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Arbitration: an impartial person is asked to make a decision on a
dispute.
In the UK, ACAS (Advisory, Conciliation and Arbitration
Service) is a non-departmental body, funded by government to
‘improve organisations and working life through better employment
relations’. They provide services to business and their website,
www.acas.org.uk, offers a wealth of valuable information.
There are also professional mediators and arbitrators who spe-
cialise in the whole range of personal and commercial issues.
Mediation
Workplace disputes can poison the atmosphere, leaving every one
miserable – not just the protagonists. You will want to resolve
the situation as quickly as possible: before the words ‘tri-
bunal’ or ‘solicitor’ are uttered, and
here mediation can help. A mediator
can often broker a resolution that
both parties will agree to. For small
disputes, some common sense and
patience can help people nd suf-
cient common ground to bury the
hatchet. If you choose to help, then here is a basic process.
Different mediators and different contexts mean that there is a
range of variations on this theme.
A mediation process
Let’s introduce the two people in conict as Person A, the
person who has declared the grievance, and Person B.
Step 1: Meet the rst person (usually A) and listen carefully to
their point of view and then conrm with A that they are pre-
pared to meet B.
Step 2: Now meet B. Sometimes, this meeting starts with
an agreement to pursue mediation; at other times, that
a mediator can often
broker a resolution that
both parties will agree
to