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MAKING LOVE
Making love with a sexually fullling partner is one of the
great pleasures of being human. Our bodies, mind,
and spirit should all be involved in the best kind of physical
joy; however, it is not always experienced by those who
engage in sexual intercourse. Our dreams can reect that
joy—or deciency.
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Making Love
UNSATISFYING SEX WITH
YOUR CURRENT PARTNER
Yet again, your partner has left you unfullled
and angry after trying to make love. The
dream setting is gray and colorless, the
covers barely rued, and you climb out of
bed and walk away. Your partner calls
something out to you, which—though
mued—sounds as if they, too, are in distress.
Action Reect on your own part in the
diculties. Unless there is a physiological
reason for an inability to have sex, then
maybe shyness, a lack of condence,
embarrassment, or any and all can apply to
an unfullling time. It is up to you to
determine who needs encouragement and
how that might be achieved. Most
importantly, sit down and talk about it.
PASSIONATE SEX WITH
A FANTASY LOVER
You are alone in a quiet area and see a
powerfully attractive stranger. An instant
rapport springs up between the two of you,
and to your amazement, you are next making
glorious, sensual love. You’ve never known
such passion and are amazed at the intensity
of the encounter.
Action Your real-life partner may not look
like fantasy fodder, but they are as capable
as you of bringing more satisfaction into
your lives. Reect on why your psyche is
oering this blissful dream meeting—is it a
nudge to come down to earth and to
understand it’s possible here? Work on it!
MAKING LOVE WITH
AN EX-PARTNER
You meet your ex-partner or lover at a
gathering and nd yourselves talking. Old
memories come ooding back as you laugh
about the good times, forgetting the bad
ones. You make love. But it doesn’t work and
you wake up sad all over again, remembering
why the relationship ended.
Action It is time to move on. You had
unconsciously longed to reconnect
because you believed the partnership
brought all the qualities needed to make
you feel fully yourself. But the dream
showed clearly an end was inevitable. The
shock needed healing. This is now the
starting point to nd a new love.
YOU ARE MAKING LOVE
WITH A CELEBRITY
A famous person has chosen you for their
partner: you are enfolded in the arms of a
celebrity—because you, too, are one. Do you
see yourself as an equal, consorting with
other famous people?
Action This is probably a wishful dream, one
that reects a longing for glamor and
recognition. It’s easy to have an inated idea
of your appeal, in an unconscious search to
compensate for what you may be lacking in
your daily life. Perhaps it’s time to accept
that longing for the unlikely will only bring
you disappointment. Learn to be a
star in your own group.
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