URL of the page with a problem, your name, the exact problem, and
so on. Support your request with links to verifiable information that
agrees with your version of events. Avoid blaming the webmaster,
avoid making extreme allegations about how the false information got
started, and avoid calling anybody lazy or negligent. Instead, explain
how the information is false, and try to work positively to fix it.
You may be shocked, outraged, angry, and offended to find false
information about you online. These feelings are legitimate. How-
ever, you must control them when you are working to fix your online
reputation. This is especially true when you are contacting other peo-
ple to recruit their assistance in solving your online reputation crisis.
Think about the problem from their perspective: they don’t know
you, they may not know anything about the problem, and they al-
most certainly receive many requests to fix things every day. Many
webmasters and site administrators are reasonable and are happy to
work with the rare person who carefully explains the situation, ex-
plains why the content is false, and makes a clear request.
On the other hand, if you e-mail a webmaster using an angry or
accusatory tone, then she may just choose to ignore you—or she may
even make the problem worse by highlighting the problematic con-
tent. In other words, the old adage applies to online reputation as
much as to anything else: you get more positive results online with
honey than with vinegar.
See the sample letter on the next page.
Unfortunately, many sites do not make it easy to get in touch
with a human being; one of the main attributes of online sites is that
they don’t require constant staff presence (unlike a retail store, which
must have a handful of staff around anytime it is open). If you en-
counter a site that makes it hard to contact an administrator, try to
find the e-mail address of a human who might be responsible: Look
in any “about us” pages or even through investor documents if avail-
able. If you still haven’t had any luck, try a generic e-mail address
such as “administrator@,” “webmaster@,” “info@,” “help@,” or “ad-
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