The Master Strategy Revisited
As soon as you are aware that you are under stress, remember to do the following:
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Breathe.
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Relax.
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Assume a peaceful stance (it helps to smile).
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Be aware; observe your experience.
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Ask yourself, “Is there another way of looking at this?”
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Choose your response.
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To better enable yourself to follow the preceding six Master Strategy steps, practice the following techniques, strategies, and suggestions.
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Breathe from your diaphragm, slowly, deeply, and rhythmically.
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Practice active relaxation techniques; use progressive relaxation, and stretch your muscles daily if possible.
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Adopt the witnessing stance to facilitate your awareness.
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Cultivate the stress hardiness attitudes of control, commitment, and challenge.
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Approach life as a peaceful warrior.
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Use reframing strategies to shift your perceptions and/or work through anger.
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Identify, challenge, and replace irrational beliefs.
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Give yourself permission to be an optimist.
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Practice giving up the need to always be right. Learn to step into the shoes of the other person to assist you in this process.
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Learn to forgive, especially yourself.
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Eat a balanced diet.
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Get plenty of regular exercise.
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Experiment with high-tech relaxation tools.
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Assert yourself. Use the four-step framework to guide you in this process.
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Identify your unrealistic expectations about your workplace and challenge them. Learn to embrace change and make it your friend.
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Follow the six steps to thwart procrastination.
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Schedule your priorities rather than prioritize your schedule. Managing your time will then be a far easier process.
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When what you are doing isn't working, don't just try harder; do something different.
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Love yourself. Have fun, play, and laugh at yourself and the world around you.