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process standpoint, set an agenda, take notes, and write down action items for
each meeting. (Chapter 18, “Production Techniques,” has more information on
running useful meetings.)
For meetings to be effective, you have to think ahead about what needs to
be said and how it can best be communicated. For example, if you are discussing
some major gameplay changes with the team that just got handed down from
management, don’t start off the meeting by complaining about management and
how ridiculous these changes are. Instead, focus on the positive aspects of the
changes and present the reasons these changes were made to the team diplo-
matically. You don’t have to sugar-coat the reasons, just be sensitive to how this
information is presented so you don’t rile people up unnecessarily—people are
likely to respond better to positive rather than negative communication.
Also, make sure that you understand what people are telling you.
Communication is a two-way street, and if you misunderstand one of your team
members, it can reflect poorly on you. Active listening is a technique that en-
sures you have a better understanding of what you are being told. This technique
is not easy to do effectively the first time, but you will become more skilled with
practice. Active listening means you are actively engaged in what the person is
telling you and show this engagement by occasionally rephrasing what the per-
son said to you. You don’t need to rephrase everything they tell you; that would
become an annoyance to the person trying to talk, and they might feel you are
just parroting back their words, instead of listening to them. Instead, focus on
rephrasing the key points of what they are telling you. For example, if some-
one is complaining about a co-worker, you can say something like, “so, let me
make sure I understand this, Joe is giving you a hard time because he thinks you
are behind on your tasks, when in reality, Sam is behind, which is impacting your
work.” If you are correct, the person will show agreement and continue with his
conversation. If you are incorrect, the person will tell you the information again,
possibly in another way, until you rephrase back to him what he needs to hear.
This can work in the reverse as well. If you are presenting information to
someone, such as changes to the production schedule, wrap up the conversation
by asking what the changes are and how these will impact the person’s schedule.
It isn’t difficult to get someone to rephrase what was said to them, and if they
are incorrect, tell them the information in a different way until you are satisfied
they understand. In most cases, you should also follow up conversations with
key information and decisions with an email. This way, a written record is always
available for reference.
When you are verbally communicating with someone, keep in mind these
basics:
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Don’t mumble; be clear in your enunciation.
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Don’t talk in a low voice, especially during meetings.