INDEX

advice, asking for, 137138

advocacy. See self-advocacy; sponsors

advocacy teams, 137138

ambition, 6970

Anderson, Rania H., 171178

anger, backlash against expressing, 58. See also emotions

Anne Welsh McNulty Institute for Women’s Leadership, 183184

appearance, 34, 14, 15

approachability, 2021

arrogance, 19, 159

aspirations, 119120

assertiveness, caring vs., 24

assumptions

avoiding, 113

setting, 68

authenticity, xv

appearance and, 34

challenges facing women and, 1415

comfort zone and, 1214

communication and, 5, 810, 1314

expression of emotions and, 812

leading with, 315

making room for your whole self and, 2538

multiple identities and, 35

personas and, 1214

role models and, 7071

self-awareness and, 3947

women of color and, 125

“The Authenticity Paradox” (Ibarra), 12

authoritativeness, 19

balance, among identities, 3334

benevolent sexism, 43

Bernstein, Amy, xixv

on claiming credit, 95102

on leading with authenticity, 314

Bhasin, Pramod, 8889

bias, 129, 132

confidence vs. competence and, 159160

confirmation, 164

fixing, 160161

imposter syndrome and, 153161

in performance reviews, 163169

Bloomberg Media, 172

body language, 7576, 78

boundaries, 3435

Bowman, Nina A., 103109

Brescoll, Tori, 6

Burey, Jodi-Ann, 153161

calm, while under pressure, 85

caring

assertiveness vs., 24

being demanding and, 1821

Carlton, Pamela, 124127

Carmichael, Sarah Green, xii

on claiming credit, 95102

on leading with authenticity, 314

Caulfield, Emily, xii

Caza, Brianna Barker, 2538

Cecchi-Dimeglio, Paola, 163169

Diversity Dividend, 163

Center for Talent Innovation. See Coqual

Chamorro-Premuzic, Tomas, 159

Citi, 72

Clance, Pauline Rose, 154155

Clark, Dorie, 7378

Entrepreneurial You, 7374

clothing, 34, 14, 2021

code-switching, 35

collaboration, 60

comfort zone, authenticity and, 1214

communication

about identities, 3334

about workplace biases, 129, 132

anger and, 58

in asserting leadership, 55, 60

authenticity in, 5, 810, 1314

being heard in meetings and, 1314

body language and tone in, 7576

emotion and, 812

executive voice in, 8186

influence and, 7476, 7879

listening and, 75

performance reviews and, 166169

presence and, 69

telling your boss what you want and, 111116

between women, 181182

competence, 17

being authoritative yet participative, 19

confidence vs., 159160

self-reliance and, 47

trying to prove, 5859

complexity. See also ethnicity

identities and, 2630, 3638

normalization of, 37

confidence

asserting leadership and, 6263

competence vs., 159160

humble, 70

imposter syndrome and, 153161

underestimation of in women, 3942

confirmation bias, 164

context

asking your boss for what you want and, 113114

claiming credit and, 9798

executive voice and, 8183

fear and, 2728

of opportunities, 175

performance reviews and, 168

women supporting women and, 155156, 168

contributions

boss dynamics around, 98

claiming credit for, 95102

getting credit for, xiii

humility and, 6970

lack of credit for, 96, 100101

sponsors’ advocacy around, 177178

taking ownership of, 98100

talking about your, 90

valuing of women’s, 4142, 100101

conviction, xiii, 99

Coqual, 171172

Creary, Stephanie, 2538

credibility

asking for advice and, 137138

executive voice and, 81

women of color and, 128

credit for contributions, xiii, 6970, 100101

claiming, 95102

lack of, 96, 100101

sponsors and, 177178

Cross, Rob, 139

crowdsourcing, 169

culture, company

accountability for, 129

anger expression and, 8

bias and racism in, 160161

exclusionary, 132133

expression of emotions and, 812

understanding before changing, 122

Davis, Viola, 155

decision making, 122123

demanding, being caring and, 1821

directness, 811

discussion guide, 193196

diversity, 117118

at Pinterest, 130131

imposter syndrome and, 159

increasing, in organizations, 118, 128133, 173

working groups, 138

Diversity Dividend (Cecchi-Dimeglio), 163

Donio, Elena, 38

double binds, xiv, 2021

confidence vs. competence, 159160

expressing anger, 58

gendered leadership norms and, 1724

performance reviews and, 164169

women supporting women and, 179181

Duckworth, Angela, 142

Eagly, Alice, 166

Ellevate Network, 183

Ellevest, 183

emotional intelligence (EQ), 41

emotions, 123

anger, backlash against women expressing, 58

being demanding yet caring, 1821

cost of difference and, 128

expectations about women showing, 812

gendered leadership norms and, 1721

grit and, 141149

energy, managing your, 69

engagement, 129, 132

Entrepreneurial You (Clark), 7374

ethnicity. See also race

anger expression and, 6

demographics and, 117

either/or identity and, 29

ensuring access and, 132133

exclusionary cultures and, 132133

expression of emotion and, 1011

getting to senior management and, 117133

how to get ahead and, 119128

hypervisibility and, 123, 126127

imposter syndrome and, 153161

intersectional invisibility and, 123127

leadership opportunities and, 6162

mentors and, 123, 127128, 171172

organization’s role in leadership and, 128133

stereotypes about, 1011

Eurich, Tasha, xiiixiv, 3947

Insight, 43

exclusion, 128, 157159

executive voice, 8186

expectations, xiiixiv

about emotion expression, 812

gendered norms of leadership and, 1724, 5455

of leadership, 6263

overcoming low, 125126

Expect to Win (Harris), 36

experiences, broadening, 3738

expertise

being sponsor-worthy and, 8990

imposter syndrome and, 153161

influence and, 76

outside your organization, 139140

rising to senior management and, 120121

fear, 6364

of marginalization, 2728

of sexual harassment allegations, 172

feedback

about leadership concerns, 6263

frequency of, 166169

gender bias in, 163169

goals of, 169

on how to assert leadership, 5860

inclusive leadership and, 130131

from loving critics, 4445

taking to heart, 4547

to women vs. men, 4245

Fiorina, Carly, 17

Tough Choices, 17

Five Whys, 146

focus

on being sponsor-worthy, 88

executive vision and, 8384

grit and, 144145

listening and, 75, 78

making assumptions and, 113

in performance reviews, 165

on solving problems vs. getting promoted, 7273

steward leadership and, 6970

on win-wins, 2223

Gallo, Amy, xii

on acting like a leader, 6572

on becoming a leader, 5164

Genpact, 8889

Give and Take (Grant), 139

glass cliff, 125126

Grant, Adam, 139

Give and Take, 139

grit, 141149

halo effect, 164165

Harris, Carla, 36

Expect to Win, 36

Hedges, Kristi, 135140

Hewlett, Sylvia Ann, 8791, 180

holistic mindset, 30

humility, 70

hypervisibility, 123, 126127

Ibarra, Herminia, 12

“The Authenticity Paradox,” 12

identities. See also authenticity

authenticity and, 35

boundary management and, 3435

creating connections between, 2931

either/or thinking about, 2829

leveraging connections between, 3132

multifaceted, 2538

others’, 3638

relating to others and, 3235

Imes, Suzanne, 154155

imposter syndrome, 153161

confidence vs. competence and, 159160

definition of, 154

uncertainty vs., 156157

impressions, 34

inclusion, 126131

benefits of, 177178

prioritizing, 138

influence, 7379

aspiring to, 119120

executive voice and, 81

helping influencers and, 138140

listening and, 75

mentors and, 123, 127128

relationships and, 74, 7879

sponsors and, 9091

stakeholders’ needs and, 7778

staying current and, 79

value of, 7374

women of color and, 128129

insecurity, 5859

Insight (Eurich), 43

interruptions, xiii

intersectional invisibility, 123127

journey line exercise, 145146

Kark, Ronit, 1724

Knight, Rebecca, 7379

Krawcheck, Sallie, 183

Ladge, Jamie J., 124127

leaders and leadership

acting as vs. organizational position, 54, 5658, 6572

authentic, 315

becoming, xixv

being seen as, 5255

comfort zones and, 1214

deciding whether or not to pursue, 6364

development of, 5455

disadvantages facing women in, xiv

diversity of styles in, 158159

embodying, 5658

embracing complexity by, 38

executive voice and, 8186

gendered norms of, 1724, 5556, 159

inclusive, 129131

midlevel, 118119

pipeline diversity for, 117118

presence and, 55, 6566, 6869, 82, 98

role models and, 3637

seeing yourself as, xiixiii, 5164, 120

self-awareness and, 3947

shadowing, 133

steward, 6970

taking responsibility for, xixv

women of color in, 117133

Leadership Quarterly, 180

Lean In, 118, 172

lifeline exercise, 145146

Livingston, Robert, 6

loving critics, 4445

loyalty, 88, 89

marginalization, 2728

Markle, Meghan, 29

McKinsey & Company, 118, 180181

McNulty, Anne Welsh, 179184

meetings, xixiii

being heard in, 1314

being overlooked and, 108109

getting invited to, 103109

following up after, 101102

intentional exclusion from, 108

others’ perceptions of you and, 105107

talking to your boss about, 107108

value of being in, 104105

Meister, Alyson, 1724

mentors, 171172

cultivating influential, 123, 127128

developing, 173

father/daughter relationships with, 5859

loving critics and, 4445

#MeToo movement and, 172

women of color and, 126127

women supporting women and, 179184

meta-perception, 4142

social comparisons and, 4547

#MeToo movement, 172

microaggressions, 129, 132, 157

model minority stereotype, 1012

Morgan, Candice, 130131

Morgan, Nick, 7478

motivation, 119120

negotiation, 111116

plan B for, 116

niceness, xiv

adapting to situations and, 21

reframing, 24

toughness vs., 2223

Nickisch, Curt, 141149

norms, gendered leadership, 1724, 5556, 159

Obama, Michelle, 155

office housework, 181182

office politics, 22, 153154

Opie, Tina, 315, 159

opportunities

acting like a leader and, 6568

context of, 175

the glass cliff and, 125126

stretch roles, 174175

women of color and, 120121

outsider identity, 2728

Own the Room (Su/Wilkins), 51, 6566, 95

Pace, Cindy, 117133

passion, xiv, 8, 142

performance, 88, 89

executive voice and, 8182

feedback and, 4346

women supporting women and, 180

performance evaluations, 4344, 163169

annual vs. frequent, 166169

perseverance, 141, 176177

personas, trying on, 1214

Pinterest, 130131

Poku-Spalding, Dee, 183

politics, office, 22, 153154

Polson, Shannon Huffman, 141149

potential, showing, xv

acting like a leader and, 6572

executive voice and, 8186

increasing influence and, 7379

seeing yourself as a leader and, 5164

sponsorship and, 8791, 173174

power maps, 77

presence, 55, 6566, 6869, 82

asking questions and, 98

executive, 6869, 82

leadership, 20, 66, 6869

perceptions of, 158

physical, 55

training in, 132

pressure, staying calm under, 85

professional development

acting on opportunities, 6568

excelling in your current role, 66

helping your boss succeed and, 6667

leadership opportunities and, 6163

mentors/sponsors and, 175176

multiple identities and, 3738

performance reviews and, 168169

promotions, recognition, and, 177178

pursuing, 121123

stretch roles and, 174175

telling your boss what you want and, 111116

timelines for, 6364

when your boss won’t help, 135140

women supporting women and, 179184

professionalism

biases in assessment of, 158

expression of emotions and, 812

social media and, 3435

prospective awareness, 102

protégés, 89, 91, 129, 132, 171178

public relations departments, 140

purpose, 145, 146148

queen bee phenomenon, 180

race. See also ethnicity

aspiring to leadership and, 6162

bullying and, 153

disparities in work assignments, 132

identity, with multiple, 29

intersection, with gender, 157

microaggressions and, 129, 132, 157

masking, 125

sponsorship and, 136, 171172

racism, 154, 155156, 157158, 160161

Ramarajan, Lakshmi, 2538

Reflected Best Self Exercise, 42

reframing

identities, 3132

niceness and toughness, 24

Reid, Erin, 2538

relationships

advocacy teams, 137138

building, 71, 7879

executive voice and strategic, 8485

getting invited to important meetings and, 108109

inclusive leadership and, 129130

influence and, 74, 7879

with influencers, 138140

leadership development and, 5859

with loving critics, 4445

with mentors, 123, 127, 172, 173, 175176

with sponsors, 5859, 8791, 172177

between women inside a company, 179184

resilience, 123. See also grit

retrospective awareness, 102

Rhimes, Shonda, 2526, 36

risk-taking, 125126, 130

role models

finding, 7071

imposter syndrome and, 156

influential, 123

rethinking, 3637

sponsors as, 136

Rosette, Ashleigh Shelby, 6

Sandberg, Sheryl, 155

self-advocacy, 5, 1920, 9091

claiming credit and, 95102

getting invited to meetings and, 103109

grit and, 141149

men as advocates and, 171178

telling your boss what you want, 111116

when your boss won’t help, 135140

women of color and, 117133

self-awareness, 3947

ambition and, 119120

feedback and, 4245

gender differences in, 3940

how others see us and, 4547

inclusive leadership and, 130

meta-perception and, 4142

retrospective and prospective, 102

social comparisons and, 4547

underestimation of self by women and, 3942

women of color and, 124125

of your goals, 112

self-compassion, 102

self-knowledge, xiii

multifaceted identity and, 2732

of your complexity, 2728

self-reliance, 47

sexism, benevolent, 43

Shambaugh, Rebecca, 8186, 111116

Smith, Alexis Nicole, 124127

Smith, David G., 171178

Smith, Ella Bell, 45

social comparisons, 4547

social media, 3435

solutions, offering, 85

Sotomayor, Sonia, 47, 155

spatial awareness, 101

spheres of influence, 139

sponsors

developing, in organizations, 173

development and support from, 175176

diversity and, 171172

encouraging perseverance and, 176177

finding the right, 9091

identifying high-potential talent and, 173174

making yourself worthy of, 8791

making introductions as, 176

stretch roles and, 174175

what they do, 173178

women supporting women and, 179184

workplace biases and, 129, 132

stakeholders

building influence and, 7778

considering needs of, 77

getting credit for contributions and, 96

managing, 132

visibility to, 138, 139

stereotypes, 1012, 41, 124125, 128129, 132, 157, 160

steward leadership, 6970

story, knowing your personal, 144146

strategic instincts, 8186

strategy, influence and, 77

Su, Amy Jen

on becoming a leader, 5164

on claiming credit, 95102

on demonstrating leadership, 66, 70

Own the Room, 51, 6566, 95

support

being sponsor-worthy and, 8791

imposter syndrome and, 153161

from men, 171178

performance reviews and, 163169

by women of women, xv, 126128, 179184

tactical exercises, 145146

Theron, Charlize, 155

Thomas, Kecia M., 160

Torres, Nicole, xii

on becoming a leader, 5164

on claiming credit, 95102

on inclusive leadership, 130131

on leading with authenticity, 314

Tough Choices (Fiorina), 17

Toyota, 146

trust

influence and, 7576

loyalty and, 88

Tulshyan, Ruchika, 153161

Tyagarajan, Tiger, 8889

U.S. Army, 142144, 146148

value, assessing your, 104105

values, 126

authenticity and, 13

inclusion, 128129

visibility, prioritizing, 138

vision, executive voice and, 8384

vulnerability, 19, 24, 28, 112, 129

Watkins, Marla Baskerville, 124127

Watkins, Michael, 66, 67, 6970, 71

“what if” responses, 115

WIE (Women Inspiration and Enterprise) Network, 183

Wilkins, Muriel Maignan, xiii

on acting like a leader, 6569, 71

on becoming a leader, 5164

on leadership presence, 6769

Own the Room, 51, 6566, 95

win-wins

niceness and toughness and, 2223

requesting, 113

Women at Work (podcast), xii

on becoming a leader, 5164

on claiming credit, 95102

on inclusive leadership, 130131

on leading with authenticity, 314

“Women in the Workplace” (report), 118

women of color. See ethnicity

Working Mother Research Institute, 157158, 171

Work Market, 7879

Zheng, Wei, 1724

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