Communication Styles—An Introduction to Adaptive Selling

  1. 5.1 Discuss how communication style influences the relationship process in sales

Almost everyone has had the pleasant experience of meeting someone for the first time and developing an instant mutual rapport. There seems to be a quality about some people that makes you like them instantaneously—a basis for a mutual understanding that is difficult to explain. On the other hand, we can all recall meeting people who “turn us off” almost immediately. Why does this happen during the initial contact?

The impressions that others form about us are based on what they observe us saying and doing. They have no way of knowing our innermost thoughts and feelings, so they make decisions about us based on what they see and hear.3 The patterns of behavior that others observe can be called communication style. “Behavior styles” and “social styles” are additional terms frequently used to describe these patterns of behavior.

Adaptive selling, introduced in Chapter 2, is defined as altering sales behaviors in order to improve communication with the customer. It relates to a salesperson’s ability to collect information regarding the customer’s needs and to respond appropriately. Adaptive selling frequently requires complex behavioral adjustments.4 Adjusting one’s communication style in order to fit individual customer needs and preferences is an important element of adaptive selling.

Communication Style Bias

Bias in various forms is quite common in our society. In fact, local, state, and national governments have passed many laws to curb blatant forms of racial, age, and sex bias. We also observe some degree of regional bias when people from various parts of the country meet.

The most frequently occurring form of bias is not commonly understood in our society. What has been labeled communication style bias is a state of mind that almost every one of us experiences from time to time, but we usually find it difficult to explain the symptoms. Communication style bias can develop when we have contact with another person whose communication style is different from our own. For example, an account executive was overheard saying, “I do not know what it is, but I just do not like that purchasing agent.” The salesperson was no doubt experiencing communication style bias but could not easily describe the feeling.

Your communication style is the “you” that is on display every day—the outer pattern of behavior that others see. If your style is very different from the other person’s, it may be difficult for the two of you to develop a rapport. All of us have had the experience of saying or doing something that was perfectly acceptable to a friend or coworker and being surprised when the same behavior irritated someone else. However, aside from admitting that this happens, most of us are unable to draw meaningful conclusions from these experiences to help us perform more effectively with customers in the future.5

In recent years, thousands of sales professionals have learned to manage their selling relationships more effectively through the study of communication styles. Books, such as I’m Stuck, You’re Stuck by Tom Ritchey, People Styles at Work by Robert Bolton and Dorothy Grover Bolton, and The Versatile Salesperson by Roger Wenschlag, serve as good references. Many training companies offer seminars that provide enrollees with a practical understanding of communication style theory and practice. Wilson Learning (www.wilsonlearning.com) offers a program titled “The Versatile Salesperson.” This program helps salespeople develop the interpersonal skills necessary to work effectively with customers whose communication style is different from their own. More than seven million people worldwide have completed Wilson Learning programs that focus on communication styles.6

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