We were trying to make improvements to a software we use. I reached out to a tech firm and set up a call. The guy on the phone asks me how we’ve been using our software so I give him the big picture. Right off the bat he proceeds to tell me that the way we’ve been working with it is all wrong and needs to be rethought. He went on with some pitch about a whole new way to approach it that most people haven’t considered that’s creating major advances in results, but he lost me with his arrogance.
First conversation with him and he’s telling me what I should and shouldn’t do after barely asking me a question or two? Maybe they have some special sauce that’s better than the rest, but I’ll get help elsewhere from someone who knows how to talk to people.
—Vice president of account management at a multibillion-dollar companya
This seller may have started out on the right track but then promptly derailed. He believed that the buyer was doing something the old way and that his way was better. He tried to apply interaction insight by pushing back on the buyer’s thinking and current practices and then tried to open the door for opportunity insight, sharing a new way of doing things that would create value for the buyer.
Unfortunately, this seller’s attempt to display both types of insight fell apart with his poor tactical implementation. He failed in two fundamental ways:
As we observe sellers attempting to practice insight selling, we see them make these mistakes all the time because many of them:
In this chapter, we look at how sellers connect with people and connect the dots and how connecting relates to insight selling (Figure 4.1). It’s not our intent, however, that this chapter be a primer on how to develop relationships or a new treatise on consultative selling. Instead, we focus on a few specific points.
Regarding connecting with people, it’s trendy to dismiss the value of relationships, especially personal relationships (i.e., developing rapport and being likeable) in sales. We make an argument to the contrary, including outlining how personal connections improve sellers’ ability to deliver value and succeed with insight. We also provide a format for measuring the strength of relationships from the business perspective.
We cover connecting the dots in depth in Rainmaking Conversations: Influence, Persuade, and Sell in Any Situation.1 In this chapter, we focus specifically on how questions help demonstrate understanding of need—something winners are much better at than second-place finishers—and how sellers can use questions in the process of applying interaction insight.
In the appendix to Insight Selling, we provide an executive overview of RAIN Selling—RAIN Group’s selling method and guide for leading successful sales conversations. In addition, for readers of Insight Selling, we’ve made several complimentary e-learning lessons available if you want to learn more.
A relationship is the way in which two or more people are connected to one another. Ask people to define the role of a relationship builder in sales, and you’ll typically get one of two answers (Figure 4.2):
Recently, it’s been popular to dismiss relationships, especially the personal connection component of the relationship, as unimportant in (and even detrimental to) sales.2 This isn’t what we found in our research and isn’t what we see in practice. Sellers who dismiss the value of relationships—personal connections included—have great difficulty succeeding with insight selling and establishing their business value.
In both our research and our conversations, buyers regularly stress to us that they are open to ideas and insights almost exclusively from people they already know and already trust. Sellers who have personal connections already developed with buyers find the door is open to provide business value (Figure 4.2).
This poses a challenge for sellers who do not yet have a personal connection with a buyer because there is a converse relationship (Figure 4.3) between the level of trust established and the buyer’s willingness to (1) take meetings with you and (2) accept what you say as credible.
Why is this important?
In “The Role of Interpersonal Liking in Building Trust in Long-Term Channel Relationships”3 published in the Journal of the Academy of Marketing Science, the authors found that liking leads to trust in seller-buyer relationships. Figure 4.5 shows the implications of this finding and others.
Moreover, they found that the more a seller interacted with buyers and the more buyers felt in synch with the business values of the seller, the more they liked the seller. As the authors put it, “The results suggest that liking is an important, and too long overlooked, variable in understanding trust. Regardless of the age of the sales relationship . . . liking has a major influence on trust . . . In other words, not only is liking an important determinant of trust in its own right, but the widely studied . . . [concepts of] similarity of business values and frequency of personal interaction—operate through liking.”
It all comes down to this: If you want buyers to listen to your ideas and see you as a source of insight, it’s a lot easier if they like you. It’s a lot easier if you establish—and then build upon—your personal connection.
Now that we’re well into the second decade of the twenty-first century, business and relationships don’t operate like they did in the Mad Men days. There was a time when people expected to build a personal relationship first, and then, with the personal relationship firmly in place, they could do business.
Nowadays, business interactions often come first. Long dinners to get to know each other up front are the exception, not the rule, and we have neither seen nor heard of an actual three-martini lunch in a long time. This doesn’t mean, however, that sellers can’t establish personal relationships with buyers. It just happens in a different order.
When sellers can establish themselves as a source of insight from the moment of their first interactions, the buyers tend to want to keep them around. Even before they make their first sale to the buyer, sellers who win add this value through insight.
As they establish themselves and their business value, the frequency and depth of their interactions increase. Assuming the sellers are playing their cards right, a personal relationship with the buyer can then blossom. Once it does, it adds to both the foundation of trust and the buyers’ willingness to take the sellers’ advice (Figure 4.6).
From here, sellers can strengthen and deepen their relationships both personally and professionally and become an essential resource to buyers.
When we ask sellers to describe their relationships with their clients, they often say something like, “Relationships based on the value we provide are key to our success. In general, our relationships are strong and deep, especially for our most important clients.”
Dig a little deeper on the relationship front, however, and most sellers agree that although their standard answer is “strong and deep,” there’s a lot more going on when they look critically. To help our clients analyze the strength of their relationships with their clients, we ask them the following seven questions:
Then rich conversations begin.
Once sellers plot their relationships in the grid in Figure 4.7 (which follows the questions above and is stated from the point of view of what the client would say), it’s difficult to close down the conversation about why the relationship is where it is, what can be done to strengthen it, and how much investment energy sellers should place in one client or another.
Most (but not all) of the sellers we encounter have at least one relationship where they find themselves, for the most part, at the top (essential) level. They say their clients would answer the questions something like this:
When we study relationships that reach the top level, what we find is that the sellers themselves have a significant impact on the buyer’s perception of the relationship. It’s almost never simply an exchange of products and services.
In particular, the more insight sellers and delivery teams bring to the table, the more the buyers value sellers and their colleagues, and the higher on the relationship strength scale the sellers rise.
We know that insight sellers practice opportunity insight—bringing ideas proactively to buyers for them to consider. We’ll cover how to do this in the next chapter.
But let’s assume for a minute a buyer comes to you with a need. In this case, you don’t need to sell the buyer on a vision of why to do something. It’s already on the buyer’s agenda. However, you certainly want to win the business in what may be a highly competitive situation.
To do this, you must connect the dots between needs and solutions. Much of the current trend in sales, along with dismissing the importance of relationships, is to dismiss solution and consultative selling principles. Do so at your own risk.
According to our research, to win, sellers still must:
Also, although you can define solution selling in a number of ways, these two points tend to be fundamental.
As widely understood and accepted as these concepts are (except for those who suggest they should be dismissed, which is confounding to us), winners are much better at doing them than second-place finishers. In fact, these two are fifth and seventh on the list of factors that separate winners from second-place finishers the most (Figure 4.8).
It’s clear the core concepts of solutions in sales remain a necessary component of success, but as we noted in the first chapter, the approach must change in fundamental ways, namely:
For years, we at RAIN Group have been teaching sellers how to connect the dots between needs and solutions with our RAIN Selling method. RAIN Selling is a blueprint that helps sellers create and win sales opportunities and unleash their sales potential.
At the heart of RAIN Selling is the acronym RAIN. Along with lending itself as the name of the method, the word RAIN is your guide to leading sales conversations that satisfy all 3 levels (connect, convince, and collaborate) outlined in this book, including connecting with people and connecting the dots between buyer needs and seller solutions.
The acronym RAIN stands for:
Also, the A and the I perform double duty as a reminder to balance Advocacy and Inquiry, and the IN will help you remember to maximize your influence.
For a brief overview of RAIN Selling, see the Appendix. Also, readers of Insight Selling have access to an e-learning lesson covering the basics of RAIN Selling. To view this lesson, go to www.raingroup.com/insightbooktools.
To learn more about how to lead masterful sales conversations that—among other things—will demonstrate how to connect the dots between needs and solutions, spend some time going through the lessons in RAIN Selling Online, and pick up a copy of Rainmaking Conversations.
Before we move along to our next topic, we’d like to highlight one part of RAIN: the A and the I that serve as reminders to balance advocacy and inquiry. Conversations about insight selling often focus on educating with new ideas from the perspective of presenting information. This is certainly important as a core way to share an idea is, literally, to present it. But advocacy is only half the story of connecting the dots and creating insight in the mind of the buyer.
The other half is inquiry.
When it comes to understanding need, sellers generally must ask questions. Inquiry isn’t, however, typically a core concept associated with insight selling. It should be. Whether they realize it or not, sellers are practicing insight selling when they ask questions the right way.
One notable finding from our research was that it was more important to buyers that sellers demonstrate understanding of their needs than it was to diagnose the need itself.b
Perhaps the most common way sellers demonstrate understanding is to summarize and repeat what they heard, something like, “So what I’m hearing is that you think your manufacturing process is bloated and inefficient because of these five reasons. You’ve tried to solve the issues before by hiring a consultant to redesign the processes and implementing ACME software. The consultant wasn’t very good, and the software still hasn’t been implemented, so you’re in the same place you were two years ago. Still, you believe you can achieve a 20 percent improvement in cycle times and 5 percent reduction in cost. As you implement, you’re concerned you’ll go through the whole process again—waste time and money—and still be in the same situation, yes?”
This is good. A good summary can get the buyer to see that a seller gets it. However, a seller’s questions—and the way in which they’re asked—are as much of a determinant of whether a buyer thinks the seller is competent in a given area. Ask questions the right way, and you will improve your chances of demonstrating to buyers that you get it.
Consider this. Researchers at the University of Memphis4 asked more than 100 students to think aloud as they tried to figure out what was wrong with a number of broken devices, including a dishwasher, an electronic bell, a clutch, and a few others.
They found that the questions the students asked as they thought about the device and what could be wrong with it were strong proxies for demonstrating understanding. The quality of the questions the students asked in the service of figuring out what was broken with each device indicated how well they understood the devices.
The students who were most knowledgeable about the actual workings of the devices were prone to ask questions that started with why, why not, how, what if, and what if not.
The researchers matched the students who asked these kinds of questions with tests of competence they later performed. Students with better knowledge asked these kinds of questions. (The students who were less knowledgeable asked questions such as, What kind of dishwasher is it?)
Of course, buyers are not going to test for your competence, but they certainly sense and measure your competence by the strength of the questions you ask. They notice.
As Jack Kline, president and chief operating officer, Christie Digital Systems USA, Inc., put it, “It’s evident in the quality of the questions a seller asks whether they did their homework on us and what we’re trying to get done. That they know their own offerings and how to apply them to my business. The sellers we don’t put much faith in ask shallow questions like they’re trying to check it off on a list, or they didn’t do their homework, or they’re simply out of their depth.”
If you use questions in the right way, not only can you learn what’s going on so that you can then paraphrase and demonstrate understanding with a summary, but you also demonstrate your understanding through the act of questioning itself.
Although it may be less important as a factor in sales success today, you might also deepen the buyers’ understanding of their need or get them thinking about something they hadn’t yet considered. Do either of these and you bring insight to the table.
As noted previously, insight selling hinges on the concept of cognitive reframing, or changing how someone thinks about something.
You can do this by presenting (advocacy), but you can also do it with questions (inquiry). More specifically, you can change how people think with disruptive questions. Disruptive questions test buyers’ ideas and assumptions about what’s happening and what’s possible. Disruptive questions make buyers think twice about—and often change—their strategies and agenda for actions.
Disruptive questions push buyers out of their comfort zones. When this happens, buyers often land square in the learning zone—exactly where new thinking and new points of view can help them become more successful.
If you want to educate with new ideas and perspectives, buyers have to be in the mind-set to learn (Figure 4.9).
Here are 11 starter questions (and question types) sellers can ask to—as Somers does—dig deep and use in the process of insight selling.
These types of questions lead buyers to say (or at least, think) things, such as, “Well, I wasn’t thinking of it like that.” When they do, you’ve achieved cognitive reframing: influencing the way they think and what they believe.
Influence buyers’ thinking with your thoughtful inquiry, and you can then influence their agendas for action. The trend in selling has been to do this only through advocacy. But never forget or dismiss the power of inquiry to do the same.
Finally, asking good questions and not just demonstrating understanding of—but truly understanding—the buyer’s need is necessary to craft a compelling solution. Let’s assume for a minute that you do. Most sellers look at their solution and think, “This is great. It’s perfect. This is exactly what they should do, and they’d be crazy not to do it.”
The seller may think this. It may, indeed, be true, but it’s not compelling until the buyer agrees it’s compelling. To reach this point, you have to convince buyers this is the case, which is the subject of our next chapter.
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