Feedback for Claire ◾ 111
“Well, I think there are ve specic and distinct duties
of managers,” said Eliza as she ticked them off her ngers.
“1. Like you said, set clear and well-dened perfor-
mance expectations.
2. Ensure your employee has the tools, skills, and
knowledge to do what is expected of her. (And be
sure to listen . . . listen for her concerns, hesitations,
and acceptance.) We often forget to do this.
3. Monitor and observe the employee’s performance
frequently.
4. Provide frequent feedback—both positive and cor-
rective—and listen. This is where most of us fall
down in our managing responsibilities.
5. Celebrate (or hold the employee accountable for)
the performance that you observe, and listen.”
Eliza sat back and waited for a reaction from Claire.
“You have them listed in your head?” asked Claire.
“Actually, I do,” Eliza responded. “I’m very clear
about it because, otherwise, I get distracted by the
drama or the emotions or the stress of the day-to-day
responsibilities of being a leader. But I’ve found that if
I’m really clear about my duties, I can avoid a lot of the
muck that goes along with managing people.”
She continued. “Like I said, the one step that I think
most managers overlook most frequently is giving
effective feedback. Most managers reserve giving feed-
back for when they are trying to correct or punish a
behavior or action. And, even then, the feedback they
give is usually either insignicant or abusive. Yelling