In many ways, writing this book has been a dream come true and a source of tremendous joy for me. When I started writing poems back in 10th grade, I couldn't envision doing this, so I am incredibly humbled and grateful for the opportunity to share this book with you. It is a culmination of all my personal and professional observations as someone who has lived in the intersections. None of this would have been possible without God, my lord and savior; I can't even count the ways I have felt Her presence. To my parents, Akinkunmi and Iyabosola Rockson, thank you for providing a stable home to always come back to, despite the ups and downs. I could always count on you two to send me inspirational videos, pictures, and/or articles to keep me going throughout the week. The perseverance, discipline, perspective, tough love, manners, respect, and so much more that you taught me have helped me succeed in life.

I'm also eternally grateful to my brothers, Dele and Tunde Rockson. Both of you challenged me to be a better leader, brother, and man. You both make me so proud with how much you do.

To Rob Kingyens, who took a chance on a freshly graduated young man in Virginia and again when I moved to New York City. You saw someone raw who you could mentor. Thank you for that!

To Sasha Reed, who was the first person to invest in me. I am still so humbled by how much of a chance you took on me. Thank you for seeing me even when I could not see myself.

To Charlotte Maiorana, for introducing me to John Wiley & Sons and to Karen Jaw-Madson, for your constant follow-up emails to make sure I got the attention of your publisher.

The time I spent writing this book would not have been complete without my amazing support system of friends. Gahmya Drummond-Bey, Kris Alanna Wilson A.K.A Purple, Zahra Ghazal Sakhi, Rachel Padmini Kumar, Amanda Joy, Liz Kleinrock, Daniella Veras, and Jenn Halweil. A very special thanks to you eight for the late nights, the encouragement, and the constant reminder of my ability to complete this book. We have been through so many things together. Thank you so much!

I'm forever indebted to both the late Nelson Mandela and Oprah Winfrey for inspiring me to embark on this journey as a speaker, writer, consultant, and media personality. I always wished I could meet you, Madiba, but I know I will soon enough. You taught me how to look at the bigger picture of life and to seek compassion. Oprah, you encouraged me to live my best life and, because of your platforms, I always found a home when I was lost. To Vicki Adang, for your editorial help and breathing life into my stories and anecdotes. To Jeanenne Ray, for taking a chance on me and helping me become part of the Wiley family.

Finally, the warmest of hugs to all those who have been a part of my getting here: Sandra Revueltas, Daniela Tudor, Roxana Colorado, Mimi Zheng, Lina Abisoghomyan, Mina Salib, Daniella Veras, and Austin Belcak.