughts elicited by stimuli distort or otherwise fail to reflect reality accurately.
Example: “That Made Me Feel So Hopeless”
Her career coach wondered why Elise didn’t apply for a job that seemed to be what she was looking for.
“What’s that about, Elise?”
After some thought, Elise replied, “I just don’t have the heart to try again after I missed out on the last job. It was such a perfect match, but then I didn’t get it. That made me feel so hopeless that I don’t even want to try again.”
“So let me understand. When you didn’t get the last job you applied for, you lost hope. But what did you tell yourself about not getting the job?”
“Maybe they’re right and I just can’t do this kind of work. Maybe I should just give up and look for something entirely different.”
“So, you didn’t get the job [stimulus], you figured that’s because you couldn’t do it [thought], and you ended up feeling hopeless [emotion].”
“Yes, that sounds right.”
“Let’s look more closely at your thoughts about not being able to do the job. What are the requirements for it?” Elise and her coach went over the requirements for the type of position she was applying for and compared them with her training and experience. This step was similar to Ellis’s D, or disputation, in which the client is asked to supply evidence. It was clear from the evidence that Elise did indeed have the qualifications required—that her thoughts did not match reality.
“So why do you think even a qualified person like you might not have been hired?” asked the coach [generating an alternate explanation].
“Well, I did make the short list, so I wasn’t entirely out of the running. And I was told that we were an incredible group of candidates. When I think of it like that, it was probably just the luck of the draw. Maybe I shouldn’t worry about the one that got away and just try again.”
COGNITIVE-BEHAVIORAL THERAPY As with REBT, the word “behavior” is commonly added to cognitive therapy. Often cognitive therapists assign homework or ask clients to test the reality of their beliefs in action. The idea is that people can behave their way into thinking differently and then think their way into feeling differently—which then in turn motivates them to behave differently.
Donald Meichenbaum, born in 1940 in New York City, developed a version of CBT that he calls cognitive-behavior modification (1977). He has shown the value of observing patterns of thoughts to reveal core beliefs that, when changed, can produce more lasting effects. His work is supported by neuroscience evidence that determined mental activity can actually affect brain structure and thus make changes more reliable (Schwartz & Begley, 2002).
A coach can use many of the principles of CBT in coaching by helping a client learn how to improve the quality of his or her thinking.
Example: Changing Habits Is a Snap
Oleana’s experience is an illustration of combining behavioral with cognitive techniques. Oleana revealed to her coach that she was continually putting herself down. “I’m always telling myself ‘That was stupid’ or ‘You’re such an idiot.’”
After spending some time in a session exploring how this kind of self-talk drained energy and created negative feelings, and making sure that Oleana wanted to make a change, the coach gave her this assignment: “Put a rubber band around your wrist and snap it every time you call yourself ‘stupid’ or ‘idiot’ or any other insult. Combine that with a journal in which you record all the good things you accomplish each day.”
Two weeks later, Oleana reported that she had only needed a handful of snaps to remind her how unpleasant her negative self-talk was. As she caught herself more often and focused on accomplishments rather than self-insults, she found herself more able to enjoy her work and being with her family.
In summary, cognitive therapy shares common ground with coaching. They are both designed to be short-term, goal-oriented interventions, often with homework assignments. Both fields tend to work with intelligent, logical people and attempt through language to reframe people’s perceptions of themselves or refocus their thinking in a new way. They both assume that people create, or construct, their lives within the constraints of heredity and environment rather than being determined by either. Cognitive therapy tends to be more directive than most coaching approaches.

NeuroLinguistic Programming

Speculation about artificial intelligence (AI) contributed to the cognitive revolution that occurred in the late 1950s in psychology. The field of computer science was in its early years and drew on mathematics, engineering, communications and information theory, and cybernetics. Cybernetics is the study of self-directed systems (Wiener, 1948). A very well-known concept that was introduced by cybernetics is “feedback”—a necessary function of any system that must adjust its behavior in order to reach its goal. Norbert Wiener (1894-1964), an American theoretical and applied mathematician and founder of cybernetics, applied his discoveries to human beings and to society in his book The Human Use of Human Beings (1950). AI and cybernetics captured the imagination of scholars, practitioners, writers, and the public, and it seemed reasonable to compare human thinking processes to a computer: A computer has hardware, and we have a brain; a computer operates using software, and we operate using our minds; a computer is programmed by a specific language, and we also have a language. Surely how we use language and our other channels of communication indicates the inner architecture of our minds and brains.
This is the logic behind neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) founded in the early 1960s by Americans John Grinder and Richard Bandler. As Robert Dilts (1983) puts it:
The basic premise of NLP is that there is a redundancy between the observable macroscopic patterns of human behavior (for example, linguistic and paralinguistic phenomena, eye movements, hand and body position, and other types of performance distinctions) and patterns of the underlying neural activity governing this behavior. (p. 3, emphases in original)
The power of close observation and deducing underlying mental patterns was modeled by Milton Erickson (1901-1980), an influential American psychiatrist and hypnotherapist who inspired Grinder and Bandler as well as many other psychotherapists.
Although we now know that the computer analogy does not match human brain processing in many ways (Hawkins & Blakeslee, 2004), the comparison of computers to brains spurred the development of a number of NLP techniques for practitioners to:
• Expand their sensory awareness so as to observe recurrent patterns of behavior in clients.
• Notice the responses their own behavior elicits in themselves and others.
• Determine what these patterns indicate about clients’ internal representations and neural connections.
• Observe how these representations and connections affect clients’ sensory experience and internal mental maps.
• Promote clients’ abilities to learn, communicate, make choices, and motivate themselves (adapted from Dilts, 1983, p. 6).
One of the best-known applications of this process has to do with recognizing another person’s representational system. If a coach asks a client a question and the client pauses momentarily as if searching “inside” for the answer, NLP suggests that a person’s typical inner processing will be one of three types:
1. Visual. The client flicks his eyes up and to the right, breaking visual connection with the coach momentarily. Then the client returns his gaze to the coach and increases his speech tempo while giving the answer, using words connected with vision: “The way I see it, my boss is really in the dark. I don’t think she has a glimmer as to how to move forward.”
2. Auditory. The client leans her head slightly down, puts a hand over her mouth, and says “Hhmmm” and then “returns” with an answer that is laced with auditory cues: “That sounds impossible. Nothing about it resonates with me.”
3. Kinesthetic. The client looks down and to the left, perhaps even closing his eyes. “I feel so uncomfortable even discussing this. Just thinking about it gets me hot under the collar.”
The coach who is able to match the client’s processing style is more likely to communicate empathy, not just by what is said but by being in line with, in tune with, or in step with how the client processes information.
A related NLP technique is modeling. How does a person master any skill or ability? The topic of expertise has generated a good deal of interest in cognitive psychology and education. NLP teaches that a learner can observe the sensory signals of an expert—how he or she stands, moves, and speaks—and ask questions that reveal what is going on in the expert’s mind at the moment that expertise is demonstrated. Then the learner “models” or takes on these physical attributes, attitudes, and thinking patterns in approaching whatever is the target for mastery.
Example: Modeling Expert Psychotherapists
One of us (Linda) modeled expert psychotherapists as part of her NLP master-level certification in 1991. She identified a half dozen people she considered to be expert psychotherapists. In this case, it would have been disruptive for her to observe them at work, but she did closely watch, listen, and get a feel for (notice the three representational systems: visual, auditory, and kinesthetic) how they described their work. She decided she was particularly interested in the time just before they opened the door to welcome a new client. What was going through their minds at that very moment?
Although these experts were psychotherapists and not coaches, what she found is likely to have relevance for the coaching process. Every one of the master psychotherapists said that at the moment just before greeting a new client, they were in a state of mind that combined curiosity, anticipation, and openness:
• “I have no idea what could be on the other side of that door,” said one. “It is as if a whole new world was about to open up before me.”
• “I imagine the door as about to open on a vast pantry. It’s stocked with an enormous number of wonderful items, some of which I may be familiar with, but mostly surprises and new discoveries.”
• “I do my best to approach that moment empty of preconceptions or judgments. I want to be free to take in what is there, not what I think should be.”
Several years later in her coaching studies, Linda was struck with the similarity of attitudes between expert psychotherapists and what was expected of coaches.
With its emphasis on attending to multisensory aspects of communication and its speculation about underlying neural patterns, NLP can be seen as a precursor both to coaching and to modern neuroscience.

Solution-focused Therapy

Solution-focused therapy (also referred to as solution-focused brief therapy [SFBT]) is a short-term goal-focused therapeutic approach that helps clients change by identifying and constructing solutions, thus putting it on the creative or constructive side of the deterministic-constructive polarity. A solution-focused therapist is likely to:
• Focus on the client’s present and future, not the past.
• Help clients identify solutions that will remove the barriers to having the life they want.
• Encourage clients to identify and do more of what is already working.
• Keep the therapy course brief (as few as three to six sessions) since the sessions do not include discussing the past.
Solution-focused therapists operate on the premise that the future is created and negotiated. The future is not a slave to past events in a person’s life. In spite of past events, even ones that were traumatic, a person can negotiate and implement many useful steps that are likely to lead to a more satisfying life. Solution-focused therapists also operate on the assumption that clients have all the resources, skills, and knowledge to make their lives better, if they decide that they want things to be better.
The deepest roots for solution-focused therapy are found in the works of Gregory Bateson (1904-1980). Bateson was a British-born anthropologist who moved to the United States and worked in diverse fields: evolutionary biology, psychiatry, genetics, ethnology, cybernetics, and communication theory. He was influenced by the works of Milton Erickson, the hypnotherapist from whom neuro-linguistic programming took its inspiration, and in fact introduced NLP founders Richard Bandler and John Grinder to Erickson. Bateson never put forward a theory of psychotherapy, but his work on communication theory and language had great implications for solution-focused therapy.
In a Batesonian approach, the therapist’s job is to facilitate change by gathering information about clients’ purposes and the context in which they operate and then by offering new descriptions and providing safe ways for them to achieve their goals.
Solution-focused therapy gained popularity in the late 1970s and 1980s in North America, as interest in trauma therapy was being stimulated by the women’s movement and the return of veterans from Vietnam. The demand for psychotherapy was increasing at the same time that the development of health maintenance organizations (HMOs) added to the growing reluctance of insurance companies to cover more than 20 to 25 psychotherapy sessions in a calendar year—and often many fewer. Abandoning the idea of a complete personality overhaul that had been characteristic of long-term therapy, practitioners sought ways to manage dysfunctional symptoms in the short run.
The term “Solution-Focused Brief Therapy” was first coined in 1982 through the work of the Brief Family Therapy Center in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, founded by Insoo Kim Berg (1994) and Steve de Shazer. The model they developed is used around the world in numerous settings with a variety of clients and problems: drug and alcohol abuse, domestic violence, school problems, chronic mental illness, case management, child protection investigations, corrections, criminal justice, prison populations, social services, and residential treatment programs. It has a wide appeal because of its simple, practical, and respectful approach to working with people.
Developed from an inductive process and often described as coming from a different paradigm, SFBT differs from problem-solving approaches in its philosophy and techniques. The “problem-solving” paradigm that is common to many psychotherapy treatment models can be described as a medical model that focuses on treatment of disease and removal of symptoms rather than on wellness. Contrasted with this, SFBT can be described as a solution-building approach (Berg, 1994; DeJong & Berg, 1998; de Shazer, 1985). The differences between these two models have implications for clinical practice in psychotherapy, and the emphasis on solutions rather than problems brings SFBT closer to coaching.
Coach training generally emphasizes that coaching is not focused on problems. But that does not mean clients do not bring problems to coaching or that problems are not often the motivation for clients to seek coaching. The difference is in how problems are dealt with. Solution-focused therapy identifies goals and focuses on the resources a person shows in achieving them. The concentration is on health and on coping abilities, and the emphasis is on connecting with the person, not the problem. Coaching shares this approach.
Solution-focused therapy uses language as its primary tool, based on the assumption that language shapes and molds the perception of reality and that some conversations are more useful than others. The conversation models used by Berg (1994) and de Shazer (1985) are widely used and can apply to coaching:
Presession change. Ask your client if anything is better since making the appointment. Clients may not even realize they have taken a step forward already.
Problem talk. If an alcoholic complains about losing his or her job, the solution-focused therapist talks about the job loss issue, not alcohol, although that may come up later if the client wishes. “The problem is the problem, not the person.”
Exceptions to the problem. Help clients to see times in their past when they overcame their problems. Identifying these solutions can defuse the power of the problem over clients. For example, “Tell me about the time that you have resisted the urge…”
Coping questions. Example: “You have been through a lot the last couple of months. How in the world have you coped with so much, while going to school (or holding down your job, taking care of the children, getting up in the morning, etc.)?”
Miracle question. Example: “Imagine that tonight while you are sleeping something like a miracle occurs. The miracle is that whatever problem brought you here has been resolved. Because you were sleeping, you won’t know the miracle occurred. What is the first thing that tells you that this miracle has happened? What is different?”
Setting goals. Whatever detailed goal or outcome the client chooses must be supported by actions.
Scaling questions. Ask the client to express her or his feelings about the problem on a scale of 1 to 10. Example: “On a scale of 1 to 10, where 1 stands for how badly you felt when you first decided to come and talk to me today and 10 stands for how you will feel when you don’t need to come to see me anymore, where would you say you are at right now?”
At the next session. “How did you manage to get all the way up to 2? That’s 100% improvement from the day you called. How did you do it? What would it take you to move up 1 point higher? When you move up 1 point higher, what would your best friend (or mother, boyfriend, etc.) notice that will tell him or her that you are doing a little bit better?”
Solution-focused therapy is a close match to coaching. Many coaches have been trained to use this approach. Some coaching schools even refer to their method as solution-focused coaching.
Solution-focused therapy and coaching both:
• Focus on building upon the client’s own strengths and competencies.
• Believe the client has most of the answers already.
• Recognize that all clients have the potential for growth and self-discovery.
• Require the therapist and coach to be supportive, directive, and challenging.
• Use the client’s definition of the problem or dilemma as the agenda for problem solving.
• Focus on clear, attainable goals.
• Focus on the present and the future rather than lengthy discussions of the past.
• Recognize the importance of the client’s responsibility for any change.
• Rely on the importance of conversation and language used with their clients.

Metaphor and Narrative Therapies

The theme of constructivism, or creativity, has been mentioned a number of times in this book. Its influence can be seen in Adlerian, NLP, and solution-focused psychotherapies. The idea that people construct, or create, what is real to them, and that they do this socially, has received a boost from recent neuroscience discoveries that the brain is more malleable in adulthood than previously thought, that mental activity can result in structural changes to the brain, and that connection with others is a major impetus for brain development.
Trends in psychotherapy that make particular use of the principles of constructivism are metaphor and narrative therapies.
Milton Erickson’s use of metaphor was influential in the family therapy work of Jay Haley (1971) and Virginia Satir (1983, 1988), and metaphor is a key component of Salvador Minuchin’s (1974) work with families. There are many ways in which the family therapies and family counseling approaches may be useful to coaches, and we recommend that coaches pursue those of interest, always remembering that coaching is not therapy.
Metaphors connect our ability to picture images with our verbal communication. They are also a bridge, to use a metaphor, that carries meaning from the metaphoric image to whatever it is referring to. That is, if Matilda says, “John is a real anchor to this work group,” she is not, of course, suggesting that John is literally made of a heavy metal that sinks to the bottom of the bay and hooks to rocks. (By the way, we will leave the question of metaphor versus analogy to our English major colleagues. In this context, saying “John is like an anchor” will engage the same metaphoric process.)
In the example, Matilda is expecting her listeners to take the meaning that surrounds the concept of an anchor and apply that to the person, John, as if he has those qualities. Constructivism suggests that when a therapist finds a metaphor that can shift the meaning a person or family gives to some troubling element, the reality of that element can shift. Metaphors are often used in reframing an event—for example, from “doors closing” to “other doors opening.”
However, a good deal of therapeutic metaphor is therapist-generated. That is, the therapist observes the individual’s or family’s behavior, imagines a metaphor that might be useful, and then presents it to the client or clients. Richard Kopp (1995) developed a different metaphor technique that is much more coachlike. He recommends utilizing client-generated metaphors that are more appropriate for a coaching intervention because they do not risk imposing the coach’s meaning on the client’s process. Although Kopp called his book and approach metaphor therapy, he and others have applied it in a coaching context, so it might just as well be called metaphor coaching.
 
METAPHOR COACHING The process of engaging a client’s own metaphor to effect change involves several steps that must be preceded by a conversation locating the client in or in relation to whatever issue is being explored. (The seven steps in the example are adapted from Kopp, 1995; Kopp, 2007, p. 34; and Page, 2007.)
Example: Alice Holds on Tight to the Reins
Alice was a recent external hire in a financial services firm and has been working with her coach to develop her ability to have coachlike conversations with her new direct reports. Her efforts have been largely successful except with Allan, who is many years her senior and has been at the firm for decades. She began by focusing on Allan: “He’s so arrogant. He pretends to listen to me but then acts like I don’t exist.” The coach asks her to describe her experience with Allan, to talk about what seems to be most problematic with him.
 
Step 1. Noticing metaphors. Here is Alice’s description of the issue with Allan: “I try to have conversations with him, but I keep getting tripped up [notice metaphor] by how angry I am. I don’t want to throw that into the mix [metaphor] right at the start of the conversation, so I hold back [metaphor] and just keep the talk light [metaphor] and really on the surface [metaphor].”
Step 2. Focusing on the metaphor. Coach asks: “When you say that you ‘hold back,’ what image or picture comes into your mind?” [Note: In order to be effective, Kopp insists that this question be asked in exactly this way. Replace ‘that you hold back’ with any metaphor that you have noticed being accompanied by an increase in physical or emotional energy. The image does not have to be visual, although it often is. It can be sounds or physical sensations.]
Alice responds: “It’s like I’m holding tight to the reins of these powerful black stallions, to keep them from stamping on everything in front of them.” [Note: Clients usually pause before answering and appear to be searching “inside.” They may close their eyes or defocus and break their connecting gaze with the coach. They are entering what Kopp calls the “metaphoric domain” where they can examine the image that gave rise to the metaphor without reference to the situation that they were describing. If they come out of that inner state and deal with the external the situation, in this case saying something like “I guess Allan gets me really angry,” guide clients back to considering the image itself, to staying in the metaphoric domain: “Let’s talk about that image of the horses.”]
Step 3. Exploring the metaphor as a sensory image. Coach suggests: “Describe the scene.” And asks: “What else is going on?” And: “What led up to this—what was happening just before?” [Note: The effectiveness of this technique depends on fully exploring the image as the client conceives of it. Coaches will soon discover that they are likely to interpret metaphors differently from their clients. A principle of coaching is that the client’s interpretation guides the discussion. But more important, working with the client’s interpretation is more efficient because there is no need to sell him or her on its relevance.]
Alice: “It’s a country road, a bit muddy. I’m riding these two black stallions like in a rodeo—one foot on each one’s back. They’re trotting along nicely but all of a sudden they start to gallop ahead. I’m trying to stop them so they don’t trample anyone.”
Step 4. Exploring feelings associated with the metaphor image. Very important: Coach asks: “What’s your experience of holding tight to the reins?” Or “What are you feeling as you hold tight to the reins?” [Note: Replace “holding tight to the reins” with whatever image you are exploring in your work with the client. It is crucial that the client put her- or himself into the image and feel its emotional effects. Again, different people are likely to feel differently about “holding their horses,” and it is important for the coach not to assume that the client is experiencing what the coach or anyone else might feel.]
Alice: “I’m holding on with everything I’ve got. My teeth are clenched and every muscle is tight. I’m afraid if I let go, I’ll lose my balance and there will be a disaster. So I just hold on.”
Step 5. Changing the metaphor image. Coach asks: “If you could change the image in any way, how would you change it?” [Note: It is the client who suggests the change, or even whether there should be a change, not the coach. Once again, it is critical that this step be conducted in the metaphoric domain. That is, if Alice says, “Well, I could just fire Allan,” that requires stepping out of the metaphoric image and talking about the problematic situation. Instead, the coach guides Alice back to the image.]
Coach: “But just talking about those powerful horses, how would you change that image?”
Alice: “What I’d really like to do is pull hard on the left rein and guide the horses through this gate into a field that’s all fenced in.” [Note: To make this technique effective, the client needs to explore this new image in as much detail as the original image was explored—see Steps 3 and 4.]
Coach: “What’s the scene? . . . What happens next? . . . What’s that experience like for you?”
Alice: “The horses gallop around inside the fence—but they go over there where I can get off safely. Then they settle down and start to graze. I start to breathe again and feel my neck and arms and whole body relax. They’re still there, but I don’t have to deal with them right now.”
Step 6. Creating connections with original image. Coach asks: “What connections do you see between your original image of holding back the stallions and the situation with Allan?” [Note: Both the coach and the client will be tempted to make leaps into providing solutions for the situation. In order to be most effective, continue with this step-by-step approach and explore the original connection first.]
Alice: “I’m on my way in my new job, pushing hard to get where I want, and Allan seems to just get in the way. Just seeing him there makes me frustrated and angry.”
Step 7. Applying the changed image to the present situation. Coach asks: “How might the way you changed the image apply to your current situation?”
Alice: “You know, I don’t think my anger has very much to do with Allan at all. Certainly he doesn’t deserve that level of anger from me—he’s just walking down the road. I haven’t bothered finding out where he is going. Maybe I should put my hard-driving attitude to pasture until I at least get to know him better.” [Note: Coaches are trained to get a commitment for action from clients once they have an insight such as this. However, in our experience, metaphor work is so powerful that clients do not need reinforcement. The two of you may find yourselves referring to “stallions” on and off throughout the rest of coaching together. Asking “What might be different when you next see Allan?” is a way of checking on the effects of the metaphor work.]
Psychotherapists who read this case will likely wonder if there is therapeutic work to be done with Alice. We discuss guidelines for referral more generally in the Resource Section on mental health issues. In Alice’s case, it would be worth finding out four things about her anger:
1. Is it persistent? “Has your anger been an ongoing problem over time?” Does Alice keep returning with the same issue, despite having dealt with it over and over in coaching?
2. Is her presentation incongruent? When Alice is exploring her anger, not as a quick remark but really seeming to recall it, is her body language consistent with the content? That is, does she look angry or at least serious? If a client is relating sadness, is she smiling and laughing?
3. Does her anger extend across time and different contexts? The coach might ask, “Do you find yourself holding the reins like this often, in many other situations? . . . Has this been going for a good part of your life?”
4. How strong is her anger? “What would happen if you lost hold of the reins? You said ‘disaster.’ What do you mean by that?”
Alice should be referred to a psychotherapist if:
• She keeps returning with the same issue, despite having dealt with it over and over in coaching.
• She seems quite disconnected from her anger, as if it is happening to someone else.
• Her anger is a problem in many times, places, and types of situations.
• She or the coach is worried that Alice or someone else might be harmed as a result of her anger.
In this case, Alice responded, “No, I’m quite surprised, actually. Being angry like this is not something I’m used to. And by a ‘disaster’ I mean that I might raise my voice when it’s not really justified. Then I might lose some of the respect I’ve worked so hard to gain in the office.” In subsequent sessions, she moved on to other issues. The coach mentioned that Alice might find it useful at some point to explore with a psychotherapist the reasons why Allan triggered this response but otherwise simply carried on with coaching for this and other workplace issues.
 
NARRATIVE COACHING Narrative and metaphoric approaches share constructivist and other assumptions of the systemic paradigm (Drake, Brennan, & Gotz, 2008). The idea that stories create meaning in our lives is not new. Adler (Ansbacher & Ansbacher, 1964) hypothesized that the stories we tell about our childhood experiences actually reveal more about our present-day values and future goals than about what really happened “back then.” The discoveries of neuroscience have provided support for narrative techniques.
Storytelling has been particularly effective in trauma therapy, with patients being invited to incorporate their traumatic memories into a narrative as a way of gaining some control over their effects. Telling one’s story as part of a supportive healing group is particularly effective.
Narrative therapy was developed by Australian Michael White and his New Zealand colleague David Epston (1990). Its connection to coaching is obvious because of its emphasis on collaboration, on externalizing problems faced by a client (“The person is not the problem, the problem is the problem.”), on the potential for a person to reshape her or his identity, on discovering unique exceptions that may serve in this reshaping, and on the social nature of the process (White, 2007).
References to creativity in coaching would not be complete without mentioning the work of Thomas Leonard (1955-2003), a very creative force and a major influence in the development of coaching (Brock, 2008). Leonard founded Coach University, a coach training school; Coachville, a network of coaching courses and resources; and a number of enterprises such as TeleClass.com, a virtual learning center delivered over telephone bridge lines. He was co-founder of the International Coach Federation in 1994. Until his untimely death in 2003, Leonard was a tireless author (e.g., Leonard, 1998) and promoter of coaching and coach training.
Resource Section: Mental Health Issues—How Not to Do Psychotherapy
Whatever techniques we borrow from psychotherapy, we must remember that coaches must not present ourselves as applying these techniques to treat mental illness. When coaching strays into this territory, we are ethically obliged to refer clients to a qualified mental health therapist or counselor. But how do coaches know when that boundary has been or may be crossed? To answer that question, we include this discussion on how coaches can identify boundaries and uphold the ethical commitment to practice within the limits of their training and profession.
One of us (Linda) is a trained psychotherapist who is certified as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. She approached her coach training with a preconception that she already knew most of what she would be exposed to. She was surprised to find that there are many skills, a breadth of interdisciplinary knowledge, and a mind-set that focuses on solutions, opportunities, and strengths that goes beyond what is typical in psychotherapy. Thus, she realized the importance of the principles and applications that are presented in this book.
As a coach, Linda found that she had to avoid responding to clients according to her previous training as a psychotherapist. Despite her Adlerian background, which espouses most of the assumptions of coaching, she particularly needed to catch herself before offering advice or interpretations. She decided in the early days of her coaching practice to differentiate coaching clients from psychotherapy clients and not to engage in psychotherapy with clients who had contracted for coaching. She refers such clients to other psychotherapists.
Coaches who are not trained as psychotherapists face a different problem. The question will inevitably arise, as it did in the case of Alice’s metaphor of wild horses: How do I distinguish between problems and issues that fall legitimately under my field of competence as a coach and those problems and issues that call for the services of someone trained especially to diagnose and treat mental disorders? What do I do if I discover and come to feel that the person I am working with has issues that are beyond my area of expertise?”
As in all coaching situations, the answer is to become proactive in acquiring basic information about the limits of the coaching engagement and some of the approaches for helping both coach and client make an appropriate, well-considered decision. The resources in this section provide ways to begin this task.
The best instrument for understanding the client’s state of mental health is a thorough and comprehensive entry interview. Although it can be quite brief, an interview should include:
• Questions about overall health and any significant physical problems. Sometimes what looks to a layperson like mental illness, such as depression, may in fact be the signs of physical illness. A medical checkup is a wise recommendation if there is any question in the coach’s mind—or even if there is not.
• Questions about life status, concerns, any history of emotional problems or relationship problems. The focus in coaching will not be on the past, but eliciting a very brief discussion of past psychological treatment may prevent future errors of judgment.
• Questions to determine whether clients are coming to coaching as another way of seeking relief from problems that typically are treated psychotherapeutically. Or is the goal more coaching related: to find ways to self-activate potential and overcome a normal range of self-imposed barriers or beliefs that are holding clients back from more fulfilling experiences of achievement and accomplishment?
Coaches cannot be expected to know what they do not know. Psychotherapists receive extensive training in recognizing and diagnosing serious mental disorders. Coaches do not need to know all the decision-making processes that go into diagnosis. They can, however, be sensitive to the four indications that we discussed in the case of Alice and the black stallions: At any time before or during coaching, coaches should refer clients to psychotherapists when issues fit the PIES model:
P—persistent, having been around a long time or not responding to attempts to change. “How long has this been going on?”
I—incongruent, not matching their nonverbal communication, as when clients smile and laugh when describing a very sad situation. “I hear that this is a very sad situation, but I don’t see sad in how you are acting. Am I missing something?”
E—extensive, affecting their ability to function in many areas of their lives. “Where else does this show up in your life?”
S—strong, having an effect that is out of the ordinary, especially if the coach or client begins to worry that someone might get hurt. “Are you thinking someone might get hurt? . . . Is someone’s well-being at stake?”
Linda developed the acronym PIES to provide coaches with a simple way to remember these guidelines. The types of questions suggested may help in gathering more information.
More generally, a coach may feel, after working with a client who originally presented as within the coach’s range of competence, that the client is failing to thrive or move forward despite approaches that usually meet with success. An ongoing pattern like this may be a sign that the client has failed to reveal or may be unaware of other issues. Establishing a trial period with all clients of three to six sessions followed by revisiting the original intake material may help to identify situations like this.
Coaches should feel free to explore mental health resources on the Internet, especially since clients are likely to have done so. Both should remember that diagnosis of disorders is a complex task that requires hundreds of hours of training and supervised practice. It is good to be informed but not to assume that information alone, especially unverified information published on the World Wide Web, is equivalent to expertise in applying that information.
That said, sometimes clients present with a diagnosis provided by a mental health professional. A client may seek coaching for a career or other issue in addition to what is being discussed with the therapist, and the client may ask that the coach and therapist coordinate their work. In such cases, coaches need to be able to discuss diagnoses intelligently with their professional colleagues. To help with this, Internet sites such as 4therapy Network (www.4therapy.com/consumer) and Internet Mental Health (www.mentalhealth.com) give overviews with ample links for exploring mental health themes. The American Psychiatric Association sponsors a site that discusses mental health symptoms and issues: www.healthyminds.org.
Once coaches suspect that the issues may surpass their boundaries, to whom they refer clients depends on local laws governing psychotherapy. Coaches should familiarize themselves with the laws that apply in their own jurisdiction and encourage clients who live elsewhere to utilize resources there.
Having a network of several mental health practitioners will enable coaches to share observations and concerns about a particular client where the client has granted permission for both professionals to discuss the case. As we mentioned, some clients need and want both psychotherapy and coaching, and some clients who require psychotherapy at one point may later return for coaching. Making clear and unambiguous arrangements with referral practitioners helps those practitioners feel comfortable referring a person back when he or she is ready for coaching.
Finally, every coach must have a signed and dated agreement with each client that includes a straightforward disclaimer and clear statement of what coaching is and is not so there will be no confusion in the client’s mind. This sample disclaimer should be revised to meet the coach’s description of her or his method and any local requirements:
 
Sample disclaimer:
I understand that [coach or coach’s firm] makes no claim to diagnose or treat mental illness. Coaching is an educational and collaborative method in which I optimize my potential by raising awareness, identifying choices, and taking selected actions. In engaging [coach or coach’s firm], I acknowledge having received and understood this disclaimer.
 
[Client signature and date]
This section was written in collaboration with Frank Mosca, Ph.D., a certified mental health professional.

PSYCHOTHERAPY AS BEDROCK FOR COACHING

Like ontology, medicine, and psychology, psychotherapy has participated in the shift from a mechanistic to a systemic paradigm that has also contributed to the emergence of coaching.
In reaction to psychoanalysis, which posited that unconscious forces determine human behavior, and behaviorism, which relied on stimulus-response determinism, the third wave of humanistic therapies insisted that human beings have the wherewithal to construct their own reality and that what is important in this self-determination is the subjective meaning they give to their lives.
The expressive therapies reminded practitioners that they were dealing with whole people—physical, mental, and emotional—and cognitive therapies took advantage of the cognitive revolution in psychology to focus on the maladaptive thoughts underlying mental health problems. As computer use became more widespread, neuro-linguistic programming took advantage of the computer metaphor to introduce short-term techniques for programming desired changes in people’s behavior and helped practitioners focus on underlying neural patterns. Solution-focused techniques emphasized people’s strengths and what they could accomplish in the future, and metaphor/narrative approaches relied on the social nature of the construction and reconstruction of reality.
In many ways, Adler’s suggestions that people are socially embedded, goal seeking, creative, and holistic are being confirmed today despite having been largely rejected or ignored during his lifetime. These trends are changing the face of psychotherapy and being embodied in the profession of coaching. Beginning as out-of-mainstream-science, these trends became stronger as they were taken up by positive psychology, research on emotional intelligence, and other approaches that accentuate the positive. We explore these in chapter 11.
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