The Master Strategy Revisited

As soon as you are aware that you are under stress, remember to do the following:

1.
Breathe.

2.
Relax.

3.
Assume a peaceful stance (it helps to smile).

4.
Be aware; observe your experience.

5.
Ask yourself, “Is there another way of looking at this?”

6.
Choose your response.

To better enable yourself to follow the preceding six Master Strategy steps, practice the following techniques, strategies, and suggestions.

  • Breathe from your diaphragm, slowly, deeply, and rhythmically.

  • Practice active relaxation techniques; use progressive relaxation, and stretch your muscles daily if possible.

  • Adopt the witnessing stance to facilitate your awareness.

  • Cultivate the stress hardiness attitudes of control, commitment, and challenge.

  • Approach life as a peaceful warrior.

  • Use reframing strategies to shift your perceptions and/or work through anger.

  • Identify, challenge, and replace irrational beliefs.

  • Give yourself permission to be an optimist.

  • Practice giving up the need to always be right. Learn to step into the shoes of the other person to assist you in this process.

  • Learn to forgive, especially yourself.

  • Eat a balanced diet.

  • Get plenty of regular exercise.

  • Experiment with high-tech relaxation tools.

  • Assert yourself. Use the four-step framework to guide you in this process.

  • Identify your unrealistic expectations about your workplace and challenge them. Learn to embrace change and make it your friend.

  • Follow the six steps to thwart procrastination.

  • Schedule your priorities rather than prioritize your schedule. Managing your time will then be a far easier process.

  • When what you are doing isn't working, don't just try harder; do something different.

  • Love yourself. Have fun, play, and laugh at yourself and the world around you.

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