Secret 10: Construct Your Own Work-Life Reality
Pete Savage
 
Several years ago, while backpacking my way along Australia’s east coast, I decided one day to take some surfing lessons in the rolling Pacific waters that lap the country’s shoreline. I spent most of that morning attempting to follow instructions and stand upright on an uncooperative surf board. For hours, small ocean waves would rise invitingly beneath my surfboard, swell to just the right size, and roll majestically toward the shoreline without me on them. Time and again, in my attempts to stand up on the board, the ocean would toss, flip, heave, and dump me off. Being pummeled by wave after wave, I felt like an uncoordinated oaf. The reality, however, was that in every one of my failed attempts to stand up on the board, I was always just inches away from achieving a state of complete and total balance.
I know this because I actually did manage to stand up on that board and surf a wave, not once, but twice—and for at least 30 seconds each time!
Fast forward to 2004. Sitting in my home office, and feeling overwhelmed at the amount of work on my plate, I decided to buckle down and … clean my office. Lucky for me, I also listened to an audiobook, Ready for Anything: 52 Productivity Principles for Work and Life (Viking, 2003) by productivity expert David Allen. As I moved around my office, half listening to the audiobook while avoiding the real work that lay in front of me, Allen said something that made my ears perk up:
“The difference between riding a wave and being pummeled by it is smaller than you think.”
Instantly, my mind raced back to the warm coastal waters of Byron Bay and my 30-second stints as “surfer dude” atop those cresting waves. I thought about what I had just heard Allen say. And he was right.
On those two successful surfs, in those moments when I had gained my balance and actually surfed, it was because of minor, incremental adjustments to my body position. The distribution of my body weight among my feet, the rotation of my hips, the position of my head—when each of these things was off, even slightly, by a mere inch or two, I’d be dumped into the water. But when all these things were moved to where they should be, by way of a minor—not grandiose—movement of the spine … balance! The incremental difference in my posture made a quantum difference in my results. As Allen puts it, the difference between riding my wave and being pummeled by the wave was smaller than I thought.
That’s where a lot of us are when it comes to work-life balance. Somehow, we’ve come to believe that this state of harmony between our work and our personal lives is some elusive, far-away utopia. Wrong!
You are, right now, inches—not miles—away from enjoying work-life balance. It’s not in some far-off distant land. It’s as close to you as your feet, hips, and head.
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