The Only One You Can Change Is You ◾ 95
“Eliza, really? Couldn’t you come up with something
better than that? You truly undermine the whole ‘presi-
dent and CEO’ persona when you start talking about
‘golden nuggets.’ What gives?”
Eliza smiled. “Okay, here’s the story in a nutshell:
When I was a kid, my parents took me and my little
brother and sister out west on a road trip. We stopped
someplace in Colorado or Montana and went to a Wild
West theme park . . . I even remember the name—
Frontier Town. Anyway, they had rides named ‘The
Gold Rush’ and ‘Smuggler’s Pass.’ They also had this
little chocolate stand where they sold gold foil-wrapped
chunks of chocolate . . . golden nuggets. The name of
the stand was ‘Eliza’s Golden Nuggets.’ After that, any
time I told my little brother or sister what to do, they
would say, ‘Is that another one of Eliza’s golden nug-
gets?’ or ‘Keep your golden nuggets to yourself, Eliza.’
So it just sort of stuck. It followed me to school . . . to
college . . . even to HDS Tech. I think I’ll be dispensing
out golden nuggets of some sort or another until I die.”
Dave laughed, “Well that makes complete sense.
Then Eliza’s golden nuggets they are and will always
be! So, lay them on me—gimme some gold, Eliza.”
“Okay!” said Eliza, laughing. “The rst is “You have
to be the change you seek.” You’ve heard me say it
before. This is what it means. If you want Claire to
like you and to trust you, you have to like and trust
her. Yes, you run the risk of her not returning the
favor in kind, but at least you tried. Take her to lunch.
Tell her how much you appreciate what her team
does and why. Give her positive feedback. Just like