How Do You Apply Golden Rule No. 3 When Things Get Difficult?
When the opposing party is quite powerful, it can seem impossible to get something in return for essential concessions. That is a false impression, provided that you observe the following principles:
Start by deliberately asking for unacceptable compensation, thereby obliging your counterpart to justify his refusal. This is a means of getting back on the offensive and controlling the discussions so as to obtain realistic compensation more easily.
Seek compensation that is of little cost to the other party, including the formulation of quality requirements, changes to product specifications, and so on.
Accept a certain imbalance between concession and compensation. The weighting of concession and compensation broadly reflects the balance of power between buyer and seller. Even symbolic compensation is far preferable to a unilateral concession, for the five reasons quoted at the start of this chapter.
If necessary, group negotiating issues in blocks and exchange two or three essential concessions for one significant item of compensation.
Examples of Getting Something in Return for a Concession to Reduce the Price
For a Seller
• Larger volume
• Longer commitment
• Shorter credit periods
• A more beneficial means of payment
• More flexible technical specifications
• Customer to take on some of the supplier’s work
• Amendment to warranty terms
• Customer agreement to buy extra services or consumables
• Customer agreement to test or list another product
• Customer to prescribe or recommend the product to other potential customers
• Simplification of packaging
• Change to shipping terms and conditions
• Change to ordering system
• Lighter late delivery penalties (exemption period, rate, ceiling, etc.)
• Exclusive supplier status
For a Buyer
• Lower volume commitment
• Shorter commitment
• Longer credit periods
• A more beneficial means of payment
• Adjustment to technical specifications
• Supplier to take on some of the customer’s work
• Extension of warranty terms
• Beneficial agreement on extra services or consumables
• Beneficial agreement to test or list another product
• Supplier offers the customer an advantage over her other customers
• Change in packaging
• Change to shipping terms and conditions
• Change in the ordering system
• Tougher late delivery penalties (exemption period, rate, ceiling, etc.)
• Exclusive customer status, for a set period
Key Points to Memorize
• Any concession comes with getting something in return—that is an absolutely essential rule.
• Prepare a list of potential compensatory items before the negotiations.
• Start by identifying a preliminary question: “For your part, would you be prepared to look at the issue of…?”
• Formulate an opening: “If you [grant me such a specific concession], I could revise my position.”
• Formulate a counteroffer: “If you [grant me such a specific concession], here is precisely what I can offer you.”
• Under difficult circumstances, look for compensatory items that involve little cost for the other party.
Some Sensible Questions to Ask Yourself
In General
• What do I expect from my negotiating partners in exchange for a price adjustment?
• What else could I obtain in return for concessions made?
• Which are the most profitable items in the short term?
• Which are the most beneficial items in the long term?
• Which are the ones that seem most readily acceptable to the other party?
For a Particular Deal
• What are my negotiating partner’s “real needs”?
• What means could be imagined of meeting those “real needs”?
• What are the interests that I am seeking to defend?
• What are the best means of meeting them?
For example, a buyer tries to win staggered payments in order to ease his cash flow. The seller prefers a cash payment in order to limit risk. The seller could propose staggered payments, subject to the provision of a guarantee.