Change the Way You Persuade

A summary of the full-length HBR article by Gary A. Williams and Robert B. Miller, highlighting key ideas.

THE IDEA IN BRIEF

Your proposal was brilliant; your logic, unassailable; your argument, impassioned. So why didn’t your boss buy it?

Perhaps you took a one-size-fits-all approach to persuasion. But different people use different styles when deciding to accept an idea: Each wants certain kinds of information, at specific steps in the process.

There are five common but distinct decision-making styles: charismatic, thinker, skeptic, follower, and controller. One decision-making style isn’t better than another. But to tip the outcome your way, understand your listener’s preferences—then tailor your persuasive efforts accordingly.

THE IDEA IN PRACTICE

Style

Decision-Maker’s Characteristics

Prominent Examples

Persuader’s Strategy

Examples of How to Approach Them

Charismatic

  • Easily enthralled, but bases decisions on balanced information
  • Emphasizes bottom-line results
  • Lee Iacocca
  • Herb Kelleher
  • Focus on results
  • Make straightforward arguments
  • Stress proposal’s benefits with visual aids
  • Diagram your current organization and the problem(s), proposed solution(s), and benefits—especially improved competitiveness
  • Explain potential challenges and risk of inaction
  • Provide detailed reports for your boss to review postpresentation

Thinker

  • Toughest to persuade
  • Cerebral, logical
  • Risk-averse
  • Needs extensive detail
  • Michael Dell
  • Bill Gates
  • Present market research, customer surveys, case studies, cost/benefit analyses
  • Help your boss understand all perspectives of a given situation
  • Present different options in detail in a face-to-face meeting
  • Explain your data-gathering methods
  • Present case studies of similar initiatives
  • Use a follow-up meeting to fill argument gaps and recommend optimum plan
  • Wait weeks, months for your boss’s decision

Skeptic

  • Challenges every data point
  • Decides based on gut feelings
  • Larry Ellison
  • Tom Siebel
  • Establish credibility ahead of time with your expertise; draw on positive previous work experiences
  • Get endorsements from someone your boss trusts
  • Copresent with a trusted colleague
  • Emphasize the credibility of your sources of information
  • Stroke your boss’s ego (“You’ve probably seen this case study...”)
  • Ground your argument in the real world

Follower

  • Relies on own or others’ past decisions to make current choices
  • Late adopter
  • Carly Fiorina
  • Peter Coors
  • Use testimonials to prove low risk
  • Present innovative, yet proven, solutions
  • Highlight case studies from other industries, but note “We could be the first in our industry to do this.”
  • Omit failed real-world examples (although you should have this information available should your boss request it)
  • Present multiple options
  • Tap your network for references to steer your boss toward your preferred choice; emphasize the option’s affordability, etc.

Controller

  • Unemotional, analytical
  • Abhors uncertainty
  • Implements only own ideas
  • Martha Stewart
  • Ross Perot
  • Present highly structured arguments
  • Make your boss “own” the data
  • Avoid aggressive advocacy
  • Over several months, send your boss customer reports, marketing studies, financial projections; give him everything he needs to build your case for you
  • Emphasize data highlighting the company’s challenge
  • Identify data contradictions, but let your boss analyze them
  • Wait for your boss to request a meeting after a significant incident (e.g., a large customer defects)

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Gary A. Williams is the CEO of Miller-Williams Incorporated, a San Diego-based customer research firm. He can be reached at [email protected]. Robert B. Miller is the chairman of Miller-Williams Incorporated. He is the co-author of several business books, including Strategic Selling. He can be reached at [email protected].


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