Work Drama 101

Complainers Are Expensive

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Is your company losing money because of constant Complainers? Definitely.

In today’s economy, organizations expect the same or better results with fewer people to deliver. With jobs being downsized, “right-sized,” offshored, outsourced, and eliminated, the demand for more output and better results with fewer people has increased the workload and increased the stress! Complainers have fewer places to hide, and hardworking coworkers are showing less tolerance for those who complain versus contribute.

At first glance, reading a book that complains about Complainers appears counterproductive and an additional drain of your time and energy. Take another look. This book is designed to help you spot the type of Complainer you have, understand some of the reasons behind the behavior, and gain practical solutions to address and resolve the situation.

In this book, you’ll see how to increase your ability to negotiate through the drama so that you can get back to work . . . and you’ll have a chance to decide if you might be a Complainer who is draining other people’s energy. This material is supported by statistics, research, and expert opinion.

Throughout the book you’ll find the results of a recent survey of 1,014 people who work in a wide variety of industries. The survey was conducted electronically over a four-month period and designed to collect data about an individual’s past and present work experiences. People were given the option to take the survey anonymously. In addition to 3 questions regarding demographic information, 11 questions were a mix of open-ended, single-select and multiple-select multiple choice responses with an ability to provide optional comments. Respondents gave descriptions of Complainers and examples of drains on their energy as well as the amount of time spent handling complaints, examples of complaints, days of the week people complained, and successful solutions. Participants were asked if they had left a job due to Complainers, if they would take a promotion with a pay increase that involved working with a chronic Complainer, and under what circumstances they could be a Complainer.

Survey responses are presented throughout the book in the form of graphs, actual quotes, descriptions, suggestions, and experiences woven into scenarios. Respondents revealed several surprises about Complainers and how to stop them. Unless designated, the numbers and percentages you see in the book are taken from this survey. Full results are found at www.StopComplainers.com.

Ten Business Reasons to Stop Complainers

1. The cost
2. Negative effect and loss of good employees
3. Legal ramifications
4. Environmental infection
5. Signal of problem or mental illness
6. Your sanity
7. Business reputation
8. Complainers’ potential
9. Counterproductive strategy
10. The right thing to do

Reason 1: The Cost

Seventy-eight percent of people report a loss of at least 3 to 6 hours each week because of Complainers. At a minimum, that translates into 150 to 300 hours, or almost 1 to 2 months, spent every year for every person who spends time dealing with Complainers and draining situations rather than focusing on “real work” that produces results! Thirty-one percent say they spend more than 6 hours per week, and 2 percent report more than 20 hours of their time consumed during their workweek.

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This unproductive time costs companies at least $4,320 to $12,330 per year per employee. In a company with 100 employees, the figure equates to a weekly waste between $6,653 and $18,988 and a yearly waste of $332,640 to $949,410. That means that United States employers are spending at least a total of $10.1 billion on wasted time per week and over $505 billion a year on Complainers and draining situations.1 These numbers do not take into consideration retention, retraining, productivity, and knowledge management or the unquantifiable number of customers, clients, and employees that Complainers drive away from your business.


To determine how much Complainers and Energy Drains could cost your organization in time wasted, go to www.StopComplainers.com and use the Complainer Cost Calculator.

Reason 2: Negative Effect and Loss of Good Employees

Employees don’t want to work with Complainers, even if you pay them. Seventy-three percent of people say they would choose to stay in their current job at their current annual pay rather than accepting a $10,000 pay raise if it requires working daily with a chronic Complainer.

If you don’t address the work drama, you risk the loss of productive contributors. Complainers cause good employees to leave a company and jobs they like. At least 11 percent left a job because they couldn’t stand working with a Complainer. This means culture rates above salary as a key component in why people, especially good performers, stay in their jobs.

Reason 3: Legal Ramifications

Employers have a legal duty to provide a safe workplace that is free from illegal discrimination; they must also comply with federal, state, and local laws. Complainers can create an illegal harassment situation in the workplace. Disregarding complaints about Complainers puts a company at risk for judgments, liens, and legal fees totaling thousands of dollars. Expect to pay between $50,000 to $250,000 in legal fees and potential settlements for each legal claim an employee brings in court against the employer, according to Mimi Moore, a partner in the labor and employment section of Bryan Cave, LLP.2

To further confuse matters, an employer might not be able to terminate an employee for complaining about their work conditions including posting on social media sites like Facebook or YouTube. If Complainers gripe about their work conditions or employment conditions and the company disciplines them, the Complainers may have a suit under the National Labor Relations Act.3 Where Complainers are concerned, seeking employment advice before you act is less draining on your energy and your financials.

Reason 4: Environmental Infection

Work environments are a delicate ecosystem, and chronic Complainers infect their peers with their negativity and pessimism. Psychologist, author, and expert on organizational behavior Dr. Mel Whitehurst says, “Workers suffering from mild to moderate depression and anxiety infect other workers with anxiety and depression, spreading throughout the organization like a communicable disease. Entire work groups and even whole organizations can be contaminated with depression and anxiety.” Companies can’t afford further employee disengagement. In fact, a September 2012 Gallup poll reports that 52 percent of employees are not engaged and 18 percent are actively disengaged.4 How many more employees do you need to hire to make up the difference for the lack of productivity?

Reason 5: Signal of Problem or Mental Illness

Complaining may be a sign of a major change to personal, family, financial, or health status. It can also signal alcohol, drug, and substance abuse or mental illness. Dr. Whitehurst says, “Researchers rank depression and anxiety among the three top workplace problems for employers.” People who are depressed and anxious are more prone to complaining. However, persistent complaining, unstable moods, and erratic behavior are signs of a more serious mental illness.

According to the National Institute of Mental Health,5 about one in four adults suffers from a diagnosable mental disorder in a given year, and about 6 percent suffer from a serious mental illness. Many times, managers and peers are among the first to notice a change in behavior. Addressing the complaining behavior alerts an employee to a potential problem. These conversations can influence employees to seek help in the form of coaching, counseling, and/or treatment so that they can function to the best of their ability on the job.

Reason 6: Your Sanity

Complainers wear on you and your mental well-being. Their drama can become your drama. In a sense, Complainers are crossing over into your lane of traffic instead of driving in their own. Instead of dealing with their own problems or moods, Complainers want others to feel their pain, notice them, address their difficulties, or even complete their work. Working alongside a chronically negative Complainer brings you down, disrupts your life, and isn’t good for your health. Doing others’ jobs or coping with their issues is exhausting. There is a fine line between being a sensitive colleague who encourages good performance and one who attempts to fix every bit of drama in others’ lives.

“Many leaders feel guilty or overly responsible, and say ‘yes’ when they or their resources are overextended,” says best-selling author and psychologist Dr. John Townsend. “When leaders accept responsibilities that aren’t theirs, they inhibit autonomy and responsibility from their direct reports, and do not help them grow. Clear boundaries help this process.”

Reason 7: Business Reputation

Complainers can drive away your business. Customers talk. If they experience good customer service, they’ll tell an average of 15 people. For bad customer service, plan on 24 others learning about it. These numbers increase dramatically if you have social media users. According to the 2012 American Express Global Customer Service Barometer, social media users “talk more.” Give them a good customer experience, and they will tell an average of 42 people. Give them a bad customer experience, and they will let an average of 53 people know.6

Reason 8: Complainers’ Potential

Yep, you read it right. If you manage them correctly, you can help channel some of your Complainers into more productive activities. Once Complainers learn better ways to communicate, handle stress, and be assertive, some of them may choose to transform into contributors.

Executive coach-consultant Elaine Morris says, “Complaining is a symptom of helplessness, low power, and a victim-like mind-set. Giving direct feedback and redirecting Complainers can allow them to see their own attitude is the problem. If they choose, Complainers can work on building their emotional intelligence, in particular, self-awareness, confidence, assertiveness, and problem solving. The potential to grow depends on their own willingness, and many people take that leap.”

Reason 9: Counterproductive Strategy

Constant complaining does not work. Complaining without offering solutions creates a negative environment and takes the focus off solving problems. A benefit of having Complainers communicate better and bring solutions is the wealth of ideas and innovation your company can tap into. If Complainers choose to stop whining, criticizing, and creating work drama, their passion and energy can be redirected to problem solving and contributing to positive change.

A seasoned journalist with more than 25 years of experience, Lorri Allen says, “Reporters encounter a lot of mad, angry people who have complaints. But the people we take seriously are those who can channel frustrations into a positive solution and transform anger into a passion to effect change.”

Reason 10: The Right Thing to Do

Leaders have an obligation to address behavior that isn’t working. Your job as a leader is to give clear instructions, offer the proper tools, provide a safe workplace, define desired outcomes, monitor performance, provide feedback, and enforce company policies and standards. When you lead effectively, you remove one reason high performers leave. By holding people accountable for their work and professional behavior, you encourage people to solve the problems they can. Often, Complainers will either elect to perform up to standards or will self-select themselves out of the organization by quitting.

In more than 20 years of negotiating employment situations as an attorney and a mediator, then later as a business consultant, one truth is clear: people want to contribute to the success of their organizations. To achieve results, they want to feel personally empowered to solve their own problems and enjoy their work environment. Leaders want to encourage employees to do their best work and experience personal growth.

More than anything, people and the people who lead them want the drama at work to STOP.

Notes

1. In the survey, 45.4 percent of the respondents reported that Complainers and draining situations take up 3 to 6 hours of their workweek, and another 31.7 percent reported that they take up more than 6 hours per week. Within these totals, 2.1 percent actually reported that Complainers and Energy Drains consume more than 20 hours of their time during their workweek. In other words, over 77 percent (45.4% + 31.7% =77.1%) of the survey respondents reported a minimum of 3 to 6 hours per week being wasted.

According to the US Department of Labor Bureau of Labor Statistics’ report “Employer Costs for Employee Compensation—June 2012,” the average cost for a private industry company worker is $28.80 per hour; for state and local government workers, $41.10 per hour; for service workers, $14.01 per hour; and for management and professional workers, $51.23 per hour (benefits are approximately 30 percent of these costs).

The US Worker calculation was derived from using $28.20 (the lowest average hourly wage of US workers) multiplied by three hours a week (the lowest amount of hours reported wasted by 77% of survey participants) multiplied by 77% of 155,696,000 (US employed workers according to the US Department of Labor Bureau of Statistics on November 2, 2012) for a total of $10,142,348,832 wasted time per week and multiplied by 50 workweeks in a year is $507,117,600 of wasted time per year. www.StopComplainers.com/survey; http://www.bls.gov/opub/ted/2012/ted_20120919.htm; and http://www.bls.gov/news.release/archives/ecec_09112012.pdf.

2. “How to Fire People the Right Way” by Meridith Levinson, CIO.com, http://www.cio.com/article/692778/How_to_Fire_People_the_Right_Way?page=1&taxonomyId=3233.

3. “Lakewood, Washington, Construction contractor, 19-CA-31580” (NLRP filed complaint for employees who were protected when appearing in YouTube video about hazardous work conditions) and “Hartford, Connecticut, Emergency medical response company, 34-CA-012576” (NLRB filed complaint of unlawful firing of employee who criticized supervisor on Facebook posting) Protected Concerted Activity, National Labor Relations Board.

http://www.nlrb.gov/concerted-activity.

4. September 2012 Gallup poll reports that 52 percent of employees are not engaged and 18 percent are actively disengaged; http://www.gallup.com/poll/157397/half-don-strengths-throughout-day.aspx; http://www.gallup.com/poll/155924/mondays-not-blue-engaged-employees.aspx.

5. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, “An estimated 26.2 percent of Americans ages 18 and older—about one in four adults—suffer from a diagnosable mental disorder in a given year.” See Kessler RC, Chiu WT, Demler O, Walters EE, “Prevalence, severity, and comorbidity of twelve-month DSM-IV disorders in the National Comorbidity Survey Replication (NCS-R),” Archives of General Psychiatry 62, no. 6, (June 2005): 617–27.

6. Mikal E. Belicove, “Social Media Users Are Squeakier Wheels When It Comes to Customer Service,” Entrepreneur.com on NBCNews.com; http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/47314679/ns/business-small_business/t/social-media-users-are-squeakier-wheels-when-it-comes-customer-service/.

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